You guys have given some wise and powerful answers. As I have gotten older and closer to God I. Have abstained from sex. The subject seems to come up in just about every conversation that I have with most people. Young people, older people, women, men, everybody has sex on the brain. The magazines, tv, movies, the internet, everywhere you turn.its been a long time since I was sexually active. My whole outlook on the subject has changed. I guess I was just like everybody else before and didn't pay much attention to how much focus was on it. Now it just seems to irratate me how much focs is on it. At this point it doesn't have any power over me. I feel empowered and thankful to God that it doesn't have a hold on me anymore. I see it for what it is. I look forward to seeing what others have to say about it.