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Hey Jill!
For us ladies, it is not about fear of rejection OR how others gonna think when they find out We asked the man out, instead of him asking us out, n' it's not about how this man think of us when we initiate. As a matter of fact some men won't mind the lady to initiate. And some ladies think its also our right to initiate, why it's only the man's right?
But the thing is, a Godly woman is a lady! she's humble, loving, graceful, who carries herself with respect. She shouldn't go out of her way to make herself obvious to a specific man, because God will bring him right at her door if that's God's plan for them! It is something from God's hands and He will bring it to you without you doing any effort!
A Godly man on the other hand should get over his fear and see that you deserve him taking the risk of asking you out when you might reject him. This should not intimidate or stop him from asking you because if he can't deal with this feeling now, how would he deal with it later, let's say after marriage when facing bigger issues in life??
However, I don't think it is wrong to give him the green light OR even if you feel you two are on the same page, you can humbly and gracefully mention something and see how he reacts.
For us ladies, it is not about fear of rejection OR how others gonna think when they find out We asked the man out, instead of him asking us out, n' it's not about how this man think of us when we initiate. As a matter of fact some men won't mind the lady to initiate. And some ladies think its also our right to initiate, why it's only the man's right?
But the thing is, a Godly woman is a lady! she's humble, loving, graceful, who carries herself with respect. She shouldn't go out of her way to make herself obvious to a specific man, because God will bring him right at her door if that's God's plan for them! It is something from God's hands and He will bring it to you without you doing any effort!
A Godly man on the other hand should get over his fear and see that you deserve him taking the risk of asking you out when you might reject him. This should not intimidate or stop him from asking you because if he can't deal with this feeling now, how would he deal with it later, let's say after marriage when facing bigger issues in life??
However, I don't think it is wrong to give him the green light OR even if you feel you two are on the same page, you can humbly and gracefully mention something and see how he reacts.