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I am not the type of woman who will act like my husband belongs to me. I am laid back, even when we were teens, I would sit back while another girl would throw herself at my now husband. He would always ask why I wouldn't step up. I am not sure why, maybe I thought he could handle it, or maybe I avoid the altercation.
We have not had too many of this type of situation, but recently for a little over a year, I have watched this mom at my kids school flirt with my husband. At first I thought I was being paranoid, now I am feeling more convinced. I am not worried it will go anywhere, but I feel angry internally.
My husband only talks with her when she initiates, and only about approperiate things. I have watched her flock towards my husband, she only talks with him when I am not right next to him, she doesn't talk with me. I find it annoying and frustrating. I believe she is married, but not sure though because one time she came and talked with my husband, and mentioned something about not being with her daughter's dad, but I think she is married, so maybe not to her daughter's dad. The last time she talked with my husband she mentioned how her daughter supposely wants to be on his soccer team next year. Another thing that bugs me, we coach not just him, but whatever.
I do trust my husband with this, but I am slightly worried because if she is manipulating the scene than, could he get into something and not be aware?
Should my husband avoid talking with this mom?
Should I completely ignore it like I have been doing?
Should I make a point to be-friend her?
What would you do?
We have not had too many of this type of situation, but recently for a little over a year, I have watched this mom at my kids school flirt with my husband. At first I thought I was being paranoid, now I am feeling more convinced. I am not worried it will go anywhere, but I feel angry internally.
My husband only talks with her when she initiates, and only about approperiate things. I have watched her flock towards my husband, she only talks with him when I am not right next to him, she doesn't talk with me. I find it annoying and frustrating. I believe she is married, but not sure though because one time she came and talked with my husband, and mentioned something about not being with her daughter's dad, but I think she is married, so maybe not to her daughter's dad. The last time she talked with my husband she mentioned how her daughter supposely wants to be on his soccer team next year. Another thing that bugs me, we coach not just him, but whatever.
I do trust my husband with this, but I am slightly worried because if she is manipulating the scene than, could he get into something and not be aware?
Should my husband avoid talking with this mom?
Should I completely ignore it like I have been doing?
Should I make a point to be-friend her?
What would you do?