How Should the Church Treat Gays?

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May 12, 2017
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Wow...What Jimmy Swaggart or anyone else does is none of your business...That's between the person and God...And you are neither
Jimmy Swaggert refused to be restored and instead forced his denomination to defrock him and continued in his sin of adultery and has made millions....he is a hireling. He also preaches a false doctrine and does not believe in the resurrection.
 
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Has your pastor Jimmy Swaggert truly repented yet? or is he still smugly rejecting the fact he never did turn from his adulterous ways? He is a hireling and a thief and a robber of people, their money and their souls. He is religion that comes to steal, kill and destroy...he preaches Jesus is still dead....
Moses murdered a man.
David murdered, committed adultery and much more.
Paul murdered and was a jailbird.
Why did God forgive them and allow these men to write the bible?

A close friend on different forum said this:
This is the problem, you do not present what the word of God says in plain words, but you attempt to take parts here and there and mix them with your own opinion to create some standard to "un-save" others, while you yourself do not keep the standard you would teach and lay upon others. This is not "loving others as yourself" this is loving yourself and allowing mercy for yourself, while attempting to condemn others by a standard you do not keep."
 
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And also, if I can't get inside the building to get the cure. How will I get better?

Im all for preaching the truth,straight forwardly. But the church is a hospital where the sick come to meet Jesus the healer. No one should feel hopeless in sin,left with no answer. An old hymn was sung at every Billy Graham Crusade, it goes as follows...



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[TD]Just as I am, without one plea,
But that Thy blood was shed for me,
And that Thou bid’st me come to Thee,
O Lamb of God, I come! I come!




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[TD]Just as I am, and waiting not
To rid my soul of one dark blot;
To Thee whose blood can cleanse each spot,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!


Just as I am, though tossed about
With many a conflict, many a doubt;
Fightings within, and fears without,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!


Just as I am, poor, wretched, blind;
Sight, riches, healing of the mind;
Yes, all I need, in Thee to find,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
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But that Thy blood was shed for me,
And that Thou bid’st me come to Thee,
O Lamb of God, I come! I come!
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[TD]Just as I am, Thou wilt receive,
Wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
Because Thy promise I believe,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!



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[TD]Just as I am, Thy love unknown
Has broken every barrier down;
Now, to be Thine, yea, Thine alone,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
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Jimmy Swaggert refused to be restored and instead forced his denomination to defrock him and continued in his sin of adultery and has made millions....he is a hireling. He also preaches a false doctrine and does not believe in the resurrection.

Swaggart was AofG and he did believe in the resurrection,so Im surprised that has changed. And yes,he refused to take discipline,though he criticized Jim Baker for the same thing. Swaggart got too big and refused to be humbled. I think he had the issue for many years before he was caught.
 
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Swaggart was AofG and he did believe in the resurrection,so Im surprised that has changed. And yes,he refused to take discipline,though he criticized Jim Baker for the same thing. Swaggart got too big and refused to be humbled. I think he had the issue for many years before he was caught.
Swaggart believes in all the traditional Christian teachings, he just emphasizes that the price for sin was paid by Christ on the cross more then anything else including the resurrection. He definitely believes in the resurrection.
 

Gabriel2020

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I'm going to talk in the flesh, or as carnal right now, but even those that are not saved in this world detest such an action. I kinda believe that God wrote it on every person's heart or instilled it in our souls as filthy, and that maybe why it is an abomination. Even the ungodly cannot tolerate it.
 

Gabriel2020

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Simple answer, these men repented of their sins and did not continue to go on living that way. they accepted God and gave up their old sinful life .You cannot continue in such a life style and expect God to forgive you. AFTER ALL GOD IS THE ONE YOU ARE FIGHTING AGAINST, His laws were passed down to the believers, like Father, like Son.
 

