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LiJo

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It would actually be really cool to have a "CC Prom" in which we could all get together and celebrate either past memories or make up for anything we missed...

On one side of the room we'd have a banquet and dance floor for "traditional prom-mers"... And on the other side we'd have a large-screen TV and video game center for those who wanted to to spend prom time gaming (or watching games).

Hmm... whom should I ask? (Who would the unfortunate victim be... :cool:)
Seoul, I nominate you to coordinate prom for CC :rolleyes:
 
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#22
I was asked by a couple of people, I never went. Didn't see the point to it.
 

seoulsearch

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Seoul, I nominate you to coordinate prom for CC :rolleyes:
Years ago a very wonderful and dedicated CC member here spearheaded a real-life CC Nationwide Meetup. It was going to be a huge 3-day event--they were going to have praise teams, events, activities--the whole shebang.

But no one would commit. This poor person had everything lined up and everyone backed out. I shudder to think what expenses they may have had to pay out of their own pocket, and I learned a lot of lessons from that.

If I ever led any kind of meetup, the first requirement would be a deposit, refundable only when all commitments were made.

Which of course, would immediately kill everyone's interest!
 
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Years ago a very wonderful and dedicated CC member here spearheaded a real-life CC Nationwide Meetup. It was going to be a huge event--they were going to have praise teams come in and everything.

But no one would commit. This poor person had everything lined up and everyone backed out. I learned a lot of lessons from that.

If I ever led any kind of meetup, the first requirement would be a deposit, refundable only when all commitments were made.

Which of course, would kill everyone's interest!
Oh, that's sad. I have heard about some meetups before. Have you ever been involved in one?
 

jsr1221

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I never went to prom.. I find out a few years later, though, a girl from a different school I met through my cousin and bowling would have gone with me had I asked. Turned out she had a crush on me at the time.. Now she's been with the same guy for the past few years.
 

seoulsearch

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Oh, that's sad. I have heard about some meetups before. Have you ever been involved in one?
This past summer I had the privilege of meeting a small group of 5 other very special CC members, and have met 2 others in real life at other times.

And I hope to meet many, many more in the future if possible! :)
 
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Went to my senior prom. High school rented a very fancy bank atrium and skyway level, for the promenade bit we rode down escalators. So very 80s.

My date was the guy I was dating then, we had fun and he danced like a spaz, which I both adored and was embarrassed by. My dress I made with my mom and it was so beautiful, deep teal, off the shoulder, sweetheart neckline, shoes dyed to match. Ha! I permed my hair back then and it was in long ringlets. I had white gloves, and a white crinoline and the dress poofed JUST SO.

Mike (my date) took me to the VERY swank and fancy French restaurant, I had beef wellington. He had chicken something because he was totally afraid of the menu. Afterwards we went to one of his friend's places with a huge group. I think Mike expected a little somthin'-somthin' and I got really irritated that he wouldn't leave me alone, got his keys and drove myself home. I think I was home by 11.

Mike and I are still friends, and we laugh at it, but we broke up over his handsy-ness at prom.
 

ArtsieSteph

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It was actually awesome! I went with a group of girl friends to dinner first at an Italian restaurant, to my friends house to get all changed and prettified, and then got to have fun dancing and dorking around with them. We took pictures and stuff. I didn't have a date but I didn't care, I had a blast! :D
 
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Shouryu

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Rachel spun abruptly and looked at me with a furled brow. "Prom. Do you have plans?"

I looked up from trying to frantically finish my US Government assignment before the teacher would ask for them. "Yeah. I plan to go. Didn't I tell you that like, a long time ago?"

"I mean, do you have a DATE?"
"Ohhh. No, no. No one available that I feel inclined to ask. I'm going stag, which is fine."
"You wanna go with me?"

I drew my head back in confusion. "But you're going with Josh. I mean, you guys set that up over a month--"

She rolled her eyes as she interrupted me, "You didn't hear? He's in looooooove." Rach's tone had the distinct tone of sarcasm mixed with annoyance.

I paused momentarily, then felt the light bulb turn on. "Oh. Oh wait, Heather?!"

She nodded. "I'm already halfway done making my dress. All this effort, and I would rather not go alone."

"Yeah, I'll go with you. Give me a piece of the material, and I will try to get a cummerbund and bow tie that matches your dress," I answered, getting back to my homework.

-------

A few weeks later, I picked up Rach in my 1980 Celica, after a few minutes of social catch up with her mother. Her mom sponsored the creative writing club that I had participated in during junior year. We drove but a few blocks from her neighborhood to an upscale-for-our-town Italian diner. Her friend, Morgan, attending prom stag, joined us.

I don't remember what I ate, but I do remember that both young women had a pasta dish with Italian sausage. This would prove to be important later.

The actual prom was held at the Officer's Club on base. The ten minute drive was casual and familiar, as I worked on base as a bagger at the commissary throughout high school. Rach was her usual, cheery self; we were both nerdy and friendly in our own way, but we were never more than friends. I don't think either of us ever yearned for more over the years.

