Let's kill the anti-rhetoric concerning missions

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I sure hope some of you were allowed a choice in whether or not to love your spouses. Or were you also told in those cases that you had no choice there either?

I live as I do, and you live as you do. But in my world, loving is a choice.
 
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Joshua had gathered the leadership of the tribes of Israel and reminded them of all the things God had done for them . . . then told them to fear God and serve him . . . choose you this day whom you will serve . . . idols or the one true God. I agree that Joshua loved God with all his heart, soul, mind and strength . . . I think where we disagree is Joshua did not have a choice in his love for God but was "chosen" to love God. I believe Joshua had a choice - idolatry vs. serve the one true God. And he took the stand to serve God.

I do know the story of how "kings" came about. Mostly in the OT when "man of God" is used it is used concerning a "prophet". But nevertheless - Saul was chosen by God to be king - Saul was a choice young man and a goodly man; Saul went into the city to see the man of God (Samuel). Samuel had already been told by God about Saul and was told to anoint him to be captain over the people of Israel. Samuel anointed Saul . . . God changed Saul's heart . . . and the Spirit of God came upon him and he prophesied among the prophets. That is the background -
The thing is I have never said that God does NOT choose individuals to carry out his plans to fulfill his purposes. And he will work around those who are stubborn if he has to - the point is God works with man. As to salvation - mankind was given options - to serve God or not, to believe and trust in him or not . . . .

I don't know why you assume that I have not read the Bible? I have read and continue to read . . . and I have set my responses up in context. God "chose" the way and plan of salvation. Nothing will thwart God's plan nor purpose (Isaiah 55:11) So shall my word be that goes forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. How does one receive salvation? Only through Jesus Christ - one must believe and to believe in something, to trust in something, to be fully persuaded in something takes a person making a decision.

Actually the wheat and the tares have not been separated YET.
Let both grow together until the harvest: and in the time of harvest I will say to the reapers, Gather ye together first the tares and bind them in bundles to burn them: but gather the wheat into my barn.

No, God is not a liar and throughout scripture he has set forth His plan for salvation - a choice. You either believe in the Lord Jesus Christ (life) or you don't (death).
Love isn't salvation. Love isn't election. Love isn't sanctification. When did this get into choice = love/election/salivation on Man's part? And yet, you just said Joshua chose to love God. We were never talking about Man's choice to love. We were talking about God choosing whom he would save.

And you're right. We do not divide wheat from tare. Jesus does. AND Jesus did! He did it often in Gospel of John. I thought you just said you read the Bible.

You're changing words to fit what you want, instead of sticking to what has been said.
 
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It took more than one time for me to hear the gospel to come to the decision to believe in God and his only begotten Son. I had to hear it enough that I trusted and believed in what I heard. Hearing works through my brain and my thought processes. Building trust in something takes time and sometimes experience - you don't meet a stranger and trust that stranger with everything that you are - a relationship of trust has to be built through your experiences with that stranger until that stranger becomes a friend you can trust.

Actually, I would say that godly sorrow came almost immediately - but believing in God's word and the truth found within - that took awhile. But God did not MAKE me love HIM - Jesus did not MAKE me love him . . . I grew in love and trust as I learned more about his life and started seeing God's faithfulness to me in my life - that is when my true relationship with the Father and the Son began.
Then back to how did you decide? Surely, you spent time thinking it out. What were the pros and what were the cons?

BTW, you're the one bringing "love" into this. This whole thread is about God's choice and what "Calvinists" do about mission work, but somehow you slipped off those things and turned it into Man choosing love.
 
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Love isn't salvation. Love isn't election. Love isn't sanctification. When did this get into choice = love/election/salivation on Man's part? And yet, you just said Joshua chose to love God. We were never talking about Man's choice to love. We were talking about God choosing whom he would save.

And you're right. We do not divide wheat from tare. Jesus does. AND Jesus did! He did it often in Gospel of John. I thought you just said you read the Bible.

You're changing words to fit what you want, instead of sticking to what has been said.
I must have read it wrong when I read in both the Old and NEW that love was a commandment.........
 
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Hummmm. I heard somewhere that God IS love. Why would that not automatically come up in any discussion of following Him?

I love God because He first loved me.......... Or was I supposed to determine if I was one of the "selected elected", before doing that?
 
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I sure hope some of you were allowed a choice in whether or not to love your spouses. Or were you also told in those cases that you had no choice there either?

I live as I do, and you live as you do. But in my world, loving is a choice.
I sure hope you chose some day reason over fly-fishing. Just because suddenly you start playing "man chooses love" to avoid "God chooses who he elects," doesn't really mean anyone believes you're being reasonable, or even logical.

I can choose liver or pizza too, but it has nothing to do with God's election.

Bait and switch might fool some people, but when they go into a store to buy an air-conditioner but only see tires? It no one will buy the tires instead.

And you think I can't reason?
 
