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I believe in abstinence until marriage. I believe in two married people taking care of their children together. I dont believe that if you do it backwards it will work out too. It is very unlikely.
I am going to share some personal stuff with you all that think having two parents for the sake of the child is "stable"
I grew up in a two parent household. By the time I was in middle school I could tell how much my parents didn't like each other. It was horrible.They pretty
much ignored each other and there was no affection what so ever. So yes, for appearance sake it seems great to have two people raise a kid together. But within that household if they are going to be miserable then they create misery for the children as well. The children don't know what its like to see a man and a woman love each other. They don't have examples of how husbands and wives should treat each other. Its essentially two people who live together taking care of a child. IT DOES THE CHILD NO GOOD!!!!!
Its easy for us to say "well you need to take care of it the right way" but reality is they werent doing it the right way to begin with why would the start now.
I am going to share some personal stuff with you all that think having two parents for the sake of the child is "stable"
I grew up in a two parent household. By the time I was in middle school I could tell how much my parents didn't like each other. It was horrible.They pretty
much ignored each other and there was no affection what so ever. So yes, for appearance sake it seems great to have two people raise a kid together. But within that household if they are going to be miserable then they create misery for the children as well. The children don't know what its like to see a man and a woman love each other. They don't have examples of how husbands and wives should treat each other. Its essentially two people who live together taking care of a child. IT DOES THE CHILD NO GOOD!!!!!
Its easy for us to say "well you need to take care of it the right way" but reality is they werent doing it the right way to begin with why would the start now.