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That we are both bad cleaners.... 
Naaa..
My best friend used to joke "if I survived eating from your messy kitchen food u cook I can survive anything" Lol
(Im not that bad) (anymore) (improved) (miracles do happen)
No Fear
We have experienced so much and are in so deep that I fear not.
Xwife, Xgirlfriends.... (been there done that) and still going though it.
i guess that he is clear to everyone that we ar 2gether and in holy union and does not allow disrespect and criminality and evil on me.
he said to me "what she did to you and all she did to you she did to me for we are one and you are my wife with or with out the ritual thats how I see you"
The hatred and evil of his x perhaz....(why we must have a law that applies to all and a legal system that protects from even politicians)
That meant a lot to me.Knowing he does not accept evil on me and stands by my side and take to court criminality and evil done and resrainingorder need it be.
I want it be crystal clear and stand proud that we are 2gether.
I acttually do not fear anything as we have been though so much and go so deep.
I would not marry anyone who had a x that violated , abused me and did criminality etc on me if he did not take t to court and get restraningorder with me and stand with me, by my side, support, communicate etc.
Its important we are united and communicate and understand and are clear.
I honour and obey my husband (my atheist & feminist mother would kill me if she heard) I see it in a beautiful way.cant explain in this thread.I woman and i power but I only use it to serve and love and help those in need and dont missuse it.
But I have helped him in his work and business and he always listens and appreciates and holds high and values my gifts I can give, serve and contribute.
i dont obey if he is mad lol (then I must rescue him from his madness, dive in and halloooo....are u there)
He said to me "your will is my law" so.....
We hold eachother high.
I cant explain t in this thread but we are one and I am good wife.(we have not had ritual as such)
We are of same religion and that means a lot to us.
Naaa..
My best friend used to joke "if I survived eating from your messy kitchen food u cook I can survive anything" Lol
(Im not that bad) (anymore) (improved) (miracles do happen)
No Fear
We have experienced so much and are in so deep that I fear not.
Xwife, Xgirlfriends.... (been there done that) and still going though it.
i guess that he is clear to everyone that we ar 2gether and in holy union and does not allow disrespect and criminality and evil on me.
he said to me "what she did to you and all she did to you she did to me for we are one and you are my wife with or with out the ritual thats how I see you"
The hatred and evil of his x perhaz....(why we must have a law that applies to all and a legal system that protects from even politicians)
That meant a lot to me.Knowing he does not accept evil on me and stands by my side and take to court criminality and evil done and resrainingorder need it be.
I want it be crystal clear and stand proud that we are 2gether.
I acttually do not fear anything as we have been though so much and go so deep.
I would not marry anyone who had a x that violated , abused me and did criminality etc on me if he did not take t to court and get restraningorder with me and stand with me, by my side, support, communicate etc.
Its important we are united and communicate and understand and are clear.
I honour and obey my husband (my atheist & feminist mother would kill me if she heard) I see it in a beautiful way.cant explain in this thread.I woman and i power but I only use it to serve and love and help those in need and dont missuse it.
But I have helped him in his work and business and he always listens and appreciates and holds high and values my gifts I can give, serve and contribute.
i dont obey if he is mad lol (then I must rescue him from his madness, dive in and halloooo....are u there)
He said to me "your will is my law" so.....
We hold eachother high.
I cant explain t in this thread but we are one and I am good wife.(we have not had ritual as such)
We are of same religion and that means a lot to us.
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What scares me the most is not being enough for my husband. I want to have the right words to say and the know the right things to do and when to do them when he needs it.
But ofcourse he can find an inmeausurable amount of comfort with God all the time. It would still be nice to be able to help him out though
But ofcourse he can find an inmeausurable amount of comfort with God all the time. It would still be nice to be able to help him out though
Sharing things with someone of the opposite sex, like, closet space, or a bed, or basically about everything in the home that I don't usuaully share with anybody. Marriage I think would probably cut into my whole relaxation routine when I am home. I wouldn't be able to fully function or clear my mind if I had to share my minimal luxuries with someone else.
Well, wow what a question. A little background infomation on me is needed to fully understand so bare with me this might take awhile to express and prolly will seem quite odd to you but here we go.
