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WineRose

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*3 year time skip*

- Anyone 10+ years older than my age...for obvious reasons...

- Athiests

- People who used to be criminals.

- People who have an alcohol or drug problem.

- People who think that Digimon is better than Pokemon.
 

Innerfire89

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I've never really been on an actual dating site, but I've used Facebook, I imagine it's not that different from a dating site. The reason I would dismis a female as a potenal date are numerous. The biggest reasons are if she's dressed like a prostitute and they other is if she's not a Christian or has a bunch of ungodly things in her profile.
 
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Men generally want 3 things, and its not intimate moments reading books in front of a fireplace on cold winter nights... jmo
I sort of look at it like Maslow's Hierarchy for relationships. As long as the needs at the base of the pyramid are being met then intimate moments reading books in front of a fireplace on a cold winter sounds pretty nice.
 

christian74

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*3 year time skip*

- Anyone 10+ years older than my age...for obvious reasons...

- Athiests

- People who used to be criminals.

- People who have an alcohol or drug problem.

- People who think that Digimon is better than Pokemon.

You see, when you fall in love, fall really hard, then the fact he thinks Digimon is better than Pokemon would no longer be any of importance to you - it is no longer relevant. (and obviously you have no idea what Digimon is all about, obviously!)
 

JosephsDreams

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Are you saying you rather skip small talk in the getting acquainted stage?
You want a proposal right off the bat?

You lost me on that one..
 

JosephsDreams

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I think a non Christian is something we'd all want to avoid, no?
Outside of that, well without getting into to many details, mainly because I am tired of typing, all or most of the things most of us would avoid. like signs of desperation or being materialistic, or egotistical, to name a few, are what would apply.
 

OneFaith

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Things that would make me pass over women on a dating profile:

Single moms

Profiles that are picture heavy and light on text - shows no thought

Women with tattoos - hypocritical of me since I am heavily inked, but it looks trashy on women

Selfies - just no

any form of the canned line "if you want to know anything else, just ask"

anyone who tries to be clever in her post by veiling her preferences about "the perfect match" - some of us ain't dumb, toots.
Tattoos look trashy on guys too.
 

JosephsDreams

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Ok, so just for the sake if conversation, because I have no strong stance on ones preference if they like complicated or simple men, at the extremes which do you prefer?
Really really simple or extremely complicated?
 

JosephsDreams

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For me, and this goes for men and woman, because outside of the obvious things like physical attraction, I generally like the same traits in both men and woman; for me I like a down to earth lifestyle and attitude and at the same time someone who can present different faces ( without being a phony or duel personality).
 

rachelsedge

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Men generally want 3 things, and its not intimate moments reading books in front of a fireplace on cold winter nights... jmo
Dare I ask what those three things are....?
 

Innerfire89

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Dare I ask what those three things are....?
#1 We want someone to make us a sandwich when we're hungry.
#2 We want control of the T. V.
And #3 We want women to not complain about all the things we do wrong. Lol.
 
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Lol, I thought you were going to take that in another direction innerfire. Phew!
 
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MollyConnor

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#1 We want someone to make us a sandwich when we're hungry.
#2 We want control of the T. V.
And #3 We want women to not complain about all the things we do wrong. Lol.
You all are just too demanding! Women only want two things. :rolleyes::p

1) Men who make 6 figures.
2) Men who are over 6 feet tall.
 

Innerfire89

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You all are just too demanding! Women only want two things. :rolleyes::p

1) Men who make 6 figures.
2) Men who are over 6 feet tall.
Unusually tall men that can divide and multiply into six figures, that's crazy!
 

Innerfire89

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But on a serious note, lots of men don't really want a maid, but the sandwich thing would be appreciated though.
 
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oh man... the sammich thing is already mentioned...

I have nothing to add here. :rolleyes: