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Do not conflate 'stable' with 'happy'. Of course, happiness helps, but this is really about responsibility and doing the right thing even if you don't really want to. Most of us can buckle down and do jobs we don't really like out of a need to pay the bills, so we ought to be more than willing to buckle down and do the 'job' of raising our children, which are obviously a much higher priority.
If it ends in divorce? Well, I can't see how that is any worse than not marrying at all. The only difference is the length of time one was willing to accept one's responsibilities. And besides, many 'happy' marriages also end in divorce.
And abuse? Really? Assuming that the couple are both basically decent people, I think this one's a stretch.
If it ends in divorce? Well, I can't see how that is any worse than not marrying at all. The only difference is the length of time one was willing to accept one's responsibilities. And besides, many 'happy' marriages also end in divorce.
And abuse? Really? Assuming that the couple are both basically decent people, I think this one's a stretch.
And yes, abuse. Ok, you're right, its a stretch, despite the fact that this is what i said i've seen first hand. but ok, sure my experiences are 'a stretch'.