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I'm fedup of all the accusing on here were suppose to love our brothers and sisters not accuse, but all I hear is accusation. And if you try and give some idea and incite then they think your trying to be a profit or holier than though attitude.
Nobody listens & think they know it all.
Let me say I don't and never will know it all, at least people should listen to one another without blame, accusations and attacking another because they dont understand the Spirit of the Father, instead there constantly looking at the word thinking that that will lead them to Christ. How can they them selves turn round and try leading another to Christ when they themselves are blind?
 
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I understand brother Andy what you are saying. Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom and His peace and presence is there as He is pleased...... Pray Pray Pray for God to be glorified in this place, and Gods Holy Spirit will be our guide.....Love in Christ Sherril.....
 
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I understand brother Andy what you are saying. Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom and His peace and presence is there as He is pleased...... Pray Pray Pray for God to be glorified in this place, and Gods Holy Spirit will be our guide.....Love in Christ Sherril.....
PS.Brother Andy you are a blessing let the Lord continue to flow through you as ministry comes forth, we are here to be the light to a dark world, Andy there are so many carnal christians needing a touch from the Lord....bless you Andy God is good.....love in Christ Sherril....:)
 
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I'm fedup of all the accusing on here were suppose to love our brothers and sisters not accuse, but all I hear is accusation. And if you try and give some idea and incite then they think your trying to be a profit or holier than though attitude.
Nobody listens & think they know it all.
Let me say I don't and never will know it all, at least people should listen to one another without blame, accusations and attacking another because they dont understand the Spirit of the Father, instead there constantly looking at the word thinking that that will lead them to Christ. How can they them selves turn round and try leading another to Christ when they themselves are blind?
You said something very interesting here, which reminds me of this:

[39] You search the scriptures, because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness to me;
[40] yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. John 5:39-40 RSV

People seem to think the Bible is an end in itself, rather than realizing the Bible is meant to point us towards Jesus.

I agree that people need to be more respectful.
 
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You said something very interesting here, which reminds me of this:

[39] You search the scriptures, because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness to me;
[40] yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. John 5:39-40 RSV

People seem to think the Bible is an end in itself, rather than realizing the Bible is meant to point us towards Jesus.

I agree that people need to be more respectful.
The thing is the words came to mind resurrection33 yes I looked them up to make sure the wording was correct.
It is said I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. haha not the bible.
Yet must be together as its the word of God.
God Bless you always
resurrection33
 
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I'm fedup of all the accusing on here were suppose to love our brothers and sisters not accuse, but all I hear is accusation. And if you try and give some idea and incite then they think your trying to be a profit or holier than though attitude.
Nobody listens & think they know it all.
Let me say I don't and never will know it all, at least people should listen to one another without blame, accusations and attacking another because they dont understand the Spirit of the Father, instead there constantly looking at the word thinking that that will lead them to Christ. How can they them selves turn round and try leading another to Christ when they themselves are blind?
The BDF has been like that since I joined, in 2011. Don't count on it changing anytime soon.
 
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The BDF has been like that since I joined, in 2011. Don't count on it changing anytime soon.

It seems to be getting worse daily. I venture in rarely and its nothing but a free for all. Its like jackals looking for prey. Like trying to survive Jumanji. smh
 

Huglife

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You have been in the Bible Discussion Forum to much.... That place is a war zone, I tell you. It makes good CC users delete their accounts faster then Usain Bolt in a 1k run....

Go to da happy threads.....
 
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You have been in the Bible Discussion Forum to much.... That place is a war zone, I tell you. It makes good CC users delete their accounts faster then Usain Bolt in a 1k run....

Go to da happy threads.....

Lol! lol thank you! I needed that laugh today. :) I think I will try and take that advice and steer away from the BDF. Rough crowd. :(
 
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The thing is the words came to mind resurrection33 yes I looked them up to make sure the wording was correct.
It is said I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. haha not the bible.
Yet must be together as its the word of God.
God Bless you always
resurrection33
Thanks, Andy.
 

WineRose

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Yes, I agree, it's pretty bad, but hey, this is just how flawed human beings are, and there will always be some Christians out there that will act that way, no matter what you do. The best you can do is not be like one of these people.
 

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I understand your frustration Andy. Sadly, it can seem like, "saved or not saved people are still people!" :(
 
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You have been in the Bible Discussion Forum to much.... That place is a war zone, I tell you. It makes good CC users delete their accounts faster then Usain Bolt in a 1k run....

