When a man doesn't ask questions

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MsSuzanna

MsSuzanna

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Magenta said:
Sure, you falsely accuse me and then blame me for responding to what you say while you deny saying it. You come across loud and clear. Get your expectations in line with reality or not, your choice.
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You got problems lady...
 
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etanks21

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EVERYONE!!! For a "Christian" char room some of you are not polite. For one I'm not insecure. I have learned that when someone does not engage in a conversation with you back and forth there will be trouble In marriage. Look at the statistics. But I have witnessed the most wonderful long term marriages because they ask questions not just on theirselves but on topics, hobbies, news etc... This man doesn't ask me squat. Perfect example, if he would have asked me last Christmas if I like ear rings or wear them he would have saved himself the hassle and money for buying ear rings because I don't even have ear holes. It would have given him a spark of knowledge to save himself some trouble. For those of you with rude comments, I don't remember the scripture saying Jesus was talking in a disrespectful tone, way or words with others. Why are some of you even here in this chat room being rude. For those of you who are giving great advice thanks for not making me feel worse than I already do. Thank you for your words of encouragement.
 
Sirk

Sirk

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etanks21 said:
EVERYONE!!! For a "Christian" char room some of you are not polite. For one I'm not insecure. I have learned that when someone does not engage in a conversation with you back and forth there will be trouble In marriage. Look at the statistics. But I have witnessed the most wonderful long term marriages because they ask questions not just on theirselves but on topics, hobbies, news etc... This man doesn't ask me squat. Perfect example, if he would have asked me last Christmas if I like ear rings or wear them he would have saved himself the hassle and money for buying ear rings because I don't even have ear holes. It would have given him a spark of knowledge to save himself some trouble. For those of you with rude comments, I don't remember the scripture saying Jesus was talking in a disrespectful tone, way or words with others. Why are some of you even here in this chat room being rude. For those of you who are giving great advice thanks for not making me feel worse than I already do. Thank you for your words of encouragement.
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How can you possibly know what my tone is? Besides, maybe the right thing to do would have been to get your ears pierced. Maybe he felt totally disregarded.
 
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kaylagrl

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MsSuzanna said:
We reply to people according to what they have said. Thats called a reasonable conversation!You didnt read the whole thread. Go back and do that. It appears that you came here to attack me for no reason. I am not here to argue with you or anyone else. I have my views on things and if you dont like it, so be it! I am not going to argue petty crap with you! Got it?
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Folks,save your breath. The OP has posted this thread...

http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/135151-premarital-sex.html

She made a bad decision and slept with this man.When I asked if he was a Christian she said that he wasn't.So there is nothing more to discuss. I gave her advice to take a couple months break from the relationship and tell him she was wrong and needs to focus on her relationship with God. I said she should seriously consider breaking up this wrong relationship.I dont think she liked that answer because she posted this thread. So no need to give more advice. Hes not a Christian and God will not bless that relationship.
 
Magenta

Magenta

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etanks21 said:
EVERYONE!!! For a "Christian" char room some of you are not polite. For one I'm not insecure. I have learned that when someone does not engage in a conversation with you back and forth there will be trouble In marriage. Look at the statistics. But I have witnessed the most wonderful long term marriages because they ask questions not just on theirselves but on topics, hobbies, news etc... This man doesn't ask me squat. Perfect example, if he would have asked me last Christmas if I like ear rings or wear them he would have saved himself the hassle and money for buying ear rings because I don't even have ear holes. It would have given him a spark of knowledge to save himself some trouble. For those of you with rude comments, I don't remember the scripture saying Jesus was talking in a disrespectful tone, way or words with others. Why are some of you even here in this chat room being rude. For those of you who are giving great advice thanks for not making me feel worse than I already do. Thank you for your words of encouragement.
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I have or had (since she has since passed) a friend that I knew for years, and she would yearly buy me pierced earrings having forgotten regularly that I do not have pierced ears. So that is just an aside to your main concern, which is the long term prospects of this relationship that you think you should end for a number of reasons. Have you considered taking some apart, or are you already apart?
 
MsSuzanna

MsSuzanna

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etanks21 said:
EVERYONE!!! For a "Christian" char room some of you are not polite. For one I'm not insecure. I have learned that when someone does not engage in a conversation with you back and forth there will be trouble In marriage. Look at the statistics. But I have witnessed the most wonderful long term marriages because they ask questions not just on theirselves but on topics, hobbies, news etc... This man doesn't ask me squat. Perfect example, if he would have asked me last Christmas if I like ear rings or wear them he would have saved himself the hassle and money for buying ear rings because I don't even have ear holes. It would have given him a spark of knowledge to save himself some trouble. For those of you with rude comments, I don't remember the scripture saying Jesus was talking in a disrespectful tone, way or words with others. Why are some of you even here in this chat room being rude. For those of you who are giving great advice thanks for not making me feel worse than I already do. Thank you for your words of encouragement.
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You are right about the unkind part and lack of politeness! At least a few here automatically assumed YOU were doing something wrong! Or your expectations were too high! Ive already seen on this site the opinionated bigots that would rather throw you under a bud than give someone the benefit of the doubt. Satan is HAVING HIS WAY Ill tell ya. This is EXACTLY what he wants isnt it?