DustyRhodes

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Just for further discussion...

if someone is born with down's syndrome are they now sinning
If someone is born with Asperger's syndrome , are they now cast outs
Or how about autism or any other function that is not deemed normal
like being blind for example. Every single one of us is born with a
different trait. No 2 of us is the same. Science has shown without a doubt
that gay people are born that way. When the Bible was put together anything
that was not considered normal was assumed to be demonic. At that time they
didn't have the wherewithal so any person with the smallest of malfunction where
not allowed to even step into the temple. So while those words were written for
the times with all the information they had which wasn't much. Of course in past
times black people were not allowed in a white person's church cuz they weren't
their status quo. I am not gay, never was and never will be. My point is let's
internalise the entire message of the scripture and not just find a word or a verse
here or there and hang everything on it. Maybe we could as ourselves, if Jesus
was born in this era, would He have precluded the unclean from coming to the
door of the church. Not trying to upset the apple cart cuz i know this is controversial
but it would be worthwhile to think about and not just repeat the status quo answer.
 

Gabriel2020

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first of all Jesus and his disciples was tossed out of the churches,because of such teaching and preaching. There is a spirit of slumber among people in this world. yes, a spirit.Demonic and harmful.People with down syndrome and other deformities who don't know any better are here for God's glory. eternal life is theirs.
 
May 12, 2017
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Swaggart was AofG and he did believe in the resurrection,so Im surprised that has changed. And yes,he refused to take discipline,though he criticized Jim Baker for the same thing. Swaggart got too big and refused to be humbled. I think he had the issue for many years before he was caught.
Yep he was AOG and they let him go even though he bribed them with his millions. He committed it over and over even after he was caught.

Jimmy, Donnie and Gabriel all say routinely on SBN that one cannot look at the resurrection anymore[Jimmie publicly started this nonsense almost 5 years ago], you must look to the cross. Donnie even said a few weeks ago that there is no power in resurrection, just the cross....They have turned the cross into an idol....

I was channel surfing a few months ago and Jimmie was preaching that the new man is found at the cross, not the tomb....that the new man comes off the cross...he said it is shocking he knows, but he got a "new "revelation from the Holy Ghost....


Jesus is not on the cross...yet swaggert keeps him there.
 
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Being gay is not a sin
False... Jesus said just lusting after a women in one's heart was a sin just as though the person had dome the act... so if this is a sin, you can bet'cho bottom dollar lusting for strange flesh is a sin whether they do it or not.

God's Word teaches us to cast down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God (2 Corinthians 10:5)... lusting after anything sinful is the same as doing the act under the New Testament.

Now, under the Old Testament law... there is no record that lusting like this is a sin, only doing the evil deed was a sin so you'd have to make a sacrifice

Under the New Testament we learn that God is not mocked what we sow is what we reap if we sow unto the flesh we shall of the flesh reap corruption... and when we confess and forake our sin we are sowing to the Spirit and reaping life (Gal 6:7,8... 1 John 1:9)

We must always remember God's Word tells us every transgression and disobedience receives it's just reward (Hebrews 2:1-3).




I wonder how one can deal with the sexual urges without being sinful?
You'd know the answer to that if only you knew the New Testament better than a new Christian


The basic foundational doctrine of Jesus and His Apostles teach us how to deal with this and all sin.



Because of how the cancer affected my body
Well, I will never have cancer... Jesus took cancer and all other sickness intended for me upon His own body so I could live free from them.

A major thing many are missing is to...

Romans 12:1
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

1 Corinthians 6:19,20
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.


The first error people make is when they get a pain in their body they run down to the doctor rather than to the Lord honoring what Jesus has done for them.

They do not understand the Lord's Body...

1 Corinthians 11:29,30
For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body.
For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.


I think Christians should go by what God says in His Word rather than following the wisdom of man and end up in the ditch... I did that early in my walk with the Lord and I can tell ya ditch life ain't fun as it's where the devil walks all over people and destroys their lives.

We should be running some destruction on the devil for a change!




He also preaches a false doctrine and does not believe in the resurrection.
You are a liar... I was watching him on TV the other night and they were talking all about the resurrection and how the Word says Jesus was raised for our justification.

You are a liar... because you don't like the guy. I don't either and rarely watch him, but I've heard him enough to know you are a liar!

Did I mention you are a liar yet??? Why don't you go see what the man believes rather than lying about him... and continue being a liar living in your sin of being a liar, liar... pant on fire... and if you don't repent, some day the rest of ya is gonna be on fire too!




Science has shown without a doubt
that gay people are born that way.
That's a satanic lie... they never have discovered a gay gne and they would roast you for suggesting they were born into a sickness such as being gay cause they don't think it's a sickness... satan has many of these folks believing being gay is a blessing from God when in reality it is a curse from satan and is learned behavior.
 