Go to da happy threads.....
Yea your correct, and I was seriously thinking about it. Then I remembered someone said I should hang round the form for a while
 
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I apologize for being one of these people.

I have ADHD and bipolar so my posts are tainted by that.
 
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I apologize for being one of these people.

I have ADHD and bipolar so my posts are tainted by that.
I don't recall your name, but I'm sure your not to bad brother.
:) I do sometimes recognize some problems, & and try to help. I'm learning to that people Have been hurt and do sometimes lash out at others.
God Bless you
 

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I'm fedup of all the accusing on here were suppose to love our brothers and sisters not accuse, but all I hear is accusation. And if you try and give some idea and incite then they think your trying to be a profit or holier than though attitude.
Nobody listens & think they know it all.
Let me say I don't and never will know it all, at least people should listen to one another without blame, accusations and attacking another because they dont understand the Spirit of the Father, instead there constantly looking at the word thinking that that will lead them to Christ. How can they them selves turn round and try leading another to Christ when they themselves are blind?
***When Christ was on Earth who did He have the most problems with?
 
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***When Christ was on Earth who did He have the most problems with?
Do you not know? If your trying to point something out, then do it. Information is found out in the Bible which is Gods word.
 

Roughsoul1991

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Everyone needs accountability partners on each end of a debate. With enough love tell their side when someone gets alittle out of line.

It all starts with you the individual to do right. Set the example and others will follow.

In remembrance that people are still human and even the nicest person can lose their cool every now and then. We are creations with emotions and many times emotions speak through words. This is why if you listen so carefully, you can pick up on how the individual is feeling.

Some feel inadequate, threatened, fear of being wrong, or just love the drama.

Its even harder to determine how to handle emotions as you cant hear the voice tone or body language.

But one things for sure if you dont never get your feet wet, how will you ever learn to swim?

Meaning you can talk about doing and promoting right all day and nothing will change. But turn those words into action and this is how a ripple affect begins.

Jump into a discussion with lots of hostility and with your main purpose of being there is to promote peace.

Anyone who actually is following Jesus would only want the same and take your words to heart even if they in the wrong.

It all starts with I. Be the example. I personally would love to have my own personal peace reminder lol.

Sadly even people that dont deserve harsh comments get caught up in it because another person said something mean and they take that hurt out on the whole party of the opposition.

I know mailmandan deserves my apologies. I lost my cool with him a few days ago.

But time goes on. We live and learn. And learn to live. Glory be to God.
 
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Everyone needs accountability partners on each end of a debate. With enough love tell their side when someone gets alittle out of line.

It all starts with you the individual to do right. Set the example and others will follow.

In remembrance that people are still human and even the nicest person can lose their cool every now and then. We are creations with emotions and many times emotions speak through words. This is why if you listen so carefully, you can pick up on how the individual is feeling.

Some feel inadequate, threatened, fear of being wrong, or just love the drama.

Its even harder to determine how to handle emotions as you cant hear the voice tone or body language.

But one things for sure if you dont never get your feet wet, how will you ever learn to swim?

Meaning you can talk about doing and promoting right all day and nothing will change. But turn those words into action and this is how a ripple affect begins.

Jump into a discussion with lots of hostility and with your main purpose of being there is to promote peace.

Anyone who actually is following Jesus would only want the same and take your words to heart even if they in the wrong.

It all starts with I. Be the example. I personally would love to have my own personal peace reminder lol.

Sadly even people that dont deserve harsh comments get caught up in it because another person said something mean and they take that hurt out on the whole party of the opposition.

I know mailmandan deserves my apologies. I lost my cool with him a few days ago.

But time goes on. We live and learn. And learn to live. Glory be to God.
Thank you I appreciate your comment.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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You have been in the Bible Discussion Forum to much.... That place is a war zone, I tell you. It makes good CC users delete their accounts faster then Usain Bolt in a 1k run....

Go to da happy threads.....
lol

it does usually seem like that

but not always...

ive personally been inspired to go back to the word by a couple members

ariel has inspired me
slave has inspired me
fourth angel
and even that youngin who gave me a heads up i was out of line made me reflect


ive also seemed to have been met with discussion a few times....


but i cant deny

for the most part
it is a war zone...

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