What does god say about anal sex?

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kenisyes

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I draw the line when the man/woman purposely makes relationship-like or sexual opportunities with another man/woman who isn't their husband/wife. Like for example, if the married person purposely goes on a "date" with another man/woman, they pretty much know what they're doing and seem not to care if they cheat, as long as they get caught. (sorry if that sounded weird, it was hard to word it..lol)

Btw to people quoting me, I'm mainly refering to heterosexual relationships..Idk if that makes what I'm saying to make more sense, but I'm just saying.

Hebrews 13:4 - "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."
I'm afraid now I am confused. In post #6 you state that oral or anal sex is not sex. Combining that with this post, I would have to conclude that you believe that an appointment with a prostitute (or a friend) for oral sex is not adultery? Do I read you correctly?
 

Nautilus

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I'm afraid now I am confused. In post #6 you state that oral or anal sex is not sex. Combining that with this post, I would have to conclude that you believe that an appointment with a prostitute (or a friend) for oral sex is not adultery? Do I read you correctly?
I think youre reading too much into it. I dont count oral sex the same as normal sex either...but both fall under adultery
 
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BarlyGurl

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There is no oral Sex, or anal Sex. It's not Sex.

Sex is what could make the wife pregnant. Can a women get pregnant while having anal or oral "sex"?

Simply speaking, it's an activity that stimulates sexual disire. Don't let anyone tell that overall it's Bad or a "sin". For one thing, it isn't even mentioned in the bible so you can't claim that it's a sin (masturbation isn't either btw), and second if anyone tells you it is - it's an opinion. I could see it as bad if some type of serious health problem were to occur within it. Or possibly if I guess someone were to enjoy it more than actual sex.....?
..I'm still not quite sure on that part either..
But of course if anything is Forced without the other person being okay with it, then it is bad and of course forceful.
Sorry...UNBIBLICAL COnCLUSIONS and poor reasoning too.
 

sanglina

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God created us man in His image and blessed us with high IQ and a reasoning mind so that we may use it to bring glory to His name. He created us better than all of His other creations: to be specific animals. Animals do not know what is 'incest' and have sex randomly when they are 'in' the season. But even then, I have neither seen nor heard animals having sex through their anus, so why are we man trying to act even worst than animals by perverting God's perfectly given way of sexual intercourse?

We know from scripture that the devil is very crafty and would leave no stone unturned to pervert God's 'perfect' creation.
 
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BarlyGurl

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what does god say about anal sex. like can the husband force the wife to do it?
BACK IT UP WITH SOME SCRIPTURES!
Bottom Line Here Monica... This is not a topic for "family Forum" because SODOMY is not a family value.
While your question is legitimate... It should have been posted to the "ladies only" forum as opposed to this one.
 

Nautilus

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Bottom Line Here Monica... This is not a topic for "family Forum" because SODOMY is not a family value.
While your question is legitimate... It should have been posted to the "ladies only" forum as opposed to this one.
semi-good point, though I dont see it as a ladies-only question, better would be them creating an adult forum for issues like this were you had to be 18 and over
 
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Strong1

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Wait a sec........where are you Monica, you through this "bomb," out there and now are no where to be found? You clever girl you. ;)
 
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psychomom

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Wait a sec........where are you Monica, you through this "bomb," out there and now are no where to be found? You clever girl you. ;)
I actually laughed.
Out loud. :)

Thanks! :)
 
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Strong1

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I actually laughed.
Out loud. :)

Thanks! :)
Hey girl! I figured if i was going to chime into "This" conversation.....this would be the extent of it, :D.
 
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Ugly

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Wait a sec........where are you Monica, you through this "bomb," out there and now are no where to be found? You clever girl you. ;)
Its only been 23 hours or less, at this time, when she posted.
 
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Strong1

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Its only been 23 hours or less, at this time, when she posted.
And? Imagine, if our (In person) coversations went like this? :eek: Hey Ugly? So what do you think about anal sex? Good, or no? ( Then I bow out for 23 hours or so, while you try to answer my question)
Im not all that deep into internet/cyber communications/relationships.......but I would think the same rules apply! Kinda? Aw who knows............I was just playing with my first post. :D.
 
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nose to nose, toes to toes, is the way i think it was intended, this is my opinion.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Read the first part of Ephesians 5. Pay attention to verse 3.
 

Nautilus

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Read the first part of Ephesians 5. Pay attention to verse 3.
ok so you posted a verse...actually you were to lazy to post the verse but to here...
Ephesians 5
New International Version (NIV)
5 1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.

Ok so this really answers nothing. I see what you're trying to do which is equate anal sex with sexual immorality. Though since we are strictly talking about husband and wife relations and sex between them, how is one to judge the morality/immorality of their activities? I mean is oral sex immoral? What about oh the 20 or so other non-missionary/non-procreative sex acts i could name but won't due to the nature of the forum? I don't really believe the bible ever sets forth guide lines on the 'chiristian way' to have sex outside of it being between a married couple. So who are you to start?
 
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BarlyGurl

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ok so you posted a verse...actually you were to lazy to post the verse but to here...
Ephesians 5
New International Version (NIV)
5 1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.

Ok so this really answers nothing. I see what you're trying to do which is equate anal sex with sexual immorality. Though since we are strictly talking about husband and wife relations and sex between them, how is one to judge the morality/immorality of their activities? I mean is oral sex immoral? What about oh the 20 or so other non-missionary/non-procreative sex acts i could name but won't due to the nature of the forum? I don't really believe the bible ever sets forth guide lines on the 'chiristian way' to have sex outside of it being between a married couple. So who are you to start?
really Nautilus... by now... most forum readers a clear picture of sexual mores... and we notice how you tend to push issues to the fringe. It's a good time to let this thread die quietly.