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I must have read it wrong when I read in both the Old and NEW that love was a commandment.........
If you love because you were commanded to, then.............. I guess I don't even know how to relate to that.
 
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I must have read it wrong when I read in both the Old and NEW that love was a commandment.........
You must of read it wrong, because we're talking about election and God's sovereignty, not man's views on love. Our love doesn't save us. It doesn't elect us. It doesn't sanctify us.

How easily bait and switch works on this forum.
 
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I sure hope you chose some day reason over fly-fishing. Just because suddenly you start playing "man chooses love" to avoid "God chooses who he elects," doesn't really mean anyone believes you're being reasonable, or even logical.

I can choose liver or pizza too, but it has nothing to do with God's election.

Bait and switch might fool some people, but when they go into a store to buy an air-conditioner but only see tires? It no one will buy the tires instead.

And you think I can't reason?
It doesn't matter what I think, you just demonstrated that you are awfully vague in that area.
 
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Did he also say that no man can come unto the Son unless drawn of the Father?

Does MANY = ALL?

Which of the following is in the scripture?

MANY are called, but few chosen.

All are called, but few chosen.
Did he also say that no one comes to the Father but by (dia) me?

And there is something that needs to be considered in the context of John 6:44 - Is the context regarding the resurrection, i.e. eternal life? I am the bread of life: he that comes to me shall never hunger; and he that believes on me shall never thirst. All that the Father gives me shall come to me; and him that comes to me I will in no wise cast out. . . . how do we come to Christ? Through belief in him How do we come to the Father? through belief in the Son (no one comes to the Father but by (dia) me). Who does the Father give to the Son? Those that believe in the Son. So this is it: he that comes to me, he that believes on me shall never hunger or thirst . . . this is the will of Him that sent me that every one which sees the Son, and believes on him, may have eternal life and I will raise him up at the last day . . . No man can come to me unless the Father draws
(the subjunctive mood which is the mood of possibility and potentiality. The action described may or may not occur, depending upon circumstances) him and I will raise him up on the last day. . . those that the Father gives him - those that believe are those that the Father draws and those that believe are the ones who will be raised to eternal life on the last day. . . . Just thinking out loud :eek: There is a condition set forth in order for one to be raised to eternal life . . . belief in the only begotten Son of God.

It says "Many" are called (to the wedding feast) - but few are chosen . . . MANY (great, much, large) are called but only those who believe are chosen.
 
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If you love because you were commanded to, then.............. I guess I don't even know how to relate to that.
You relate to it any which way you want, which is very much the problem. It's all about how Willie relates and hopes, (although hope has little to do with it, since that was just a passive-aggressive snide comment), while ignoring what God wants/deserves/demands/commands.
 
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It doesn't matter what I think, you just demonstrated that you are awfully vague in that area.
There's the problem -- sticking to topic is "vague" to you, while snide works for you. Every time I answer you directly, you skip right over that to find something else in the thread that's quicker and easier to mock. I've been clear to you for over a month now, and every time you do not question or even react to it. Instead you wait to make some kind of snide comment to someone, anyone, but me. Until, I'm less specific, and then you can go snide there.

As I've said you neither walk the walk, nor talk the talk.

It's not me, Babe!
 
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You must of read it wrong, because we're talking about election and God's sovereignty, not man's views on love. Our love doesn't save us. It doesn't elect us. It doesn't sanctify us.

How easily bait and switch works on this forum.
I read nothing wrong, but made a comment concerning love....go look at my first two or three posts on this thread.....
 
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If you love because you were commanded to, then.............. I guess I don't even know how to relate to that.
First and for most I know you understand that ........ means that is not the end of the story.

Second....no matter how one slices and dices the command to Love God and our neighbor is given in the O.T. and reiterated in the NEW by both JESUS and JOHN.....

Having said that.......the beginning point is any man's walk with God is the fear of GOD and LOVE is commanded......it is to be supplanted with LOVE given freely as the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts due to maturity and spiritual growth.........not because we loved him, but because he loved us and gave himself for us.....

Willy, I like you man....sometimes you jump to conclusions about the belief of some before all of the facts have been given and or are presented........

A new commandment that I give you...That you love one another as I have loved you.
 
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Love isn't salvation. Love isn't election. Love isn't sanctification. When did this get into choice = love/election/salivation on Man's part? And yet, you just said Joshua chose to love God. We were never talking about Man's choice to love. We were talking about God choosing whom he would save.

And you're right. We do not divide wheat from tare. Jesus does. AND Jesus did! He did it often in Gospel of John. I thought you just said you read the Bible.

You're changing words to fit what you want, instead of sticking to what has been said.
You are right love isn't salvation - but salvation has been offered to us through God's love for us - so love must play a part somewhere in the equation especially since it is the first and great commandment. Anyway sticking to the subject - plain and simple - Joshua made a choice NOT to serve idols but to serve God.

Jesus did discern spiritual matters all the time . . . but he will not separate the wheat from the tares until the time of harvest when he sends in his reapers - there are still "tares" growing in the midst of the "wheat"!

