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I didn't say it wasn't sacred. Im saying we must read and understand everything God says about marriage because it is serious. No one wants to be bound to the law. Christ had a reason for telling us that the children of this world marry and we are not supposed to just conjure up the reason why He said it, but we are to understand the truth of why He said it. I'm finished with this thread. No offence I didn't mean to offend anyone but this is a topic that that many distort and it is a very serious matter in Christianity.
I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding of marriage. You are taking that particular Scripture out of context. No one should rush in to marriage,especially one so young as the OP. But to tell him he may not or should not have to marry and he and his gf are good to carry on as they are is wrong and certainly isn't Biblical. Its not a matter of offence,we just need to be very careful about advice we give young people,especially Biblical advice.