Proposing

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I have the best gf in the world. weve been together for almost 2 years. She knows all my deep darkest secrets and she accepts everything about me. im trying to fix all my problems right now and she supports me. I am wanting to propose to her but not quite sure yet where to do so...any suggestions?
 
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ZzZ_Faithful_ZzZ

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Never did understand jumping out of a perfectly operating aircraft, however you're young and it would be pretty exciting proposing at 12,000 feet in the air...
 

T_Laurich

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Be romantic... I am not saying that do a cliche' I will bring you the moon romantic... But do something that is romantic between you two... Such as if you and her had your first kiss in a 7-11 maybe you put a picture of 7-11 on the box...(worst example I know)

Make it very sentimental...

But be yourself... If you are not the romantic type don't go overboard... Show her what she should expect for the rest of her life with you...

And NUMBER ONE THING don't go on the internet and go wow this guy proposed like that so I should too.... Do it a unique way, put thought and love into it!
 
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Missachu

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I wouldn't get married until you've got your priorities together. Two years isn't long enough. You don't know someone until at least 3 years.

But if you feel like it's the right thing to do at the right time, then I suggest doing it on your anniversary. Just tell her what she means to you, give her the reasons why you want to marry her and then get on your knees and show her the ring. A plus would be somewhere with a view that you both would enjoy.
 
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ZzZ_Faithful_ZzZ

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So much for love at first site? ;)
 

maxwel

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I've heard of people hiding the ring inside of food ...
ya know, like inside a pheasant at a fancy restaurant.

But there's always the possibility the girl could swallow it.
Then what do you do?
Years later people will be asking where you proposed, and you'll have to say,
"At the proctologist's offfice."

: )
 
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danschance

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Go on YouTube and look at other proposals to get some good ideas.

If she is an extrovert, do it in front of people.
If she is an introvert, consider doing it in front of her family or her dose friends.

Make sure she has no clue about what you are planning. Then the surprise will be greater.

Make it about her and not you. Try and include things she likes or places she likes. It might be nice to propose where you first met.

Good luck.
 
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12tribes1King

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Just a suggestion, bring her to a nice restaurant near to where you first met her and fell in love. Order her favorite food and drink, take her hand in yours, look her in the eye and tell her how much it means to have her in your life, let her know how much she has made you happy while being part of your life and that you love her more than any other women and more with every passing moment spent together, let her know that you will do your best to care for her and that you will honor and love her always and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her :)
 
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ZzZ_Faithful_ZzZ

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There's always the jumbo tron at a sporting event.. All be it not so romantic..
 

maxwel

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There's always the jumbo tron at a sporting event.. All be it not so romantic..
I'd be careful with the jumbotron... girls can be very insecure.

"Hey, hey, hey... why are you proposing to me on the jumbotron?
Are you trying to say I'm fat?

: )

Be very afraid.