Why we still single?

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setapartgirl

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Siberian_Khatru said:
Oh don't be so melodramatic. :p

There's always risk in carnal relationships. People are...difficult. But I believe there's always a ghost of a chance we can find someone to love and, hopefully, make it last.
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I agree with you, what i mean was... i am a girl, and i am the one looking for love,i did it on my own, instead letting God, be God. And....that was my mistake.. i should seek HIS KINGDOM first, not seeking a man. That's what i mean.
 
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setapartgirl

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Mo0448 said:
I agree Agricola...

The truth is...we need to be content with ourselves in Christ first and foremost because if we aren't...we end up assuming that an individual or significant other will be the one that fulfills us or makes us complete...too many of us (myself included at one point) believe that God has this "soul mate" (stupid term) out there for us...our "soul mate" is Jesus Christ...not Jane Doe, John Smith or whoever...it's Jesus and we already have him! Putting that into perspective, means changing what we are "looking" for. Instead of someone who will "complete" you, look for someone who sees you through the eyes of Jesus and will want to walk with you drawing you both closer and into a more intimate relationship with Christ...a marriage is not a 2 person thing...a marriage is Jesus you and that significant other...
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I agree..marriage is all about Christ..it is not all about john smith or jane doe, all eyes are on Jesus, Let God be God..
 
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Mitspa

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CarolSampaio said:
Let's face it... it's just hard!!

If you don't really know what the other person is thinking, will you just go there and say "hey, I like you..." and stuff?

I'm very self councious about it... I usually tend to think that the other person is just being polite or friendly... I'm the best at spoting someone interested in na third party, but I never assume someone is interested in me... :/

Maybe that's why I'm single... hehehehe
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Well now you know :)
 
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Mitspa

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shineyourlight said:
Okay. So, lie. Hopefully that works out for ya ;) ;)
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Really I was joking ...(folks on this forum need to relax by the way) but I have found that real honesty only comes when real trust has been established.
 
chattychicken

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God will find someone when the time is right. I found my husband in 1993 and we married in 2001. Sadly he passed in 2013 from pneumonia following Alzheimer's. But I know that if God wants me to meet someone it will be in His time. Just be yourself and don't LOOK for a relationship, just enjoy companionship..
 
shineyourlight

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Mitspa said:
Really I was joking ...(folks on this forum need to relax by the way) but I have found that real honesty only comes when real trust has been established.
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And by folks, you mean me :p

Mitspa, I was kidding, too! :) I'm sorry if I didn't come off as that. I knew you were kidding, so I was kidding right back atcha.

I'm following. I promise! You're wonderful. :)
 
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Mitspa

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shineyourlight said:
And by folks, you mean me :p

Mitspa, I was kidding, too! :) I'm sorry if I didn't come off as that. I knew you were kidding, so I was kidding right back atcha.

I'm following. I promise! You're wonderful. :)
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Thanks sis...just folks been so touchy lately on here...takes all the fun out of it when you cant just joke around :(
 
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Mitspa

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chattychicken said:
God will find someone when the time is right. I found my husband in 1993 and we married in 2001. Sadly he passed in 2013 from pneumonia following Alzheimer's. But I know that if God wants me to meet someone it will be in His time. Just be yourself and don't LOOK for a relationship, just enjoy companionship..
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chatting chicken...cool name :) Hi Im Mitspa
 
shineyourlight

shineyourlight

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Mitspa said:
Thanks sis...just folks been so touchy lately on here...takes all the fun out of it when you cant just joke around :(
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Oh, I get it. Well, you can joke around all you want with me. I definitely can pick up on your sarcasm!

Now, let's get this thing MOOOOVING :) :) :) :)
 
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