Does God Sever Fellowship With Us When We Sin?

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Ok so a white lie is not a sin?
I always thought of a white lie as not exactly telling exactly what you think. For instance, it's mothers day and we are doing a big feast for mom - ribs on the grill, shrimp, corn on the cob, slaw, beans, etc., etc.

She was getting cranked up in her bedroom trying on outfit after outfit. She felt like she looked fat in every one of them. She has gained a fair amount of weight over about three months. She wanted something where it wouldn't be noticeable. I said I liked best what she had on two outfits ago. I said it hid all her weight gain and was very slimming. It doesn't hide all her weight gain. It hid her weight gain best of all the outfits but it didn't hide it all. So to me, that's a white lie. You aren't brutally truthful and your intent is to make someone relax and not feel bad.

I don't feel the Spirit nagging at my mind that I did a deceitful and bad thing. I feel I made someone feel better. I'll let Him be the judge of if I committed an atrocity. :DMy own mind and heart are not condemning me or telling me to "make things right."
 
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thats exactly what i said...
You mean provide scriptural evidence that there are two natures and not just one? Try Romans 7-8 where Paul talks about the two "I"s (egos). He teaches that victory over sin is achieved by not obeying our unrighteous nature through the spirit. The gnostics taught that victory was achieved by altogether ignoring the unrighteous nature.
 
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I don't think all sins all equal.
I don't think so either.

Jesus said about those careful to tithe of every speck of their dill and cumin that they should have done so but not ignored the weightier matters. I got that He would have preferred the opposite.

And He said to Pilate: therefore he who turned me over to you bears the greater sin.

So I agree not all sins are of equal weight in Gods' sight. It can get tricky if WE judge between our sin and the sin of another man, because we are very prone to tip the scale in our favor every time. And God detests unequal scales (weights).
 

Marcelo

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James 2:10 all are equal to God. but there are worse sins based on the damage they do in this life.
[h=1]James 2:10 New International Version (NIV)[/h][FONT=&quot]10 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.[/FONT]

This is valid for law keepers -- not for Christians.
 

LW97

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Fellowship can indeed be lost.
 
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joefizz

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#90
I always thought of a white lie as not exactly telling exactly what you think. For instance, it's mothers day and we are doing a big feast for mom - ribs on the grill, shrimp, corn on the cob, slaw, beans, etc., etc.

She was getting cranked up in her bedroom trying on outfit after outfit. She felt like she looked fat in every one of them. She has gained a fair amount of weight over about three months. She wanted something where it wouldn't be noticeable. I said I liked best what she had on two outfits ago. I said it hid all her weight gain and was very slimming. It doesn't hide all her weight gain. It hid her weight gain best of all the outfits but it didn't hide it all. So to me, that's a white lie. You aren't brutally truthful and your intent is to make someone relax and not feel bad.

I don't feel the Spirit nagging at my mind that I did a deceitful and bad thing. I feel I made someone feel better. I'll let Him be the judge of if I committed an atrocity. :DMy own mind and heart are not condemning me or telling me to "make things right."
I always wondered how a lie having a color "makes sense"...:confused:
 

wanderer6059

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You mean provide scriptural evidence that there are two natures and not just one? Try Romans 7-8 where Paul talks about the two "I"s (egos). He teaches that victory over sin is achieved by not obeying our unrighteous nature through the spirit. The gnostics taught that victory was achieved by altogether ignoring the unrighteous nature.
are you serious, i said that to you first lol

the new birth, the book of romans for starters.

you have two distinct natures in you the flesh and its desire for the sin nature, and the spirit and its desire for the divine nature. you choose what one you follow.
you are the one who said

Believers are unrighteous by nature, but they do not live in sin. They live in the awareness that they are unrighteous, yet are clothed with righteousness, and repent and acknowledge sin when they commit it.
we are righteous because of that new spirit and the nature it gives.

you are either not reading post, backtracking because you know you are wrong, or being a troll.
 
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Yup I am confused too.:confused:


are you serious, i said that to you first lol



you are the one who said



we are righteous because of that new spirit and the nature it gives.

you are either not reading post, backtracking because you know you are wrong, or being a troll.
 

wanderer6059

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James 2:10 New International Version (NIV)

10 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.

This is valid for law keepers -- not for Christians.
still valid, the usage of law is talking about the divine law and that which is assigned, hence usage of the word law.
 
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I think I understand the way you are seeing it HRFTD. And I think I understand how others are looking at it too. I don't see any horrid hereticalness anywhere. I need to come back and read at leisure when I'm not so rushed and see where the wreck happened. Good thread and topic budman. Not good what's happening but we can work it out, I'm sure of it. Got aa pot boiling over on stove gotta go be back tonight. Bear with and love one another. Even when someone rankles you or raises your fur a little with a remark.
 
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are you serious, i said that to you first lol

you are the one who said

we are righteous because of that new spirit and the nature it gives.

you are either not reading post, backtracking because you know you are wrong, or being a troll.
I think you're getting into that same spirit you were in when you falsely accused me of something. Remember?

But back to the issue. We have imputed righteousness, but not actual righteousness. Our spirit is righteous, but we, of ourselves, are not righteous because our body/soul is tainted with unrighteousness. We are clothed with Christ's righteousness through faith.
 

wanderer6059

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I think you're getting into that same spirit you were in when you falsely accused me of something. Remember?

But back to the issue. We have imputed righteousness, but not actual righteousness. Our spirit is righteous, but we, of ourselves, are not righteous because our body/soul is tainted with unrighteousness. We are clothed with Christ's righteousness through faith.
you have a spirit in you from God, it has a nature, its nature is righteous... that is actual righteousness. you have not purposed anything to discredit that spiritually.

not getting upset with you like then getting confused because you are saying one thing, then saying another. then you are calling others out for what you yourself are doing.

if it walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, looks like a duck, its a duck.

i'm just calling what i see, and i see a duck.