Should women be silent in church and wear head coverings?

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Should women be silent in church and wear head coverings?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 22.6%
  • No

    Votes: 19 61.3%
  • If they have long hair, they can skip the head covering.

    Votes: 5 16.1%

  • Total voters
    31

stonesoffire

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Islam really brings this idea home. Women must cover up because the men refuse to take responsibility for their lust. They will claim anything done to a woman because of the MAN'S lust is HER fault because SHE seduced them; even an uncovered ankle is enough to send them over the edge. It is nothing short of DISGUSTING how they treat their women.
huh, didn't even come to mind. I don't know why. What I thought about was Mormons and Holiness people. And those who just plain want to control a woman. No names mentioned...:)
 
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PHart

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So say the holy spirit lead a women to speak in church if say the pastor was preaching false and unbibical things, would she then be in the wrong
God wouldn't break the rules by having a woman instruct a congregation of men. The woman would be speaking out of her own mind whether she was speaking accurately or inaccurately. God simply would not use a woman to do that.

I've met wonderfully gifted and anointed women in the church. But their ministry ends where the instruction and guidance of men begins. Sorry, gals.
 
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Sully

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God wouldn't break the rules by having a woman instruct a congregation of men. The woman would be speaking out of her own mind whether she was speaking accurately or inaccurately. God simply would not use a woman to do that.

I've met wonderfully gifted and anointed women in the church. But their ministry ends where the instruction and guidance of men begins. Sorry, gals.
where's the emoji for belly laughing?
 

Blain

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God wouldn't break the rules by having a woman instruct a congregation of men. The woman would be speaking out of her own mind whether she was speaking accurately or inaccurately. God simply would not use a woman to do that.

I've met wonderfully gifted and anointed women in the church. But their ministry ends where the instruction and guidance of men begins. Sorry, gals.
I don't think God is sexist and I certainly can't imagine him playing favorites between his children, not to mention if a man will not stand for him would it really be so odd for him to use what men see as foolish and to be silent to correct them? Will God not use who he chooses? and is the holy spirit really only limited to be using his children fully to a certain sex? I don't think that God sees things this way, yes I do think he could have made certain roles for both men and women but I don't think he would forbid a women to speak his truth if the men will not
 
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PHart

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I was actually surprised to see so many voted yes. I mean I just don't understand that kind of mentality, if God accepts and loves us as we are then why do we have be a certain way to be in his house?
Ask Paul:

11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. 13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB)

14I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; 15but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God..." (1 Timothy 3:14 NASB)

I know people pretty much don't listen to you when you post in on-line Christians forums, but, hey, it's kind of fun to post answers anyway.
 
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Sully

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Ask Paul:

11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness.
And what is she supposed to do with all of that acquired instruction, be quiet? Not buyin'.
 
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PHart

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where's the emoji for belly laughing?
11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. 13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB)

Are you still laughing now?
 

Blain

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Ask Paul:

11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. 13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB)

14I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; 15but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God..." (1 Timothy 3:14 NASB)

I know people pretty much don't listen to you when you post in on-line Christians forums, but, hey, it's kind of fun to post answers anyway.
Yes I was waiting for you to post those scriptures but you also have to take into consideration that things were different in those times, women were second class citizens back then. I mean if we are to take these verses as they are then it's the same as stoning a prostitute because the scriptures in the ot said to. But as you can see with Jesus you cannot go by scripture alone otherwise he would have stoned mary wouldn't he?
 
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Sully

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11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. 13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB)

Are you still laughing now?
Nope, now i'm serious. Look up one post.
 
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PHart

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And what is she supposed to do with all of that acquired instruction, be quiet? Not buyin'.
Instruct children and other women:

"...teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God." (Titus 2:3-5 NIV)
 

tourist

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No, women should not be silent in church and they can lose the head coverings too. This isn't Saudi Arabia.
 

stonesoffire

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No male or female in the Spirit. If one receives a word during a meeting, male or female...they are moving in Spirit. So genderless.

Jesus's words, and Paul would agree.
 

tourist

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Pete, what's your take on using musical instruments during a church service?
 