I was saved 17 years ago when I was 22 am 39 now will be 40 in Feburary. Well my 17 years has been one hell of a ride let me tell you The Spirit of the Lord has lead me to preach on the street corners of america, homeless and in my life I have forsaken all for the sake of the gospel. I have suffered much for Jesus. I was diagnosed with schrizaphrenia when I was 16. And have always been the odd man out. However from my childhood I was often picked first for football and in high school was the life of party but really never had but a few close friends.
People would often fist-fight me hit me, kick me, knock me down. Even before I was saved I could never bring myself to hit people back. I suppose some could say and often said that I was afraid. But those that would hit me would leave saying OMG your nuts cause i would stand up look them right in the eye and say that all you got hit me again. If that is the kinda person you are just kick me in the head.
My fear was not of them, but I have always feared God's judgement for my actions. I feared God would be angry at me if I inflicted pain on others.
So, anyway after i was saved I tried to the best of my abilty to forsake all for Christ preached on the street corners, in the highways, the bi-ways the lowest and forgotten places of america. At one time God even lead me to Salt Lake City, Utah to preach in the temple courtyard and the sidewalk around the temple which I walked 3 times by God's decree. For what that is worth about 11 years ago I meet a woman named Cher and we confessed our love for one another and married ourselves under God and made a vow to God that we would remain faithful to one another.
We were not married in a church were not married legally by any of man's ways. God blessed us with a little girl named Rachel. However at the time of her pregnancy her, her mother, and her church all wanted her to get an abortion. They all said we was nuts and were living in sin. Which very well maybe I have no idea. I do know I shaved my head and made a vow to God Almighty to remain faithful to her. So I honor that I do not fear man. I do fear God.
Well needless to say I tried to get custody because her sister was given my daughter the Judge ruled that her sister would have custody because me and Cher both had a mental illness history. So I became so angry at the entire world, at God, at mankind, at myself and I truly just wanted to die. I was praying for God to take me home because if these are the rules if this is my life I can't take this crap anymore. No I was not sucidal I was not gonna kill myself by any means I fear God and now that is wrong.
Well whether you want to believe me or not I had a vision in my mind of an Angel of Lord God Almighty wielding a flaming sword. I didn't see him physically. I saw and heard him in my mind. He told me "Cameran you are forever loved, Cameran you are forever forgiven, Cameran you are forever redeemed, Cameran you are forever justified, Cameran you are forever saved." I felt the tears from this angel fall upon my eyes around the sides and below them. I felt them embed in my skin like an unseen tatoo. I can't explain this and I am not trying too.
So has been 10 years for me being seperated from my wife if you will I use the term losely. I have not laid with another woman and will not unless I become truly married under God and man. All I can do is warn you. Do not take your vows to Lord God Almighty hastely or lightly for He will bring everything rather secret or unsecret to judgement and you will have to give an account of yourself for all the things you know about and even those things you do not know about. Which I am sorry to say is alot more than the things you know about. Becareful when you entertain strangers for some have entertained angels unware.
God Bless and thank you for letting me share a little of my life with you.
I was saved 17 years ago when I was 22 am 39 now will be 40 in Feburary. Well my 17 years has been one hell of a ride let me tell you The Spirit of the Lord has lead me to preach on the street corners of america, homeless and in my life I have forsaken all for the sake of the gospel. I have suffered much for Jesus. I was diagnosed with schrizaphrenia when I was 16. And have always been the odd man out. However from my childhood I was often picked first for football and in high school was the life of party but really never had but a few close friends.
People would often fist-fight me hit me, kick me, knock me down. Even before I was saved I could never bring myself to hit people back. I suppose some could say and often said that I was afraid. But those that would hit me would leave saying OMG your nuts cause i would stand up look them right in the eye and say that all you got hit me again. If that is the kinda person you are just kick me in the head.
My fear was not of them, but I have always feared God's judgement for my actions. I feared God would be angry at me if I inflicted pain on others.
