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Now, I am not saying ALL guys. I am sure there are a good handful of guys that are pure and godly, but at this point of what I witness, it seems very rare. It disgusts me when guys seem to like making sexual jokes all the time, or talking how big a girl's butt is, and has a nice package for a one night stand or whatever. I'm tired of hearing inappropriate stuff, and it seems rampant in my supposedly Christian school. I do admit there was a time where I laughed at extremely inappropriate jokes from both guys and girls, but it's now I come to a point where I feel bad to laugh at such crass words, even if it is just for kidding around. It seems like everything in our society is about sex, and being I am very much exposed to it from watching TV accidentally or peers, now I have struggled into having a dirty mind occasionally, which I do not entertain, but feel disgusted when I get them. I do attribute people I know of being a factor of getting such thoughts that I have gotten, because that's how they talk majority of the time. I have become skeptical of all guys, even the Christian ones because who knows what they do in private or have control of their thoughts, especially younger guys. That's why I have never had a boyfriend or considered any relationship this age, because I am cautious of guys and their actions. I just feel like they all have lust on their mind and don't care, even if they say theyre chrisitian.
For example, I was on twitter the other day and some Christian guys I know from school retweet (liked) several pics of a girl showing her breasts or butt that looked so photoshopped. Ive always thought if a guy is transformed by Christ, they would have no interest to like indecent photos of women. They have even tweeted stuff in a jokingly manner like, "girls who send booty picc without me asking are a blessing" or "nudes are welcome" ...these are the same guys who also say, "God comes first" and "Thank God for waking me up today and giving me life" ...I don't know, its just things like this that is making me lose huge disinterest in the guy population, because they all seem to have one thing on their mind even they aren't as explicit about it as others. Most guys have never viewed me as more than a friend, because I am very innocent looking and innocent minded who has higher standards and believes in not getting very intimate with a guy when it comes to dating. But It's whatever. Your thoughts?
For example, I was on twitter the other day and some Christian guys I know from school retweet (liked) several pics of a girl showing her breasts or butt that looked so photoshopped. Ive always thought if a guy is transformed by Christ, they would have no interest to like indecent photos of women. They have even tweeted stuff in a jokingly manner like, "girls who send booty picc without me asking are a blessing" or "nudes are welcome" ...these are the same guys who also say, "God comes first" and "Thank God for waking me up today and giving me life" ...I don't know, its just things like this that is making me lose huge disinterest in the guy population, because they all seem to have one thing on their mind even they aren't as explicit about it as others. Most guys have never viewed me as more than a friend, because I am very innocent looking and innocent minded who has higher standards and believes in not getting very intimate with a guy when it comes to dating. But It's whatever. Your thoughts?