you can talk in special ways to different people,like my closest 3 women cousins are more sisters too me so i can share my heart,respectfully of course,i have some sisters i can say sweetie,honey babe best friend too and they know my heart and i ask beforehand then a guy can know thats only respectful to ask,like my afican dance teacher and i are great friends i can give her a kiss on the cheek after dance class my friens sarah who has a boyfriend great guy too,from the coffeehouse,i can say hi sweetie,and she says it too me,know your friends well,some women friends and sisters in Christ i can only call them by thier name even close 1's thats o.k. like me you can call me jeffrey jeffrey mark or jeff,i do not mind special names at all but thats me.also know the setting your in with your friend and the mood that your both in as well,i was taught.be blessed in a spiritual christian bbf allways friendship that is deep strong high as i believe most are mine are,we have a Spiritual Christian Pure Love,the highest expression of Love i personally believe.Wefocus on Our Lord Jesus Christ in all Realms of our life from Prayer/Church too coffee or tea time from sharing what God Showed us in our Daily Devotional to hey how was your work day,or hows ur pizza ect,we r in each others lives,I deeply strongly personally spiritually believe as a Gift too each other to serve and help each other encourage pray and bless each other,in Jesus Love as He Showed us how too live it and express it in the Holy Gospels,me i think much that i am very hard to like even harder too love,sorry every 1 i am imperfectWe are being perfected in the Image and Likeness of Our Lord Jesus Christ,and this is what really totally amazes me,Jesus use us to perfefect each other in many different ways all the time allways this i totally fully strongly compeltely spiritually believe in my heart and i choose too live it out daily in all my Friendships at all Realms in my life that are Given Placed in Jesus Perfect Heavenly Agape Love and All Blessings to myself this is my prayer that we choose to bring out all the inner beauty gifts talents of our Frieidship Frienshiips.Lets do all of this too each other for each other remember our Spiritual Christian FriendShips are Eternally Eternal in Heavenly Heaven Amen.