Hmmm, so I've been thinking on this one. I really don't mean to offend anyone and I'm really sorry if I do, these are just my thoughts on it.
How does age affect how you see someone? Like see them as a potential spouse. Now I'm not talking about the 'oh I'd date someone this age but not this age' but more of - I find this age more attractive for this reason.
I've noticed for myself. I find most 18-20 yo's too immature. But I also find people who are significantly older than me... less attractive, and I'm not just talking about physical? I'm not sure why exactly I find this the case - given that they are more mature - and generally more experienced & understanding. I feel like part of this is the beauty that fades over time - oh how shallow I can be - but I also feel like it is more than just the beauty to me. For example - Someone who was 27 and quite pretty I may feel less attracted to than someone who was 21 and less pretty - not saying I wouldn't date a 27 yo, or older, but, I find less of a desire to.
I'm not sure exactly what it is, it could be just me wanting a young wife... seeking out a young and fertile spouse!. Or maybe it is just a part of me going, by the time I'm 30 she will be 35! Or, hmm, not sure.
What are your experiences of this?
How does age affect how you see someone? Like see them as a potential spouse. Now I'm not talking about the 'oh I'd date someone this age but not this age' but more of - I find this age more attractive for this reason.
I've noticed for myself. I find most 18-20 yo's too immature. But I also find people who are significantly older than me... less attractive, and I'm not just talking about physical? I'm not sure why exactly I find this the case - given that they are more mature - and generally more experienced & understanding. I feel like part of this is the beauty that fades over time - oh how shallow I can be - but I also feel like it is more than just the beauty to me. For example - Someone who was 27 and quite pretty I may feel less attracted to than someone who was 21 and less pretty - not saying I wouldn't date a 27 yo, or older, but, I find less of a desire to.
I'm not sure exactly what it is, it could be just me wanting a young wife... seeking out a young and fertile spouse!. Or maybe it is just a part of me going, by the time I'm 30 she will be 35! Or, hmm, not sure.
What are your experiences of this?