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roxxyroller

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Most boys have cooties .. especially the ones that I just got slammed by in my lil "Well I'm Back" thread in the Singles forum. I can foresee me leaving this site again just as fast as I came back. It won't be long before I quit this site altogether. Makes me wonder why I even came back.
 
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It's my birthday, everyone! :D :eek:



Well it's about that time of year...they should be prepared! lol
I hope I’m not late MM!!! Happy birthday sis! Love u!

Most boys have cooties .. especially the ones that I just got slammed by in my lil "Well I'm Back" thread in the Singles forum. I can foresee me leaving this site again just as fast as I came back. It won't be long before I quit this site altogether. Makes me wonder why I even came back.
It happens a lot here Roxxy. I saw your thread and it saddens me that you were unwelcomed. It’s also terrible that some of those guys who made you feel that way are my friends. But trust me they have been a lot of help for other people so they’re not entirely bad. They’re also just imperfect.

I understand that making you feel guilty is the worst thing to do right now and though I’ve never been married or verbally abused, I don’t exactly know how that feels, I know depression and anxiety. So I’ll pray that Jesus gets you through this (HE always delivers). Also I’d advise you just stay in threads like this and away from the rest of the BDF because it can be worse. A lot worse. I hope you decide to stay, there are many many helpful people here, they’re usually in this thread ;) and I hope this site blesses you more. :)

Also check out my signature ;) and find comfort that Jesus has already paid for all of out shortcomings :)

You got this sis!
 
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roxxyroller

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I hope I’m not late MM!!! Happy birthday sis! Love u!



It happens a lot here Roxxy. I saw your thread and it saddens me that you were unwelcomed. It’s also terrible that some of those guys who made you feel that way are my friends. But trust me they have been a lot of help for other people so they’re not entirely bad. They’re also just imperfect.

I understand that making you feel guilty is the worst thing to do right now and though I’ve never been married or verbally abused, I don’t exactly know how that feels, I know depression and anxiety. So I’ll pray that Jesus gets you through this (HE always delivers). Also I’d advise you just stay in threads like this and away from the rest of the BDF because it can be worse. A lot worse. I hope you decide to stay, there are many many helpful people here, they’re usually in this thread ;) and I hope this site blesses you more. :)

Also check out my signature ;) and find comfort that Jesus has already paid for all of out shortcomings :)

You got this sis!
Thanks girlfriend. I joined in 2015 and we used to have a blast. I just don't understand how some can think that they are above others. Its Jesus Christ that I must answer to, not them.
 
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Thanks girlfriend. I joined in 2015 and we used to have a blast. I just don't understand how some can think that they are above others. Its Jesus Christ that I must answer to, not them.
It’s a misunderstanding. It is just that most of the time. To them they’re offering help in the best way they think they could not aware (or may be aware, just not mindful of the sensitivity) that it could be taken as acting holier than thou, imposing they’re better people and they got their life together (no they don’t and most of them have admitted that).

Misunderstanings are straight from hell and they destroy lives :(
 

roxxyroller

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I just got the most touching and amazing private message from Frank (achildofGod) and it truly brought tears to my eyes.
I love you so much in Christ's love, Frank, and my heart truly bleeds and feels for you. Thank you so much for touching my heart the way you did tonight. XO
 
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I hope I’m not late MM!!! Happy birthday sis! Love u!
Thanks! Love you too!

I just got the most touching and amazing private message from Frank (achildofGod) and it truly brought tears to my eyes.
I love you so much in Christ's love, Frank, and my heart truly bleeds and feels for you. Thank you so much for touching my heart the way you did tonight. XO
Aww, yay! I haven't heard from Frank in a good minute.
 

JesusLives

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Most boys have cooties .. especially the ones that I just got slammed by in my lil "Well I'm Back" thread in the Singles forum. I can foresee me leaving this site again just as fast as I came back. It won't be long before I quit this site altogether. Makes me wonder why I even came back.
Please don't go. I'm so glad you are back you need to stay and play with us. Hugs from Blond to you.
 

JesusLives

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Roxy I was so excited when I got your message and happy you have returned like getting some of the old crew back and we need your sparkle for sure....

