Single Men It's Time to Step Up!

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AgeofKnowledge

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This thread is dead because too many here can't handle the truth and have resorted to fallacious attacks. Since there's little reason to stay (the discussion would simply be dominated by the fallacious attacks of people who can't handle the truth), I'm moving on to another topic in another thread. Au Revoir.
 
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1still_waters

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This thread is dead because too many here can't handle the truth and have resorted to fallacious attacks. Since there's little reason to stay (the discussion would simply be dominated by the fallacious attacks of people who can't handle the truth), I'm moving on to another topic in another thread. Au Revoir.
3. The legal contract of marriage has been fundamentally altered to such an extent that men are materially disempowered on the one hand yet forced on the other to assume enormous liabilities that carry serious civil and criminal charges which can render them poor and incarcerated."
http://www.unc.edu/courses/2006fall/econ/586/001/Readings/Brinig.pdf
Hi AOK.


Below you made the following assertion basically showing that women have huge advantages in divorce over men.


You gave this source to prove the advantage of divorce for women.
http://www.unc.edu/courses/2006fall/econ/586/001/Readings/Brinig.pdf


Yet the source you gave to prove advantage of divorce for women said.


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So, the source you cite to prove women have all these advantages from divorce, doesn't necessarily prove that point.
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1still_waters

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This thread is dead because too many here can't handle the truth and have resorted to fallacious attacks. Since there's little reason to stay (the discussion would simply be dominated by the fallacious attacks of people who can't handle the truth), I'm moving on to another topic in another thread. Au Revoir.
[h=2]fal·la·cious[/h] adjective \fə-ˈlā-shəs\: containing a mistake : not true or accurate

Fallacious - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary

mmmhmmm

I also sense an anti-intellectual bias at work in your replies.
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hoss2576

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This thread is dead because too many here can't handle the truth and have resorted to fallacious attacks. Since there's little reason to stay (the discussion would simply be dominated by the fallacious attacks of people who can't handle the truth), I'm moving on to another topic in another thread. Au Revoir.
This is how bored I was. You has posted 70 times in this thread. 70 different posts but it all comes down to one thought from you - "women are evil, men beware." See, I did it in 5 words and 1 post. LOL
 

Lynx

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He's stepping up, but I don't see any dishes being washed. :rolleyes:

And Inu, if you peek in here, this is the thread Roh_Chris was talking about where refugees from the BD forum snuck in. Look at the OP and then see where it has come to from there. It's a wonder the person who started the thread doesn't need psychological help after this mess.
 

Roh_Chris

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He's stepping up, but I don't see any dishes being washed. :rolleyes:
Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!!

He would have washed the dishes if he was not commanded to do it by his mom, a woman. The declining trend of men who wash dishes is because the women are forcing them to do it. There are more men not interested in washing dishes than there were in the 60's and 70's.

Maybe women should really think about this. Do not force men to wash dishes - it will definitely help in reversing the trend.
 

Lynx

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Maybe that explains my aversion to dish washing. I was born in '78.
 

zeroturbulence

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Yea, he's probably just looking for his sippy cup. :rolleyes:
 

DuchessAimee

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I took a short break from this forum because of nonsense like this. I'm honestly heartbroken that it has not only continued, but it has amplified. When I first signed up on CC this forum was ALWAYS fun. Every thread was worth while. Every thread was friendly, and dare I say, bordered on whimsical. But now... it's becoming the Bible Forum. And almost everyone on this site can't stand that forum!! For goodness sake people DON'T FEED THE TROLLS. We know who they are! Stop!



Now for something completely different...



 

Elizabeth619

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Can someone summarize what this threads about? Im
not about to read through all this
 
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Can someone summarize what this threads about? Im
not about to read through all this
Basically young single men aren't stepping up to be married. Some blame feminism, some blame statistics, some blame the Bible Discussion Forum, some blame eachother, and some just like to play the clown. Nothing too out of the ordinary for the Singles Section Forum.
 
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Ha! Ha! Ha!

Well, here I go: If any lady wants to marry me, please, let me know about it (an open invitation, which expires on June 29th).

Here is one coward (or oppressed)

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The first post I wrote just now (and promptly deleted after a change of heart) complained bitterly about the passivity of men in the Christian community. I had written a similar post a few years ago regarding single men and their lacklustre approach towards single women, leaning heavily on my own frustrating experiences with men who always admired from afar but were too chicken to actually approach me. I'm not gonna be easy... and no woman who is worth it is gonna be easy for you, stallion.

In my experience beautiful Christ-centred women (I know many!) are sitting there waiting for a Christ-centred man to approach them, to make a move, to be a leader, to fight... and yet there they sit waiting and waiting and the men don't come. Why is this happening? Where are you guys?

Women still want men to lead them. This means being an initiator of the relationship. Don't give us that "it's the 21st Century" spiel. WE. WANT. YOU. TO. LEAD.

Men are not preparing themselves to be the men they should be. That means morally, financially, spiritually and relationally.
The key words here are apathy and cowardice. Does this sound like you or somebody you know?

Lastly, this life is a journey. Take a risk, trust in God, surround yourself with other Christians and meet single women, befriend us and don't be afraid of us! If you want to be loved then you must first love. Ask yourself this: If you believe God has already met you in the depths of your soul then what have you got to lose? Open your hearts, gents. We are waiting for you and we love you!
I have a son that is called into the ministry. The first girl he went steady with he met in church. He got her pregnant & now pays child support for his daughter. Turns out she was the problem, cuz she now has 3 girls from 3 daddies in the last 5 years. She doesn't work & lives entirely off her different boyfriends, the daddies & the govt.

About 2 yr ago he met another woman in church & after several months got engaged. She turned out to be quite a hypocrite, a deceiver, & a manipulator.

Just recently, he started dating his best friend's sister whom he had known several years, whom he was sure she walked the talk & is more mature. So far, so good.:)


If anyone wants to know why men are so scared, backward, & not looking for a mate, there are 4 places to visit that will give you all the answers:
1. The projects. Count how many single/divorced women are there with children from multiple partners. Over 70%.

2. Child custody court. Count how many women without jobs are taking children away from fathers who are working & responsible. Should I really have to mention over 90% of women get custody regardless of the facts?

3. Divorce courts. It doesn't matter whether christian or not, the divorce rate is rising. Do I really need to mention who wins in the majority of divorce cases? Who is it that loses nearly everything in most of them? The men.

4. The church. Men & women both are more immature & worldly minded in these last days, so finding a true christian mate is similar to panning for gold in the sewer.

The men in these situations have the most to lose..... their houses, cars, children, while still paying child support. So yeah, there are guys out there that won't step up. If I were young & single today, I would probably back away.
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