So, anyway after i was saved I tried to the best of my abilty to forsake all for Christ preached on the street corners, in the highways, the bi-ways the lowest and forgotten places of america. At one time God even lead me to Salt Lake City, Utah to preach in the temple courtyard and the sidewalk around the temple which I walked 3 times by God's decree. For what that is worth about 11 years ago I meet a woman named Cher and we confessed our love for one another and married ourselves under God and made a vow to God that we would remain faithful to one another.
We were not married in a church were not married legally by any of man's ways. God blessed us with a little girl named Rachel. However at the time of her pregnancy her, her mother, and her church all wanted her to get an abortion. They all said we was nuts and were living in sin. Which very well maybe I have no idea. I do know I shaved my head and made a vow to God Almighty to remain faithful to her. So I honor that I do not fear man. I do fear God.
Well needless to say I tried to get custody because her sister was given my daughter the Judge ruled that her sister would have custody because me and Cher both had a mental illness history. So I became so angry at the entire world, at God, at mankind, at myself and I truly just wanted to die. I was praying for God to take me home because if these are the rules if this is my life I can't take this crap anymore. No I was not sucidal I was not gonna kill myself by any means I fear God and now that is wrong.
Well whether you want to believe me or not I had a vision in my mind of an Angel of Lord God Almighty wielding a flaming sword. I didn't see him physically. I saw and heard him in my mind. He told me "Cameran you are forever loved, Cameran you are forever forgiven, Cameran you are forever redeemed, Cameran you are forever justified, Cameran you are forever saved." I felt the tears from this angel fall upon my eyes around the sides and below them. I felt them embed in my skin like an unseen tatoo. I can't explain this and I am not trying too.
So has been 10 years for me being seperated from my wife if you will I use the term losely. I have not laid with another woman and will not unless I become truly married under God and man. All I can do is warn you. Do not take your vows to Lord God Almighty hastely or lightly for He will bring everything rather secret or unsecret to judgement and you will have to give an account of yourself for all the things you know about and even those things you do not know about. Which I am sorry to say is alot more than the things you know about. Becareful when you entertain strangers for some have entertained angels unware.
God Bless and thank you for letting me share a little of my life with you.
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What scares me the most is that I'll marry a wonderful man and he'll change.
I am afraid that I won't be able to adjust to constant change. A marriage is a ride rolling that changing way all the time which of course leaves very little time for........coasting
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You know, I can't really say.
I've never been married, or engaged...or in that long and serious a relationship.
The fears you've all listed are fair enough worries. Divorce, change, falling from God... In my case, I suppose messing things up and hurting her loom somewhere in the back of my mind. Messing up God's purpose for my life...being responsible for the day to day life of someone I love more than any other...
Then again, we all have worries, fears, and doubts. Scripture tells us not to fear, worry, ext. I think we just have to live with those things.
It's not that you won't have them, but that you shouldn't let them hinder you.
I've never been married, or engaged...or in that long and serious a relationship.
The fears you've all listed are fair enough worries. Divorce, change, falling from God... In my case, I suppose messing things up and hurting her loom somewhere in the back of my mind. Messing up God's purpose for my life...being responsible for the day to day life of someone I love more than any other...
Then again, we all have worries, fears, and doubts. Scripture tells us not to fear, worry, ext. I think we just have to live with those things.
It's not that you won't have them, but that you shouldn't let them hinder you.
-----I like your comments , all , and, Yes,.'depart from God' , 'they change,' etc, and, fencepost I especially like your coviction and HELP in your last PARAGRAPH, great wisdom
I am afraid that I won't be able to adjust to constant change. A marriage is a ride rolling that changing way all the time which of course leaves very little time for........coasting
I am afraid that I won't be able to adjust to constant change. A marriage is a ride rolling that changing way all the time which of course leaves very little time for........coasting
Praise God, thanks again for your agreement. Has been awhile since I have felt any type of approval at all in my life. Is very reassuring Thank you GreenNnice. Praise God!
My parents scare me the most about marriage (even more than the thought of what sort of in-laws I'd have)... we have a long history of never agreeing on the men I date... I'm afraid they're going to take it too personally and cut off contact with me if I marry someone they don't like. Probably sounds irrational... if you've never met my parents.