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Hard to understand what you are after here............but, I'll give one or two of your thoughts a shot.
Complete trust in God can NEVER be taking Him for granted in the "negative" sense of that statement. He WANTS us to trust in Him COMPLETELY. That IS the whole idea of Christianity.
Leave it ALL at the Cross...............to God............problems aris
e when people get in God's way...........IF He wants us to take some action, He will let us know........TRUST in Him to do so.