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Moses murdered a man.
David murdered, committed adultery and much more.
Paul murdered and was a jailbird.
Why did God forgive them and allow these men to write the bible?

A close friend on different forum said this:
This is the problem, you do not present what the word of God says in plain words, but you attempt to take parts here and there and mix them with your own opinion to create some standard to "un-save" others, while you yourself do not keep the standard you would teach and lay upon others. This is not "loving others as yourself" this is loving yourself and allowing mercy for yourself, while attempting to condemn others by a standard you do not keep."
The difference between these men and swaggert is they humbled themselves and repented...Swaggert made a public quick fix repenting scam...when he was caught to save his money.....Then just a few years later he was caught again and again and again....swaggert has never humbled himself under anyone and been properly restored, he simply did it his way....

He is mocking God and he aint fooling anyone...its ALL about the money
 
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He's learn the hard way ... God humbled him by seeing to it his dirty laundry was aired out for all to see.

He has spoken of being repentant publicly, but you would care cause you hate the guy.
 
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False... Jesus said just lusting after a women in one's heart was a sin just as though the person had dome the act... so if this is a sin, you can bet'cho bottom dollar lusting for strange flesh is a sin whether they do it or not.

God's Word teaches us to cast down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God (2 Corinthians 10:5)... lusting after anything sinful is the same as doing the act under the New Testament.

Now, under the Old Testament law... there is no record that lusting like this is a sin, only doing the evil deed was a sin so you'd have to make a sacrifice

Under the New Testament we learn that God is not mocked what we sow is what we reap if we sow unto the flesh we shall of the flesh reap corruption... and when we confess and forake our sin we are sowing to the Spirit and reaping life (Gal 6:7,8... 1 John 1:9)

We must always remember God's Word tells us every transgression and disobedience receives it's just reward (Hebrews 2:1-3).






You'd know the answer to that if only you knew the New Testament better than a new Christian


The basic foundational doctrine of Jesus and His Apostles teach us how to deal with this and all sin.





Well, I will never have cancer... Jesus took cancer and all other sickness intended for me upon His own body so I could live free from them.

A major thing many are missing is to...

Romans 12:1
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

1 Corinthians 6:19,20
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.


The first error people make is when they get a pain in their body they run down to the doctor rather than to the Lord honoring what Jesus has done for them.

They do not understand the Lord's Body...

1 Corinthians 11:29,30
For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body.
For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.


I think Christians should go by what God says in His Word rather than following the wisdom of man and end up in the ditch... I did that early in my walk with the Lord and I can tell ya ditch life ain't fun as it's where the devil walks all over people and destroys their lives.

We should be running some destruction on the devil for a change!






You are a liar... I was watching him on TV the other night and they were talking all about the resurrection and how the Word says Jesus was raised for our justification.

You are a liar... because you don't like the guy. I don't either and rarely watch him, but I've heard him enough to know you are a liar!

Did I mention you are a liar yet??? Why don't you go see what the man believes rather than lying about him... and continue being a liar living in your sin of being a liar, liar... pant on fire... and if you don't repent, some day the rest of ya is gonna be on fire too!






That's a satanic lie... they never have discovered a gay gne and they would roast you for suggesting they were born into a sickness such as being gay cause they don't think it's a sickness... satan has many of these folks believing being gay is a blessing from God when in reality it is a curse from satan and is learned behavior.
Do not be Naive......we have been down to Baton rouge and seen the circus and all the clowns up close and personal....
 
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We should treat the the same way we treat

- Divorced people
- People with a criminal past
- Liars
- Addicts
- People who struggle with jealousy and/ or anger
- Unfaithful people

Now how many of us can claim not to be guilty of one or more of those (repeatedly!) ?

We should be letting them ALL know the bible says your actions are wrong, but God is love, and He will help you fight it.
...and we should be doing MORE of the encouraging and loving than of the judging
(Love covers a multitude of sins)
 
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We should treat the the same way we treat

- Divorced people
- People with a criminal past
- Liars
- Addicts
- People who struggle with jealousy and/ or anger
- Unfaithful people

Now how many of us can claim not to be guilty of one or more of those (repeatedly!) ?

