what a huge over reaction. wow. i'm assuming your BF is about your age. which means he has parents. maybe his parents made him shut the phone off. learn this lesson at a young age, don't jump to conclusions. I used to do the same thing, and all it does it irritate people when you accuse them of things when they actually have legit reasons for not being available. I've lost many friendships over accusations because i took it personal that they didn't do what i expected, and i didn't have all the information. Then, when i find out there is a good reason, I"M the one that looks like an idiot. I"M the problem for over reacting. So i suggest you relax, and stop jumping to conclusions. Anyways, you're only 14. The likely hood of this relationship even becoming anything long term is pretty slim. I started dating at 13, and all it brought me was regret, i wish i hadn't started so young. I'm not friends with anyone i ever dated in my teens, let alone still dating them. At your age its really nothing but setting yourself up to be hurt over and over for the next few years.