 

blue_ladybug

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Roxy, just stick them all on ignore. And for goodness sake, stay outta the Singles forum. That's the forum that chased you off last time. Kinda speaks volumes about some of the people who reside in there, unfortunately.. :(
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Oh Gosh im so sleepyyyy heeeelp lol
I feel your pain. I worked 9 hours Monday, then got called out 10:00 Monday night and did not get home until about 2 yesterday afternoon. Then hard to get up at 3:30 this morning.

I am on a coffee marathon!!
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Well kids .. here is my story.
First my daddy died last year, 2 days after his 87th Birthday. I am the youngest of 6, so I was daddy's girl. (Well, I am mommy's girl too lol .. she is 83 and the most amazing mom in the world ... love her so much.)
So my dads death ripped me apart. 3 and a half months later I left my now ex husband.

In the process of divorce right now, and boy is that stressful!!
be on watch, Satan will come after you. My mother had her mother father and sister all died within a 5 year period. I lost her whole family. Then went through a divorce myself. Satan took me down for 5 years.. Stay with the family of Christ and cherish your christian family and let them help your sis..
 

EarnestQ

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Went to Walmart. They have absolutely no winter coats in stock..gonna have to look online and order one.. :/
Try Goodwill and Salvation Army. They might have something nearly unused that is high quality.
 

p_rehbein

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Can't let one person steal your joy............THAT'S WHAT THE IGNORE OPTION IS FOR!

:)

just saying



Most boys have cooties .. especially the ones that I just got slammed by in my lil "Well I'm Back" thread in the Singles forum. I can foresee me leaving this site again just as fast as I came back. It won't be long before I quit this site altogether. Makes me wonder why I even came back.
 

p_rehbein

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Haven't done an update in awhile I guess.......my physical situation is pretty much the same as it has been since last November. Goodness.........a year now. While I have regained most of the use of my left shoulder/arm, problems have risen with my rigit shoulder/arm. So both are pretty much a problem now.

Simple truth is, the VA Specialists all agree that there isn't anything they can do for me other than try to control the pain level to a level I can live with. Average day, my pain level ranges from 6 to 7.......sometimes it spikes up, sometimes it lessens. Those times it lessens are a real joy.

I am now in long term Physical Therapy to try and build up my strength and stamina. That will help greatly in fighting the pain. Have to be careful what I do though, so as to not increase the inflammation in the shoulders which will cause greater problems.

Who woulda ever thought that Prevnar 13 could do such damage?

Anyway, that's pretty much how things will be from now on according to the Specialists, so I gotta live with it. I know there are those who are far worse off than me, and I keep that in mind, and praise God that He watches over me and keeps me.
 

EarnestQ

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Haven't done an update in awhile I guess.......my physical situation is pretty much the same as it has been since last November. Goodness.........a year now. While I have regained most of the use of my left shoulder/arm, problems have risen with my rigit shoulder/arm. So both are pretty much a problem now.

Simple truth is, the VA Specialists all agree that there isn't anything they can do for me other than try to control the pain level to a level I can live with. Average day, my pain level ranges from 6 to 7.......sometimes it spikes up, sometimes it lessens. Those times it lessens are a real joy.

I am now in long term Physical Therapy to try and build up my strength and stamina. That will help greatly in fighting the pain. Have to be careful what I do though, so as to not increase the inflammation in the shoulders which will cause greater problems.

Who woulda ever thought that Prevnar 13 could do such damage?

Anyway, that's pretty much how things will be from now on according to the Specialists, so I gotta live with it. I know there are those who are far worse off than me, and I keep that in mind, and praise God that He watches over me and keeps me.

You may not have to live with it. Research CES (cranial electrotherapy stimulation) or TDCS (transcranial direct current stimulation) and pain. There is a lot of recent research showing how chronic pain can be reduced with these technologies.
 
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LittleBit1987

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I feel your pain. I worked 9 hours Monday, then got called out 10:00 Monday night and did not get home until about 2 yesterday afternoon. Then hard to get up at 3:30 this morning.

I am on a coffee marathon!!
right now, running on 5 hours of sleep... and the little one is sleeping and i just had breakfast for the first time in 3 weeks!!

Coffee will wait till later after I’ve taken my nap.
 

loveme1

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Most boys have cooties .. especially the ones that I just got slammed by in my lil "Well I'm Back" thread in the Singles forum. I can foresee me leaving this site again just as fast as I came back. It won't be long before I quit this site altogether. Makes me wonder why I even came back.
Before you go.. what are cooties?