Post revolution I can understand, the sentiment stated, but there is nothing conservative about a revolution. It's the opposite of conservatism.
Thank you for giving a decent reply. Nice to be able to chat about these subjects without people questioning my salvation or standing with God.
Well, I don't want to cover all American conservatives with a wide brush (neither should you, you see). Currently, we are still a collection of different philosophical groups that were forged into a movement to fight communism and Western Liberalism about sixty years or so ago. I can divide them into three main groups for you in relation to the War for Independence.
1. Those who are monarchist and find the idea of revolution distasteful. These people are, more often than not, Catholic. So there is a bit of irony in that France, Spain, or some other devotee of the Holy See would have loved to take a shot at England.
Very few in number.
2. Those who celebrate the Fourth of July and view it from the perspective of Edmund Burke. They believe that the War for Independence was fundamentally about the British over-extending their authority and violating the right to self-government established in colonial charters, covenants, contracts, combinations, etc. etc. etc. Our separation and assertion of national sovereignty is then seen through a different lens than a revolution. More a reaction and severing. This relates American conservatism a bit more to European conservatism that is exemplified in almost any nation.
This sort of American conservative has a habit too of being more choosey with their Founders. They have less love for those with a more revolutionary impulse and thought that the nation would be better off without their influence.
Editorially, this is the camp I fall with. It took awhile though and not without reading a copious amount of original material.
3. Others embrace revolution of the American variety with all its revolutionary nomenclature because ours was a just revolution. The crown was tyrannical and inept with out people as monarchy often (but not always) is. The fiber of our national being including political traditions was violated; we then had a right to alter or abolish the order as such. So we did.
Will of the people and influence of culture, tradition, family, church, etc (generally conservative lodestars) are seen generally as more important than the government. Should the government interfere with these higher bastions of conservatism, it renders itself fit to undergo another revolution. It is not desired, but remains a nuclear option for this camp.
This is probably the most common with variations within.
Either way, I hope this helps further your understanding and lessens your confusion.