We should be letting them ALL know the bible says your actions are wrong, but God is love, and He will help you fight it.
...and we should be doing MORE of the encouraging and loving than of the judging
(Love covers a multitude of sins)

Amen...all the works of the flesh bring destruction of some sort to all of us from living a homosexual lifestyle to exhibiting malice and the slandering of others in the body of Christ. We "Christians" love to point out the sins of others that we personally have not ever done.

We can be such hypocrites because we too can end up doing a work of the flesh such as the slandering of others - which a person that is caught in the deception of homosexual living may not ever do.

I am vehemently against all the works of the flesh as they bring destruction to us in some form or other. ( I have to say this every time as there are always some that say I am defending homosexuality and "sinning" which is complete foolishness )

Let's learn to walk by the Spirit and not fulfill the lusts of the flesh to do "it's" desires and grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
 
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Yep he was AOG and they let him go even though he bribed them with his millions. He committed it over and over even after he was caught.

Jimmy, Donnie and Gabriel all say routinely on SBN that one cannot look at the resurrection anymore[Jimmie publicly started this nonsense almost 5 years ago], you must look to the cross. Donnie even said a few weeks ago that there is no power in resurrection, just the cross....They have turned the cross into an idol....

I was channel surfing a few months ago and Jimmie was preaching that the new man is found at the cross, not the tomb....that the new man comes off the cross...he said it is shocking he knows, but he got a "new "revelation from the Holy Ghost....


Jesus is not on the cross...yet swaggert keeps him there.
Hello Meggido
:)I think this would be a good topic for discussion,I would like to get a better understanding of the difference between the cross and the ressurection.
 
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This would normally go in the news forum but I think the question needs to be asked,how should we as a church deal with gay people? The Bible is clear that it is 100% wrong,that being said how can we show compassion and lead people out of this bondage instead of closing the church doors in their faces and leaving them to satans hands?

This link is about a girl that came out to her Mormon church. I have several issues with it but it begs the question,what should the church do about gay congregants?

http://www.lex18.com/story/35740626/microphone-cut-after-mormon-girl-reveals-shes-gay-at-church
First, she needs to be treated like every other sinner, as someone already posted. Second, she needs to be shown respect due her due to the fact she's a fellow human being. Third, she needs to be loved as a fellow human being.

Fourth, she needs to be explained that we, as Christians, treat homosexuality in the same manner of any other sexual perversion. That we view sex between male/female outside the covenant of marriage as morally wrong. Then explain how the institution of marriage was set up by God to be solely betwixt male and female. And that any sex outside of marriage is a sin and also morally wrong. Then show her Leviticus 23 and how God views it, and also Genesis 19 and how God has handled it.

Then go throughout the NT and show how the family is arranged as father, mother and children, how the father's and mother's play their roles in raising their children. Explain that nowhere in the bible is a male/male or female/female relationship given instructions on how to raise children.

And then to show them that God said to 'be fruitful and multiply' is only done in male/female relations.
 
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Yep he was AOG and they let him go even though he bribed them with his millions. He committed it over and over even after he was caught.

Jimmy, Donnie and Gabriel all say routinely on SBN that one cannot look at the resurrection anymore[Jimmie publicly started this nonsense almost 5 years ago], you must look to the cross. Donnie even said a few weeks ago that there is no power in resurrection, just the cross....They have turned the cross into an idol....

I was channel surfing a few months ago and Jimmie was preaching that the new man is found at the cross, not the tomb....that the new man comes off the cross...he said it is shocking he knows, but he got a "new "revelation from the Holy Ghost....


Jesus is not on the cross...yet swaggert keeps him there.


​A new revelation,oh brother. I stopped watching the day he refused counseling and church discipline. I was a junior in high school when he fell.I was at my parents the other day and some of his old programs was on and we watched a couple. Pity,he used to preach the truth.
 
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Two men standing before God. One commits the sin of sodomy the other commits the sin
of watching pornography and masturbating.

Who will be accepted by God?

When you answer this question then you should know what is the truth.

We don't need the riddles,the truth is in the Bible,sexual sin is wrong. The question is how to treat gays who come to church. How to reach out and not lose the truth?