What would you say,,, if just a friend asked your to marry him, I would say,,,,

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jkalyna

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Yes, no maybe, what are the choices in life? What does life offer, what is life, where is God, too many questions, like a maze, life isn't about*figuring*it out, it's about living, loving, and laughing, that's what I think anyway,,, maybe that's why I wasn't good at math, I couldn't care less to*figure*it out. ha ha*

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jkalyna

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WEre risen spiritually from the dead. Once we were dead, and now were alive.*
Do you believe that?*
It says this in the word,
So real life starts when the grave wraps come off.
Yeah,
Better than dope.

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jkalyna

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Things go in different directions here, and in different colors.
When I was 18, I met someone, and it was the exact right time, as I left home, for a while, because of family issues. I met someone, and he proposed to me, and I said yes. I wanted someone to love me, growing up in a suburban town, everyone worked, and worked real hard, it was like not like today, everyone worked, and everyone had their own homes, but the stress of it, sometimes it would be better to live in the amazon jungles, without much.
When he took me to meet his mom, and no I did not commit fornication with him, he was a lot older, secure with a job, a car, and planned to buy a house, when we got married. All this at 18. But guess what happened when I met his mother, she had him tied so tight to her apron strings, that instead of welcoming me, and hugging me, and inviting me to dinner, she didn't give me neither, not even a glass of water, but said only this, "but she's so young." I was betrothed to him standing there with the engagement ring on and was treated like nothing.
Those words of fire, started something burning inside, and it wasn't love.
The bible talks about the tongue as disorderly member of the body, that no man could control, and it set the very forest on fire, as from the gates of hell.
I didn't feel, welcomed, because of my age, I accepted the Lord, a few years back, and to have married him, would of been every girls dream, a house, a husband, and someone that would love you, and you love him.
I didn't feel comfortable and not accepted. He never even apologized for his mother's behavior, and seeing it now, it was just apron string mammas boy.
Posting these pictures, of a fighter jet inside the cock pit. Do you think you could drive this. It's like life, sometimes it seems overwhelming, and you don't know what to do, or what handle to use to switch your life into the "everything is o.k. mode."
Life doesn't teach us lessons like that, we learn it from our mistakes, and perseverance, and determination.
When words, like malware or viruses affect our spirit, it could take a wrong turn, and a big mistake, like sitting in the cockpit, and not knowing what to do.
I pray in situations like that, I won't tell some body else what to do, unless their family, but God said he has a plan for our life, a good one, if we trust him, and let him take control.
Just like mammas apron fever strings were never cut, he never married, and we did break up because he just didn't want to upset his mother, and ended up living with her, instead of having a life, of his own.
People could be used by the devil, to discourage, doubt, and destroy what God want's in our life.
Just as the photo of the jet breaking apart in flames, so did our relationship, and mama has her boy, and he has a broken heart, and I listened to his mother's mouth, more than to my heart. I always look back on that, in regret in a way, but then it was a blessing not to be in a family that is cold.
They say follow your heart, sometimes that is the only way to fly in life, because I believe God puts desires, in there, as his plan.
It needs to be felt as peace, if it's not, then it isn't what he wants.
Other's should be loving , encouraging, and respectful to LOVE.
It there not, they do not know God, for God is love, and it says
He that loveth not knowth not God, for God is love.
Starting forest fires in hearts and lives is criminal behavior, and people who do such get locked up. Though there is freedom of speech, don't be so loose with the words, because they will come back, either in blessings or curses back upon you, "it is written those who curse you shall be cursed, those who bless you shall be blessed, it is the same with everyone.
This is God's Judgement with words, he avenges back, though he doesn't lock people up, he lets them lock themselves up.
What so ever a man sows that he will reap, bible verse.
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How much will it cost you? LOL
 

