I posted a few days ago about the troubles in my marriage and whether i should keep fighting for a spouse who wants to divorce. He has agreed to marriage counseling but is still not coming home and "does not want the relationship anymore." He experienced an overwhelming situation and shut out our relationship emotions in order to deal with the stresses of his work. Now that he has found freedom he enjoys it more than the troubles in the relationship. (he had an affair 6 years ago and it has since dictated the tone of our marriage).He doesn't see a way of reconnecting as his love for me is gone.Which in all honesty we did not have a strong foundation. I had my faults and did not display love in the manor i should have. He put up a wall and barely responds to my messages and is angry when he sees me and hates being in our home. I have been praying about this for weeks. I truly believe he put up a wall to protect himself as a way to deal with the guilt and stress in our marriage. I have self improved and changed things but he still is not interested. Today i proposed a trial separation while seeing the therapist weekly. Giving him space without seeing other people. A part of me feels as though he will just agree to it as a stepping stone to divorce. Which i am trying to prevent. I feel like if he let down his guard and was open to re-connection we could work on healing. I just feel like i should really fight for my marriage. Has anyone had any experience with reconnecting with a separated spouse? At this time i do not know if a separation would do more harm in my marriage than good or not. I just know begging him to stay just pushes him away more.