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PHart

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Yes I was waiting for you to post those scriptures but you also have to take into consideration that things were different in those times, women were second class citizens back then.
And, yes, I was waiting for you to post your 'cultural' reason why we don't have to obey Paul's command anymore.

As we can plainly see, Paul's reasons for not letting women teach and have authority over men is not cultural, but comes directly from the order of headship in creation itself, and how Eve herself demonstrated by her buffoonery in the garden how women were not designed to be the spiritual head:

13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 timothy 2:13-14 NASB)


I mean if we are to take these verses as they are then it's the same as stoning a prostitute because the scriptures in the ot said to. But as you can see with Jesus you cannot go by scripture alone otherwise he would have stoned mary wouldn't he?
Who said adulterers are not to be stoned? Did the death penalty 'go away' in this New Covenant? Or are we just a lot smarter now and realize that to condemn someone to death for their sins is to condemn yourself because you do the same things?
 

tourist

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Ask Paul:

11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. 13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB)

14I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; 15but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God..." (1 Timothy 3:14 NASB)

I know people pretty much don't listen to you when you post in on-line Christians forums, but, hey, it's kind of fun to post answers anyway.
The key part of those verses in "But I do not allow...". Paul doesn't allow, that doesn't mean that Jesus wouldn't allow. Seems to me that Paul is stating a personal opinion. I'm not saying that if it is an opinion than it should be disregarded but I believe the use of the words "But I do not allow", means that it's not necessarily set it stone. and should therefore be strictly adhered to.
 

Angela53510

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3But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. 4Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head. 5But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. 6For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. 7For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. 8For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. 9Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. 10For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels. 11Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. 12For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God. 13Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered? 14Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him? 15But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering. 16But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.

Men UNCOVER their heads, women COVER them. There is the verse in context. This is what the churches of God do, other churches, do as ye wish.
Thanks for answering my first question. I find legalists are usually KJV. They hang onto words so tightly, they believe the words of an old translation, rather than the message of the gospel. They believe in their own self righteousness so much they forget to believe in God. Their literalism takes them past legalism into the realm of bitterness and envy, because they cannot stand to hear or see women doing a better job of things, than they are.

I've been through the Greek over and over on these passage, including this one. I've been through the cultural history of both Corinth and Ephesus. If you want me to re-copy and paste the truth, just ask me, I will. Because the KJV in particular is very biased against women, as King James made sure his bible had rules and regulations to rob women of their gifts and birthright in Christ.

So, in the interests of disclosure, I am an ordained pastor, I preach in my church, although I am not the lead pastor. If you prefer him, then you would get a man who is into open theism and universalism, because the head of our search committee, a man, didn't do a good job of questioning him about what he believes. So, now we get a white washed sermon every week. I figured it out right at the beginning, now others are. I leave that to God, and preach the truth when I get asked to preach. And it seems to bless everyone.

If the Bible truly said that women shouldn't speak in church, and they must wear long hair, I would be doing it. Well, in fact I do have very long hair. But an appointment this week should put an end to that. It's been in the 90's and 100s now for months, and I am tired of hot, heavy hair on my neck. Although, I will say after 25 years of having thin, horrid hair because of meds, that Biotin has worked, and my thick hair has returned. But that is another story.

Anyway, following the world means not follow Jesus. This post is not about following Jesus. As Kayla says, it is not about the gospel, or evangelizing the world, which is something we should all be concerned about. It is just about unfettered misogyny, and trying to use a 400 year old version of the Bible to justify it. Sad!

As for me, just so you know, happily married 35 years with 4 grown children and 4 1/2 grandchildren. I used to call myself a feminist, but it stands for too much that is ugly, like abortion and militant stupidity among certain women. As for socialism, I like a mixed economy. We have universal health care in Canada, and it is so much better than people dying without being treated, or going bankrupt because health care is a business and not a way to care for those who have less. You know, like Jesus told us to do! Care for the poor! And the OT, too!
 
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Women can spread the gospel to all out outside of the church. As far as in the church God has only given that authority to men. This doesn't degrade women in any way in fact there are many great women preachers but God gives authority as he pleases and no one can change it.