Should Christians leave tips for waiters and waitresses?

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mystdancer50

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Yeah...the title says it all. :) Should we tip waitstaff? What amount should we tip them?
 
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Ugly

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Why shouldn't we? Not sure how it's a Christian topic.
Sad reality is many places give lower pay to their wait staff because they figure it will be compensated by tips. So tips have actually become a form of paycheck. As long as the waiter/waitress does an adequate job, i tip. If they do a really good job, i tip a little more.
I say tip according to what you can afford, the place, the service. Personally i just average $2. $3 if they do a better job. I can't afford to spend much on tips, or even afford to often eat at places where there is a tipped wait staff.
 
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Sorry if that sounded snotty. haha. That first line didn't come across very nice.
 
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kennethcadwell

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I believe we should tip based on how they perform there job, do to every penny counts these days and a lot of waiters and waitresses get low balled in salary.

I do not believe in tip sharing as a lot of places have gone to, because that means even the bad staff will get the same amount of tips as the good staff gets. Should it also be a set amount like 5% or 10%...no I don't believe that either cause that would still mean a bad waiter/waitress would get the same amount. It should be left up to the person that was served how much to give.
 

Nautilus

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I tip roughly 20% whenever I go out to eat and have someone waiting on me. I do the same at bars. These people rely on their tips to make a living. If you can't afford to tip well then you shouldnt bother going out in the first place. Even if the service is below my standards I'll still leav about 15% because you don't know whats going on in their life, maybe they are just in a rough spot and its a lot for them to handle at the time. Everyone has bad points. Of course for great service I've tipped up to 50%.
 
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I've only eaten out a few times by myself, but I'll usually tip at around 25% of a given bill for adequate service. It's generally considered courteous, and as mentioned above, it does support lower-class individuals that may be financially struggling.
 
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Honestly, I think it would be unchristian to not leave a tip.
 
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Tintin

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I live in Australia and our culture is somewhat different to the US, we don't tip here. The money the waiters etc. make is included in the total price of the food/drink etc. If were to go to America though, I feel it would be rude not to tip good service 25% or so of the overall cost of the meal.
 

crossnote

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Old school...a tip and a tract.
...never just a tract...bad witness.
 
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biscuit

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Yeah...the title says it all. :) Should we tip waitstaff? What amount should we tip them?

They have to eat too! and make a living. Excellent service 33%, good to fair 25% and poor service 10-15%.
 
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oldthennew

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my husband and I give what we are led to give from our hearts
in any situation in life that comes along, and we consider these
opportunities for tithing/sharing, we cherish them.
 

mystdancer50

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So, why do you think you should tip, besides the obvious half minimum wage an hour (which isn't as common as it used to be, by the way)? If waitstaff is paid minimum wage, just like all other basic jobs, would you still tip? Why not tip McDonald's employees or the chef at the restaurant?
 

crossnote

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or who else get your tips?

Taxi drivers?
Barber/hairdresser?
valet?

who doesn't?

boxboy?
mailman?
UPS/FedEx
 

posthuman

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i worked as a dishwasher for a long time when i was younger.

on more than one occasion eating out with my dishwasher friends, i've remarked on the cleanliness of the flatware and tipped the dishwasher. a good one is hard to find.
 

crossnote

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i worked as a dishwasher for a long time when i was younger.

on more than one occasion eating out with my dishwasher friends, i've remarked on the cleanliness of the flatware and tipped the dishwasher. a good one is hard to find.
That was my first 'real' job at 14. ...$25 for 20 hours...no tips :(
 
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I always tip waitstaff at sit-down restaurants where someone brings the food and drinks to the table, comes back to check on us, etc. Fast food places where you don't really have a waitress, no. I'm not sure who made up the rules... I'd really prefer to just have everything built into the cost so there's no guesswork, but it IS nice sometimes to be able to tip according to the service given, if it was extremely wonderful or utterly lacking.

Other services I tip for would be taxi rides, haircuts, bellboys or valets, street musicians and party entertainers. I'm a party entertainer myself, and though it's rare, some people do give tips. I never expect tips, but I've had people insist that I take them based on how pleased they were with my skills or services.

It is odd that some service professions get tipped and others don't. I don't really know what the set "rules" or expectations are. Many are just unclear.
 

Atwood

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Love your neighbor as yourself.

IMHO:
Waiters are unlikely to receive more than peanuts from their employer, and they have to pay tax on what the IRS assumes are tips. Christians especially should be generous restaurant tippers.

Freely you have received, freely give.
 

crossnote

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If we follow Europe's lead, tips will be built into the bill automatically...you know, forced Socialism.
 

mystdancer50

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This shows that some states require all employers to pay minimum wage to all employees before tips. Then you see the ones that don't and the ones that make $2.13 an hour. What do you think about this with tipping? Many are under the belief that all waitstaff makes pennies and needs tips, but this shows us otherwise.

http://www.dol.gov/whd/state/tipped.htm

Let me take one moment to state that I am not against tipping. :) I tip waiters and random other folks in the service realm.
 
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sassylady

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Seems a Christian should be the first person to bless somebody in a situation where we have been waited on or helped. I'm not sure what the standard amount is, maybe 20%, but I almost always go more than that. I feel bad for them because many people think it is funny to not tip at all. And if you can afford to eat out you can afford to go the extra mile and give to the person who took care of you.

I dated a man once who never left a tip, and as I got to know him that told me a lot along with a bunch of other things. I always carried money with me so I could slip something under the placemat for the wait person.