If you need encouragement write to me sister in Christ. I wont make you feel as if you are asking for something you dont deserve!
 
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coby2

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Sirk said:
How can you possibly know what my tone is? Besides, maybe the right thing to do would have been to get your ears pierced. Maybe he felt totally disregarded.
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Lol my ex gave me earrings with clips while I have holes. He bought 'em for his ex and it was such a pity noone used them now. Do you want them? Neh thanks, way too big.
 
MsSuzanna

MsSuzanna

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Sirk said:
How can you possibly know what my tone is? Besides, maybe the right thing to do would have been to get your ears pierced. Maybe he felt totally disregarded.
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So she should go out and pierce her ears because someone bought her pierced earrings? Get real dude!
She felt disregarded because he didnt even notice her ears werent pierced before he assumed they were! And according to Kayla,they have slept together but yet he hasnt noticed her ears? smh.........................
 
Sirk

Sirk

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MsSuzanna said:
You are right about the unkind part and lack of politeness! At least a few here automatically assumed YOU were doing something wrong! Or your expectations were too high! Ive already seen on this site the opinionated bigots that would rather throw you under a bud than give someone the benefit of the doubt. Satan is HAVING HIS WAY Ill tell ya. This is EXACTLY what he wants isnt it?

If you need encouragement write to me sister in Christ. I wont make you feel as if you are asking for something you dont deserve!
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No need to get all emotional about it. These are just perspectives. Why someone would not want to see something from every angle they can is a foreign concept to me. There is a little truth in almost every perspective. A mature Christian has no problem finding those little nuggets.
 
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coby2

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MsSuzanna said:
So she should go out and pierce her ears because someone bought her pierced earrings? Get real dude!
She felt desregarded because he didnt even notice her ears werent pierced before he assumed they were!
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Disregarded? Who cares? Jump a hole in the air that he's so kind to even buy those things. My goodness.
 
Magenta

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kaylagrl said:
Folks,save your breath. The OP has posted this thread...

http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/135151-premarital-sex.html

She made a bad decision and slept with this man.When I asked if he was a Christian she said that he wasn't.So there is nothing more to discuss. I gave her advice to take a couple months break from the relationship and tell him she was wrong and needs to focus on her relationship with God. I said she should seriously consider breaking up this wrong relationship.I dont think she liked that answer because she posted this thread. So no need to give more advice. Hes not a Christian and God will not bless that relationship.
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I saw that, too. It seems OP wants to end the relationship because she prematurely jumped into bed with him, and now thinks it cannot be salvaged for reasons given therein. It almost seems she has made up her mind but needs something else.
 
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etanks21

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I did get my ears pierced for the fourth time in my life which is why I didn't wear them but i did it for him and I ended up in the ER for an ear infection :)
 
MsSuzanna

MsSuzanna

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kaylagrl said:
Folks,save your breath. The OP has posted this thread...

http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/135151-premarital-sex.html

She made a bad decision and slept with this man.When I asked if he was a Christian she said that he wasn't.So there is nothing more to discuss. I gave her advice to take a couple months break from the relationship and tell him she was wrong and needs to focus on her relationship with God. I said she should seriously consider breaking up this wrong relationship.I dont think she liked that answer because she posted this thread. So no need to give more advice. Hes not a Christian and God will not bless that relationship.
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Okay sister, gotcha! I dont see anything going right with this relationship since youve shared that he is not a christian. It was doomed from the start.
 
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etanks21

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Actually u r right I have given some thought thank u for ur advice :)
 
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kaylagrl

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MsSuzanna said:
So she should go out and pierce her ears because someone bought her pierced earrings? Get real dude!
She felt disregarded because he didnt even notice her ears werent pierced before he assumed they were! And according to Kayla,they have slept together but yet he hasnt noticed her ears? smh.........................
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Ug! Once again folks, the relationship isn't working out because he isn't a Christian and she is. Her uneasiness,OP your misgivings are because this is not the right relationship for you!! You are unequally yoked! There is no future in this for you.



Oops just saw that you saw my other post lol too late to delete this one
 
MsSuzanna

MsSuzanna

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kaylagrl said:
Ug! Once again folks, the relationship isn't working out because he isn't a Christian and she is. Her uneasiness,OP your misgivings are because this is not the right relationship for you!! You are unequally yoked! There is no future in this for you.
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I had just replied and I wholeheartedly agree with you! It was doomed from the start being he is not in the kingdom.
 
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kaylagrl

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Magenta said:
I saw that, too. It seems OP wants to end the relationship because she prematurely jumped into bed with him, and now thinks it cannot be salvaged for reasons given therein. It almost seems she has made up her mind but needs something else.
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Yes,I think you are right.She'll have to come to terms with it sooner or later.
 
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