The dance itself was fun - we did all of the standard stuff, like pictures and drink too much punch. Rach's friend left early, being a little bored, as well as not feeling well. But we socialized with our various circles: band, choir, yearbook, creative writing, and other members of my church youth group. I danced with at least seven other girls besides my date, but it was all consensual since she spread herself around as well. She even snuck one dance with Josh in, while Heather pretended to not care at a table, alone.

At one point, the DJ fired up Smells Like Teen Spirit, and mosh pit was quickly formed on the dance floor. (I can neither confirm nor deny rumours that it was myself, Daniel, and David who started moshing first.) Naturally, the women all fled to edges to watch. When the song finished, the men all stepped off the floor exhausted and sweaty, and several girls started to shriek: there were splotches of blood all over the dance floor.

Oh wait, that isn't blood! Rose petals! Rose petals everywhere! Most of us had inadvertently destroyed our boutonnieres in the mosh pit. We danced on rose petals for the rest of the night.

On the last dance of the night, Rachel was feeling tired. She put her arms around me completely and leaned against my chest like a child falling asleep. No one cares or remembers who won king or queen; we all felt like winners.

The tickets also came with a midnight movie: passes for the legendary Dan Aykroyd comedy released that month, Celtic Pride. Most of us made the trip back into the town to pile into the theatre. A few times, Rach admonished me to drive a little tamer. I hadn't thought I had been driving wildly at all.

Ten minutes into the movie, Rach left for the bathroom...and didn't come back. After 20 minutes, I left the theatre to investigate. Pushing the door to the ladies' room open six inches or so, I called her name.

"I am so sick," she croaked from wherever she was. "I'm sorry, but...you have to take me home."

We made it back to the Celica, and she apologized the whole way. I assured her that I didn't mind. Two blocks from her house, she told me to stop the car. Before I even came to a complete stop, she had her door open, and was vomiting furiously into the street.

She assured me she would call me the next day to tell me her condition. (Her mother ended up calling, as it turned out.) I left her house and headed to Denny's, where I knew people who skipped the movie would be hanging out.

As I approached a booth overflowing with many of my friends, Sabrina greeted me with, "Rachel called it an early night?"

I squeezed in next to her and stole a gulp from her coffee mug. After a moment of contemplation, I answered, "She was so repulsed by me tonight that she literally puked."

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Fenner

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I went with a friend that didn't go to my high school , he was 21 and I was 18. He looked older than 21. We had an okay time. It was t
1988 so I wore a pretty sparkly white dress the bottom of it was that material that tutu's are made out of but it was long and the top was strapless but it wasn't immodest. We danced to some 80'a music then got bored and went to another friends house and drank beer. =-O. He was a nice date. The best thing about prom was the music and the beer.
 
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Never went to my prom and it wasn't by choice...long story. :(

Enjoyed everyone's stories though!!
 

seoulsearch

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As I approached a booth overflowing with many of my friends, Sabrina greeted me with, "Rachel called it an early night?"

I squeezed in next to her and stole a gulp from her coffee mug. After a moment of contemplation, I answered, "She was so repulsed by me tonight that she literally puked."
Loved the story and the picture... It reminds me of some... TV actor or someone... I think, but can't remember exactly who...

Anyway, no worries, Shour!!

We have a lovely lady right here on CC whom I'm SURE thinks you are well worth getting indigestion over. :p:cool::D
 
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JeniBean

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Rachel spun abruptly and looked at me with a furled brow. "Prom. Do you have plans?"

I looked up from trying to frantically finish my US Government assignment before the teacher would ask for them. "Yeah. I plan to go. Didn't I tell you that like, a long time ago?"

"I mean, do you have a DATE?"
"Ohhh. No, no. No one available that I feel inclined to ask. I'm going stag, which is fine."
"You wanna go with me?"

I drew my head back in confusion. "But you're going with Josh. I mean, you guys set that up over a month--"

She rolled her eyes as she interrupted me, "You didn't hear? He's in looooooove." Rach's tone had the distinct tone of sarcasm mixed with annoyance.

I paused momentarily, then felt the light bulb turn on. "Oh. Oh wait, Heather?!"

She nodded. "I'm already halfway done making my dress. All this effort, and I would rather not go alone."

"Yeah, I'll go with you. Give me a piece of the material, and I will try to get a cummerbund and bow tie that matches your dress," I answered, getting back to my homework.

-------

A few weeks later, I picked up Rach in my 1980 Celica, after a few minutes of social catch up with her mother. Her mom sponsored the creative writing club that I had participated in during junior year. We drove but a few blocks from her neighborhood to an upscale-for-our-town Italian diner. Her friend, Morgan, attending prom stag, joined us.

I don't remember what I ate, but I do remember that both young women had a pasta dish with Italian sausage. This would prove to be important later.

The actual prom was held at the Officer's Club on base. The ten minute drive was casual and familiar, as I worked on base as a bagger at the commissary throughout high school. Rach was her usual, cheery self; we were both nerdy and friendly in our own way, but we were never more than friends. I don't think either of us ever yearned for more over the years.

