No, I am saying his life experiences were all very different from mine.
No, what happened with Peter Hitchens is that he never quite got over his fear of hell. As he got older and his mortality began to weigh upon him more this fear increased and eventually overcame him. The only way he could elevate it was by returning to the Anglican Church and seeking the salvation of Christ.
I understand his plight in that the same fear once consumed me and brought me back to God at age sixteen. You understand well, I am sure, that this fear of hell is taught at a very young age to children, and whether they learn it implicitly, or explicitly, the fear is real and it is very hard to shake. As the song lyric says, "I know there ain't no heaven, but I pray their ain't no hell." The American philosopher Susan Sontag once argued that no atheist could rest content until that last dragon was slain, and the dragon she meant was the fear of hell.
A few years back I chatted at length with a fellow atheist about this very issue. He had not gotten over this latent fear and wondered how I had been able to shake it. It was not faith, or knowledge, or life experience that brought Peter Hitchens back to God -- it was the emotion of fear that started him on that road. It was not logic. It was not rationality. His experience does not apply to me. His experience had nothing to do with Francis Collins finding God. Every atheist who returns to God does so for a different reason, as does every Christian who moves away from belief. All experiences are unique. It is a mistake to generalize.