Welcome Sammybots29 to CC. I became a single mom when my kids were 4,5 and 9. I learnt how to juggle work, my kids, running my home simply by resting in Christ. He became my healer, my redeemer, the restorer of my soul. Spending time resting in Him helped me to focus and prioritise. I learnt to love myself more ( not beat myself up if I messed the day up!) Those that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength (those that don't wont). I would pray asking God would restore anything I messed up, I took each day as it came and I have to say thoroughly enjoyed those years as my kids grew! Biggest thing is to really trust Him. He wants us to enter His rest, trusting He is working for our good, that he has good plans for us and that he really does love us UNconditionaly. Those truths are life changing once accepted and believed. Try not to over think things but trust in His love for you. Blessings