Expressing Sexuality in a Healthy Way

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kaylagrl

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Just trying to give more wisdom to people to work with :p lol luv ya

​I appreciate your wisdom,and your sense of humor. You have the best balance. :) Love you too sis!!
 

JosephsDreams

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Best policy IMHO.

The situation brought to the table here by me is not standard by any means. Don't take it that I'm encouraging you to fall -

But then again some people's families really are that crazy, JS.
Are your initials JS?
Mine are...
 
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JustWhoIAm

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#24
David just basically gave in to his own selfish desires and had the power and money to do this. As he was married, many times over at the same time, each sexually act outside of marriage was adultery. He was very much a sinful man yet God was merciful to him. He is not one of my favorite biblical character and that includes his son also.
Yeah. Still, David got it, he just understood what it meant to be faithful to God in a way that went beyond everything else.

"Who am I, O LORD God, and what is my house, that you have brought me this far?" (This was after he had already been through a lot of stuff.)

He KNEW he was wretched and needed to rely on God for his salvation. Jesus taught that such a man is justified (over, say, a religious type that babbles about all the good they do). Not that sin is encouraged by any means, but David's heart was to God. He was justified by his faith (just like Abraham) and not so much by his own righteousness, but he knew also that his sin wasn't healthy.

Paul understood this concept very well.

David is actually one of my favorites.
 

Demi777

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when I grow old I dont wanna be a evil hag. I wanna be that one grandma with bright hair, harley and dog on the back known for awesomeness.
I kinda found that this thread went a bit too serious and the answer to all this sex stuff is so easy that I thought Id just give it my mind (tho ive been attacked many times for ''entering adult topics'' as if I have nothing to do with it) and its a fact.. fun fact.. but its a fact. my doc would say '' eat an apple instead, thats healthier". I just like sleeping so naps r my option. :p
Now Ill get on a more serious note
Its sad that people are afraid to talk and treat sex for what it is. Natural and normal. When God created everything (INCLUDING SEX) and he saw it and said ''its very good" so I dont see where the problem is. He made it good, he finds it good. Just IN marriage. Its a extra credit for marriage, fulfilling the soul bond.
Its healthy as long as its IN marriage. No matter what doctors say, outside of marriage it makes you a target for evil and done. God is God and doctors are not God.
And for me personally there is no talk about '' expressing sex in a healthy way" as its just as God made and healthy under the circumstances God has made just like going to the bathroom or eating.
People fuss about sex because we all have this dogma of the catholic church in the back of our head from generations that holds like a curse and always tries to make us DOUBT what God made and how he made it, rather than accepting its nature and why and how its created.
The devil wants us to doubt Gods creation. He wants us to doubt his purpose. And he gets people everytime with the ''s word with 3 letters''.
Unless people start seeing it as natural as everything else, people cant get free from all the fiasco around it.

God gave us hunger. So when we are hungry, we eat. God gave us thirst so we drink when we are thirsty. Naturally you become attracted to someone and marry them and then end up having sex with them. Its all a God made thing.
Now as hunger can end in sickness and destructive, sex can. Which makes sexual perversion etc just as much as an issue as anorexia, drug addictions, etc. what destroys the temple of the holy Spirit when it gets excessive or unhealthy.

Now thats my 2 cents


​I appreciate your wisdom,and your sense of humor. You have the best balance. :) Love you too sis!!
 
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I just remind myself it's not going to happen... :p
 
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pete13

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#27
She's horny! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
I usually advice people to marry early to avoid such a situation. Premarital intimacy could make you sexualy immoral and as a Christian you should be able to make sacrifices.
 
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And if naps don't work, there's always the old cold shower treatment... :rolleyes:

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goldsena

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#31
Elijah was a man with like passion. But the only was you can stay sexsualy pure is having much word in you.
 
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ROSSELLA

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#32
Thank all of you for your advice.
 

Fenner

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She's horny! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
I usually advice people to marry early to avoid such a situation. Premarital intimacy could make you sexualy immoral and as a Christian you should be able to make sacrifices.
Since your good at dishing out advice to women, let me dish out some advice to you.

Laughing at someone asking an honest question is rude. With all of the threads you write advising women I'd say you're probably hornet too. Who cares. Sexual desire is a normal natural thing.
 
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Since your good at dishing out advice to women, let me dish out some advice to you.

Laughing at someone asking an honest question is rude. With all of the threads you write advising women I'd say you're probably hornet too. Who cares. Sexual desire is a normal natural thing.
Preach it, sista!!! :cool:
 
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missy2014

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#38
Hi cheesy grin how are you?
 
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missy2014

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#39
Yeah. Still, David got it, he just understood what it meant to be faithful to God in a way that went beyond everything else.

"Who am I, O LORD God, and what is my house, that you have brought me this far?" (This was after he had already been through a lot of stuff.)

He KNEW he was wretched and needed to rely on God for his salvation. Jesus taught that such a man is justified (over, say, a religious type that babbles about all the good they do). Not that sin is encouraged by any means, but David's heart was to God. He was justified by his faith (just like Abraham) and not so much by his own righteousness, but he knew also that his sin wasn't healthy.

Paul understood this concept very well.

David is actually one of my favorites.
I love Davids heart too
 

Angelsnow

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LOOOL...

This was funny!!!!!...not very realistic. :D

If it were that simple? .....the ENTIRE adult population...would be napping ...constantly!!!

:D


Quote"take naps.. its healthier"

Lol you crack me up sometimes sis!