Are you tired of being single? Are you lonely? Waiting for that right man or woman of God to come along? Hoping they will fill that void? Then this is the Forum for you. It's my first one so pardon my grammar. haha ^_^
Loneliness. Loneliness is an odd thing, it can create a whole new person in a way, one thats desperate, unhappy, willing to lower standards and overlook any fault for the sake of "love". The definition of "Lonely" is "Being sad due to solitude or being alone." Many people get lonely, it's quite a common thing. However, the craving for companionship is different from being lonely. If you are searching for "the one" because you are lonely then you will only be lonely with the wrong person if you marry/date.
One thing you must understand is NO spouse can make you whole, only GOD can get rid of loneliness. People who are obeying God and doing his purpose for their lives won't be lonely. He will keep you too busy, trust me. :] Many of you already know this. God loves us and gives us a choice to pick who we want BUT wrong choices have ramifications my friends. Loneliness can drive people mad at times even create a powerful pain in the chest. Craving companionship will feel different.
Often times people get married for selfish reasons BUT who is a better match maker then God? Once he feels you are ready he will bring someone along side you where h sends you. There is no need for dating sites and dating books and all that. I know God can use anything but remember God loves us and provides for his children, those that are SEEKING him. Put God first and let him change you, only then will you have joy. Happiness is a temporary feeling BUT Joy now that comes from God! Even in times of sadness if you are obeying and seeking God first you will STILL feel Joy! If you trust God truly then let him bring someone along side you as you serve him. Once your heart is God's first and foremost then you will meet someone special.
I say all this in love because I feel like God told me to so someone could hear this but I don't know who this is for. Anyways there you go who ever you are! ^_^ Listen to HIS voice and not your own. If he gives you red flags listen to them. Seek first YOUR purpose and spiritual identity because iron can sharpen iron but a spouse won't be your ticket into heaven, satan himself knows about God but do you KNOW God? (((((((( HUGS ))))))))) ^_^ - Kara
Loneliness. Loneliness is an odd thing, it can create a whole new person in a way, one thats desperate, unhappy, willing to lower standards and overlook any fault for the sake of "love". The definition of "Lonely" is "Being sad due to solitude or being alone." Many people get lonely, it's quite a common thing. However, the craving for companionship is different from being lonely. If you are searching for "the one" because you are lonely then you will only be lonely with the wrong person if you marry/date.
One thing you must understand is NO spouse can make you whole, only GOD can get rid of loneliness. People who are obeying God and doing his purpose for their lives won't be lonely. He will keep you too busy, trust me. :] Many of you already know this. God loves us and gives us a choice to pick who we want BUT wrong choices have ramifications my friends. Loneliness can drive people mad at times even create a powerful pain in the chest. Craving companionship will feel different.
Often times people get married for selfish reasons BUT who is a better match maker then God? Once he feels you are ready he will bring someone along side you where h sends you. There is no need for dating sites and dating books and all that. I know God can use anything but remember God loves us and provides for his children, those that are SEEKING him. Put God first and let him change you, only then will you have joy. Happiness is a temporary feeling BUT Joy now that comes from God! Even in times of sadness if you are obeying and seeking God first you will STILL feel Joy! If you trust God truly then let him bring someone along side you as you serve him. Once your heart is God's first and foremost then you will meet someone special.
I say all this in love because I feel like God told me to so someone could hear this but I don't know who this is for. Anyways there you go who ever you are! ^_^ Listen to HIS voice and not your own. If he gives you red flags listen to them. Seek first YOUR purpose and spiritual identity because iron can sharpen iron but a spouse won't be your ticket into heaven, satan himself knows about God but do you KNOW God? (((((((( HUGS ))))))))) ^_^ - Kara