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Social, I don't got nothing more to say about 'those despicable single women' you speak of except , well, pull up a chair, boy.
God is who you should follow in your life and IF you don't you may, like Jonah, have a whale of a tale to tell the world. Personally, IF God showed me a reason to do something, even my most hated thing to do, which for you is marrying a 'despicable' single woman, I would do it. But that is between you and God...
AND, don't WORRY (I almost sound ironic here, like, Be AFRAID, be VERY AFRAID, from 'The Fly,' of course.) just chill and WALK AWAY from that despicable single woman with a kid , because God will just let you go date your favorite undespicable single woman. LOL. Not. As in not happening. You better, IF you are God's, get it straight , that God may very well have a single woman for you and, unless, you want a severe incident like being thrown in the sea, like Jonah, you better follow God.
That's just a story, Green, means nothing in TODAY's age.
Better hope you're right, that's all I have to say on that. Because if I'm right, then you will WISH my words here didn't fall on deaf ears.
Or, my last post, 'all over the place?'
Really, what part of SELFISH don't you understand? And, what part of IMMATURE THINKING don't you understand? And, what part of ANTI-SOCIAL WORDING don't you understand? And, what part of VIRGIN ARE YOU? don't you understand?
Just trying to git inside that God-given brain of yours, Social, to see why in your right mind you would think YOUR CONDESCENDING, MEAN-SPIRITED WORDS would NOT be 'falling on deaf ears,' as you put it.
'Crawling with single women with kids,' you have me at 'crawling,' and, I AM NOT A SINGLE WOMAN ! It is a repulsive word !! I am not a woman, I am a 43 year old guy in fact who has NEVER had sex and won't (Dear Lord...Amen) until I am married . And my opportunities have been multitudinous to break that PACT I made with God long ago. I have girls today think I am in my 20's, I look young, which is fine, and, that is even with a edged beard . At 42 (last year), I attracted a 20 year old girl, didn't knowingly try to do it but it just worked out that way ! BUT, God stepped in, made it NOT work out, made me not let it work out.
Point is, Green?
The power of God is great, .
And, YOU, Social, may have every single intention in the world to not get HOOKED up with a single girl for your wife. Fine. So be it. Like I said beginning of my post above, THAT is your prerogative, just fine, do it how you want but being SELFISH in God's eyes is not going to cut it. If He wants you to do something in life--ANYTHING!--you better do it . And....
there just may be some GREAT Christian single girl with kids out there that God needs you to be with for the rest of your life so He can accomplish a purpose .
I want you before I go Social to put this situation into your situation, Social, thinking of me as a....
single woman with kids. Ok? If you see the whole rest of this post as 'all over the place,' fine, grasp this final concept, thanks , too, for trying.
Looks can be deceiving , though I am 43 years l, as I said, have NO baggage -- no kids, no past relationships to ruin my thinking of love because I have not experienced love, not dated anyone serious all my life. I have though been in singles groups at many different times and social with many single ladies, some with kids, one with kids I seriously liked but I was 24 then and not grown up enough feeling for that responsibility. Great girl. I also danced all the time in college, 9-1, Friday and Saturday nights, 4 years, that happening just about every weekend at my college. I have been through much refining fires from God in my life. So maybe I sound like good catch , maybe not. The Lord leads.
But what I want you to see is this, ASSUMPTIONS ARE DANGEROUS, I am 43 but a VERY, VERY ELIGIBLE BACHELOR , VIRGIN, NO BAGGAGE, AND I HAVE MONEY TOO AND A VERY GOOD JOB.
A lot of girls on here, some anyway, not all I know, see my age and GASP! 43 old man !! I'm in my 20's !!!
Well, I git news for you with this too. I have a 5 year old dog and she loves to play and run and she is fast and powerful (pitbull in her) and I KEEP UP WITH HER. I also have played soccer with many semi-pro and pro soccer players and, if not, for eye problem one year, would have played PRO. Bank on it ! I am not the biggest guy in the world , 6-0. 175, but my dad is a logger and I have carried a 40 pound chainsaw around a lot in my life. So NOT only will I WHIP! the 25 year olds of the world in a race, distance too, I often go on long runs with my dog, I can likely , like a snake, STRIKE, and pin you young guns to the ground.
Point is what, Green?
Looks, Social, are deceiving.
And God may very well have a 20 year old single mom with kid who through no fault of her own (raped) has a kid and YOU are one who God wants to soothe her bonded soul and she is going to help you like NO ONE ELSE can because you BOTH have been.....raped.
God bless you for reading all this, Social, may God deal with you gently even after making so many enemies on here, if you did, personally, I love you, man, we are bros in Christ
, and, like julieannie said, 'hate' over what is said from a thread between Christians shouldn't happen . And, Cattty graciously apologized, Relena tried to rationalize and stick olive leaf out, in fact many tried to be qcfeptive of your decision not wanting to marry a single woman with a kid(s). You tried too.
It's human communication, sometimes rodent't work like we like, but being God's , WE should all get over it, yes, we should , forgiveness is that way, and, now, my turn, sorry, if I said things that may have hurt you, Social, I can be quite cutting in getting my points across. But, I ALWAYS pray, the Lord leads.