 
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Hummmm. I heard somewhere that God IS love. Why would that not automatically come up in any discussion of following Him?

I love God because He first loved me.......... Or was I supposed to determine if I was one of the "selected elected", before doing that?
Get with the program willie! Play the grace lottery today, ya never know.

Heres one dime from the great reformer luther:
"This error of free will is a special doctrine of the Antichrist."

What a character, all this coming from the same guy who brought us anti-semitic writings (used during WWII, he was a hero in germany), approved of getting drunk and even adviced another guy to do so, used words like "sin boldly" (of course its outta context, i already know). Yeah. The europeans switched one evil (indulgences etc) to another.
Luther was a complete weirdo, dont know why people wanna join a church with his name on it, even today the most liberal of the liberal churches dont dare say what Luther did.

I think the sin boldly comment came from the idea that salvation is purely positional, and not actually visible in anyway, this is what happens when ya let lawyers invent doctrines.

And Willie-T we rarely agree, but this time you are spot on, if it aint voluntarily love for God, it aint real love.
 
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Then back to how did you decide? Surely, you spent time thinking it out. What were the pros and what were the cons?

BTW, you're the one bringing "love" into this. This whole thread is about God's choice and what "Calvinists" do about mission work, but somehow you slipped off those things and turned it into Man choosing love.
How did I decide? What part of it did you not understand? Love and salvation are not defined the same but IMHO love has a lot to do with salvation . . . . You are only given salvation through God's grace and God's love and it is achieved only through faith (belief, trust) in Jesus Christ. . . . . but I will try not to mention it again.

LOL - the thread was derailed a few times before I came along
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First and for most I know you understand that ........ means that is not the end of the story.

Second....no matter how one slices and dices the command to Love God and our neighbor is given in the O.T. and reiterated in the NEW by both JESUS and JOHN.....

Having said that.......the beginning point is any man's walk with God is the fear of GOD and LOVE is commanded......it is to be supplanted with LOVE given freely as the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts due to maturity and spiritual growth.........not because we loved him, but because he loved us and gave himself for us.....

Willy, I like you man....sometimes you jump to conclusions about the belief of some before all of the facts have been given and or are presented........

A new commandment that I give you...That you love one another as I have loved you.
Let me get this straight so that I don't jump to any conclusions.

Are you saying you love the crotchety old SOB across the street who yells at your children and calls the cops on you? And this love you feel for him is generated from you being told to love him? That is what you think "If you love me, you will keep my commandments" means?

I'll hold up there so you can work slowly through answering only this small amount, helping me see what you believe, a little at a time.

But, I WILL say this much. I don't think that verse means: "It proves you love me if you keep those commandments."

I see it saying: "The degree and depth of the actual love you have for me will be shown in how you treat others through the manner of you making my commandments an active part of your daily interactions with even your obnoxious neighbors there on Earth."
 
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Let me get this straight so that I don't jump to any conclusions.

Are you saying you love the crotchety old SOB across the street who yells at your children and calls the cops on you? And this love you feel for him is generated from you being told to love him? That is what you think "If you love me, you will keep my commandments" means?

I'll hold up there so you can work slowly through answering only this small amount, helping me see what you believe, a little at a time.

But, I WILL say this much. I don't think that verse means: "It proves you love me if you keep those commandments."

I see it saying: "The degree and depth of the actual love you have for me will be shown in how you treat others through the manner of you making my commandments an active part of your daily interactions with even your obnoxious neighbors there on Earth."
Love is an action not a wishy, washy feel good emotion.....it works no ill toward your neighbor and covers a multitude of sin....and I agree with your last line......all I am saying is that love as a commandment starts as a commandment and over time, growth and maturity is supplanted with a way of life and lifestyle of love that is seen in what you do and how you treat the others around you......

My biggest problem with most of Christiandom today is the simple fact that it has been reduced to a religion and or a religious exercise......biblical Christianity is a way of life not a religion and I view our approach to service the same way I view how a child is brought up....at first they are told what to do, whipped, kept in line, disciplined and rewarded based upon their actions and deeds....as they mature and see the benefit and or possible outcome of their actions (reward, praise or punishment) their attitudes, characteristics and actions are change, molded and fine tuned....eventually they mature and go on to lead productive lives (or not) based up how they were raised UP......

To me this mirrors our spiritual walk and or level of biblical Christianity........we as children on milk are commanded and instructed how to walk, talk, live etc.......as we progress in maturity and seeing God work in our lives in blessing and or an occasional butt whipping, our walk, life and actions change, grow and mature.....the same in my mind is true with love.....

As a kid my brother and I fought like cats and dogs and had to constantly be told to love each other and how to treat each other...I bet we wrote the Cain and Abel story 1000 times as kids.....and as we matured as brothers, our love for each other began to grow and mature and now we no longer need to be told....it is evident based upon how we treat each other.......

That is how I view it
 
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That will help in how I read your future posts. Thank you.