How do i let it go? I constantly think about it, not because i want to but i just get these flashes in my head of details she mentioned. Ive only told a few people becasue i didnt want her to be crushed by embarassment. I just want to forget that it ever happend so i can be happy again. It will be a year in May. How long is this supposed to take. I never thought she was capable of this. Im so depressed!!