Should a married man offer to help a single woman with cancer?

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Eugeniamarie

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My husband offered to help a single female with leukemia. She texted him often for help. He did his best to help her and she was very grateful. Then she began to tell him she was in love with him and say sexual things to him. What should he do? Or what would you do?
 
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kenisyes

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First, tell her no. My wife and I always made certain we were together at the second meeting, if not at the first, with any such potential situation. If he/you do not wish to end his and her relationship completely (so you can help her together), then invite her to meet with the both of you, and get to know you as a couple. Of course, if you/he decide to never see her again, then tell her so, and do whatever you have to do to make it happen.
 

KBond

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Jun 5, 2013
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Your husband's rejection of her sexual advances will most likely result in bitterness and resentment. To prevent any issues, he should have nothing to do with her. Agreeing with kenisyes' comment...if she sincerely needs help and cannot get help anywhere else, you should be the one to help.
 
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libertygirl

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He can find a woman at his church who is willing to help her or she can talk to a chaplain from her hospital. There are female chaplains too. Your husband's priority should be to protect his marriage. This woman doesn't need your husband, she needs Jesus.
 

yac11

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Mar 24, 2013
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Yes, yes and yes...libertygirl is correct she just needs Jesus for the Love and every other need can be taken care of with someone from the church. You could be part of that....finding the right Godly person to help a broken soul deserving of help.

Amen