The dance itself was fun - we did all of the standard stuff, like pictures and drink too much punch. Rach's friend left early, being a little bored, as well as not feeling well. But we socialized with our various circles: band, choir, yearbook, creative writing, and other members of my church youth group. I danced with at least seven other girls besides my date, but it was all consensual since she spread herself around as well. She even snuck one dance with Josh in, while Heather pretended to not care at a table, alone.

At one point, the DJ fired up Smells Like Teen Spirit, and mosh pit was quickly formed on the dance floor. (I can neither confirm nor deny rumours that it was myself, Daniel, and David who started moshing first.) Naturally, the women all fled to edges to watch. When the song finished, the men all stepped off the floor exhausted and sweaty, and several girls started to shriek: there were splotches of blood all over the dance floor.

Oh wait, that isn't blood! Rose petals! Rose petals everywhere! Most of us had inadvertently destroyed our boutonnieres in the mosh pit. We danced on rose petals for the rest of the night.

On the last dance of the night, Rachel was feeling tired. She put her arms around me completely and leaned against my chest like a child falling asleep. No one cares or remembers who won king or queen; we all felt like winners.

The tickets also came with a midnight movie: passes for the legendary Dan Aykroyd comedy released that month, Celtic Pride. Most of us made the trip back into the town to pile into the theatre. A few times, Rach admonished me to drive a little tamer. I hadn't thought I had been driving wildly at all.

Ten minutes into the movie, Rach left for the bathroom...and didn't come back. After 20 minutes, I left the theatre to investigate. Pushing the door to the ladies' room open six inches or so, I called her name.

"I am so sick," she croaked from wherever she was. "I'm sorry, but...you have to take me home."

We made it back to the Celica, and she apologized the whole way. I assured her that I didn't mind. Two blocks from her house, she told me to stop the car. Before I even came to a complete stop, she had her door open, and was vomiting furiously into the street.

She assured me she would call me the next day to tell me her condition. (Her mother ended up calling, as it turned out.) I left her house and headed to Denny's, where I knew people who skipped the movie would be hanging out.

As I approached a booth overflowing with many of my friends, Sabrina greeted me with, "Rachel called it an early night?"

I squeezed in next to her and stole a gulp from her coffee mug. After a moment of contemplation, I answered, "She was so repulsed by me tonight that she literally puked."

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You're excellent elephant mind brought nostalgia and the scene to life. The picture pulled it all together! Thanks for sharing!!!
 
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MissCris

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Junior prom, let's see...

I had dropped out of school just a few months before, and I'd been to NC and gotten married and he was deployed to Afghanistan by then, so I was back at home with my friends and family. I'd been asked to prom by a close friend long before I was ever even engaged, but he ended up asking someone else, and I wasn't going to go even though I'd bought my dress months in advance.

Buuuut, my cousin was on the prom planning committee and got me a ticket, and so we spent the afternoon before prom being all girly and I think I spent two hours curling and hair spraying and glitterizing her hair for her, and then her date picked us up, plus two other girls who didn't have dates. I have no idea if we went out to dinner. Maybe? We all went to my cousin's church where her mom was working so she could take pictures.

Prom was held in the highschool gym, decorated to look like...something...I don't remember the theme. I mostly stood with a group of friends who all made fun of me for quitting school and being married and my cousin's date danced with me a few times, my cousin was crowned Prom Princess (the tiara looked awesome with all the glitter in her hair...just sayin'), and then we might have gone to an after party? I don't remember one.

Anyway, me at the church before the dance-

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JeniBean

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Junior prom, let's see...

I had dropped out of school just a few months before, and I'd been to NC and gotten married and he was deployed to Afghanistan by then, so I was back at home with my friends and family. I'd been asked to prom by a close friend long before I was ever even engaged, but he ended up asking someone else, and I wasn't going to go even though I'd bought my dress months in advance.

Buuuut, my cousin was on the prom planning committee and got me a ticket, and so we spent the afternoon before prom being all girly and I think I spent two hours curling and hair spraying and glitterizing her hair for her, and then her date picked us up, plus two other girls who didn't have dates. I have no idea if we went out to dinner. Maybe? We all went to my cousin's church where her mom was working so she could take pictures.

Prom was held in the highschool gym, decorated to look like...something...I don't remember the theme. I mostly stood with a group of friends who all made fun of me for quitting school and being married and my cousin's date danced with me a few times, my cousin was crowned Prom Princess (the tiara looked awesome with all the glitter in her hair...just sayin'), and then we might have gone to an after party? I don't remember one.

Anyway, me at the church before the dance-

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You look beautiful!
 
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Abing

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Prom.. I went there to sing, while they all danced, then left at midnight cause my dad was waiting lol.
 

melita916

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So I'm gonna ask a very very important question about CC prom:

What kind of food will be provided?

There. I said it. Lol
 
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Abing

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So I'm gonna ask a very very important question about CC prom:

What kind of food will be provided?

There. I said it. Lol
There's a CC prom?! Yes, food. Can I volunteer for food tasting?
 
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JeniBean

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I think we need a theme first...then add the food. I mean we can't have Nacho's if its a Gladiator theme!