Siberian...Christians do judge...but not the heart ...do you see the diff?
we can discern and see if something is of God or not...so often...and I don't know you well enough to say you are doing this, but so often folks come on here and judge the heart and soul out of someone...put them under condemnation
when a judge makes a ruling, its taken as final...so, if we are going to judge, then we had better be right, eh? see, in the judgement that some make, it is condemning because it basically states...well, you are not sincere, or you are a fake or whatever
so, that is where I'm coming from...God knows all our hearts anyways...better to believe in good faith then say something that causes someone to leave because they are hurting or mixed up
hope that makes sense