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Things go in different directions here, and in different colors.
When I was 18, I met someone, and it was the exact right time, as I left home, for a while, because of family issues. I met someone, and he proposed to me, and I said yes. I wanted someone to love me, growing up in a suburban town, everyone worked, and worked real hard, it was like not like today, everyone worked, and everyone had their own homes, but the stress of it, sometimes it would be better to live in the amazon jungles, without much.
When he took me to meet his mom, and no I did not commit fornication with him, he was a lot older, secure with a job, a car, and planned to buy a house, when we got married. All this at 18. But guess what happened when I met his mother, she had him tied so tight to her apron strings, that instead of welcoming me, and hugging me, and inviting me to dinner, she didn't give me neither, not even a glass of water, but said only this, "but she's so young."
Those words of fire, started something burning inside, and it wasn't love.
The bible talks about the tongue as disorderly member of the body, that no man could control, and it set the very forest on fire, as from the gates of hell.
I didn't feel, welcomed, because of my age, I accepted the Lord, a few years back, and to have married him, would of been every girls dream, a house, a husband, and someone that would love you, and you love him.
I didn't feel comfortable and not accepted. He never even apologized for his mother's behavior, and seeing it now, it was just apron string mammas boy.
Posting these pictures, of a fighter jet inside the cock pit. Do you think you could drive this. It's like life, sometimes it seems overwhelming, and you don't know what to do, or what handle to use to switch your life into the "everything is o.k. mode."
Life doesn't teach us lessons like that, we learn it from our mistakes, and perseverance, and determination.
When words, like malware or viruses affect our spirit, it could take a wrong turn, and a big mistake, like sitting in the cockpit, and not knowing what to do.
I pray in situations like that, I won't tell some body else what to do, unless their family, but God said he has a plan for our life, a good one, if we trust him, and let him take control.
Just like mammas apron fever strings were never cut, he never married, and we did break up because he just didn't want to upset his mother, and ended up living with her, instead of having a life, of his own.
People could be used by the devil, to discourage, doubt, and destroy what God want's in our life.
Just as the photo of the jet breaking apart in flames, so did our relationship, and mama has her boy, and he has a broken heart, and I listened to his mother's mouth, more than to my heart. I always look back on that, in regret in a way, but then it was a blessing not to be in a family that is cold.
They say follow your heart, sometimes that is the only way to fly in life, because I believe God puts desires, in there, as his plan.
It needs to be felt as peace, if it's not, then it isn't what he wants.
Other's should be loving , encouraging, and respectful to LOVE.
It there not, they do not know God, for God is love, and it says
He that loveth not knowth not God, for God is love.
Starting forest fires in hearts and lives is criminal behavior, and people who do such get locked up. Though there is freedom of speech, don't be so loose with the words, because they will come back, either in blessings or curses back upon you, "it is written those who curse you shall be cursed, those who bless you shall be blessed, it is the same with everyone.
This is God's Judgement with words, he avenges back, though he doesn't lock people up, he lets them lock themselves up.
What so ever a man sows that he will reap, bible verse.
:)
You think with you mind but you act with your heart. Thank God that you did not end up marrying a mama's boy. I believe that God does indeed put all of the desires of your heart that you allow Him to place there. This was an outstanding post.
 

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you're gay, at least that's what you've been telling me all these years.
 
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JesusLives

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Perhaps he was a closet heterosexual :)
Nope, this is a real live friend and he is open about it. Although in the 19 years I have known him I have not observed him living that life style for which I am thankful. I prayed one time that if there was no possibility for Dan to be saved that the Lord would remove him from my life. Dan is still around all these years later so God must have a plan for his salvation. I just keep being his friend and praying for his salvation.
 

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Nope, this is a real live friend and he is open about it. Although in the 19 years I have known him I have not observed him living that life style for which I am thankful. I prayed one time that if there was no possibility for Dan to be saved that the Lord would remove him from my life. Dan is still around all these years later so God must have a plan for his salvation. I just keep being his friend and praying for his salvation.
God bless you for doing this.
 
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jkalyna

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jkalyna You have a spirit within you that only Jesus would put there, rest in the peace you have. ****

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But to answer the question: , I would say, your feet smell, you never clean up after you and you have a big nose. You never brush your hair, you have so much facial hair I can't see your face and have I mentioned that your feet smell, look your shoes are melting.
*you made me laugh, I'm good. People should try looking at other's as humans, not a number or age, mother, or father, or manager etc. All it is really is not seeing beyond. WEre human, maybe some havn't seen. There's a scripture that says, the Lord called them blind, the blind, leading the blind. Looking with your natural eyes, is what the world does, looking at others inside, you see something not with your eyes, and you don't even need to wear glasses. The power of Love,, :)*

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jkalyna

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I'm not a coffee freak, sometimes I luv it, there's a saying, men are like the best coffee, rich, smooth, warm and keep you up,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,. *lol *lollllll. alone-girl-sunset-Favim.com-196158.jpg alone-girl-sunset-Favim.com-196158.jpg

 
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jkalyna

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I'm not a coffee freak, sometimes I luv it, there's a saying, men are like the best coffee, rich, smooth, warm and keep you up,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,. *lol *lollllll. View attachment 86071 View attachment 86071

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