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For future reference, unless you know that she likes being put on the spot like that, never make an embarassing public pronouncement of your feelings like that. I know for me, if I'm put in that situation my response is more about stopping being the center of attention and being angry that someone would put me in that position than it is about whether I like the poor guy or not. My feelings and personal life are not something I discuss in public, ever.
So my advice is to write to her, apologize for the way you put her on the spot like that, and ask for her to give you a chance at just 1 date to see if the two of you can hit it off. And if she says no, mourn the loss of all those hopes and dreams, trust that God (and quite possibly this gal too if she's as wonderful as you think she is) is watching out for you and sparing you even worse heartache, and then let it go and move on with your life. There's really nothing else you can do. Going all stalker on a girl never won her heart; it'll just drive her further away.
So my advice is to write to her, apologize for the way you put her on the spot like that, and ask for her to give you a chance at just 1 date to see if the two of you can hit it off. And if she says no, mourn the loss of all those hopes and dreams, trust that God (and quite possibly this gal too if she's as wonderful as you think she is) is watching out for you and sparing you even worse heartache, and then let it go and move on with your life. There's really nothing else you can do. Going all stalker on a girl never won her heart; it'll just drive her further away.
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There are 3.75 billion women on this planet. and your getting hung up on one! I keep telling myself that very same question. Maybe it is because you do not date or have any other women in your life. Your single so be single. date. ask women on dates.. i have this picture of a page filled with the word no written all over it, with the word yes at the bottom. you have to get through the no's to get to the yes. problem with me is having the courage to endure the no's..... because that is exactly what you have to do..
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