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Hello everyone. This is my first time on christianchat.com. I am currently going through a tough time in my marriage and just need good Christian people to talk to.
My best friend of 21 yrs, who is also my husband of 13 years told me 2 weeks ago he has feelings for someone at work and left me and our 8 yr old. He's struggling because he wants to be with us but can't get this girl out of his head. I'm so confused and conflicted because it was a total shock. We hardly ever fight and had an amazing marriage. People even said they envied what we had. That's y this is so upsetting. Y throw everything away when you know it's not real, it's just Satan tempting him?!?
A part of me wants to be mad and hurt and unforgiving but another part knows it's ain't nothing but the devil and I just want to help him thru it. We are very active in our church, that's y it's so hard on him to think this could happen to him. Something he knew for sure (us) know has him questioning because of this harlot.
He's tried to come home twice and make it work but I can tell he's still thinking of her. He's working long hours on an important job where he's the boss and can't go to counseling or seek medical attention b/c I also wonder if it's a chemical imbalance thing. (His family suffers from bi-polarism and manic depressants). Side note: his father passed away 8 months ago.
Any help, advice, encouragement, scriptures, etc would be very helpful.
Thanks in advance!
My best friend of 21 yrs, who is also my husband of 13 years told me 2 weeks ago he has feelings for someone at work and left me and our 8 yr old. He's struggling because he wants to be with us but can't get this girl out of his head. I'm so confused and conflicted because it was a total shock. We hardly ever fight and had an amazing marriage. People even said they envied what we had. That's y this is so upsetting. Y throw everything away when you know it's not real, it's just Satan tempting him?!?
A part of me wants to be mad and hurt and unforgiving but another part knows it's ain't nothing but the devil and I just want to help him thru it. We are very active in our church, that's y it's so hard on him to think this could happen to him. Something he knew for sure (us) know has him questioning because of this harlot.
He's tried to come home twice and make it work but I can tell he's still thinking of her. He's working long hours on an important job where he's the boss and can't go to counseling or seek medical attention b/c I also wonder if it's a chemical imbalance thing. (His family suffers from bi-polarism and manic depressants). Side note: his father passed away 8 months ago.
Any help, advice, encouragement, scriptures, etc would be very helpful.
Thanks in advance!