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Mobiosity

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Thanks for the warning. I'll try to love them out of it, if it's get's too bad, I'll leave and let the site managers know why.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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If I wanted to be attacked, I'd have gone to an atheist site and proven to them that God has touched me. The level of anger coming from depleted is disheartening, if she's so nasty to a sister in Christ, how does she act around those who don't believe. If Holy Spirit reveals something to me in my Scripture reading, why should I test it further?
you ignored or didnt notice my posts to you....

but quick character witness for "depleted"

(lynn)


she is a lovely woman with a soft heart

she has proven it to me many times

you are acting like she is too judgemental
but judging her in the process...



being easily offended is just as bad as being offensive

how about we all go back to the issue the OP is addressing


is performing or choosing to recieve transgender surgery a sin......

i feel like my posts covered this pretty well

(with scripture)
 

blue_ladybug

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What's the point of having surgery? Or taking hormones? Or dressing as the opposite sex? A person CANNOT truly change their gender...
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Mobiosity: There seems to be a lot of attacking on this site. I would say it is intolerant and some things that are said are downright shocking like ... "I will pray that God sends an earthquake to California". Sounds more like the Taliban than Christianity in some cases. If you are one that refuses to discriminate against you are in deep trouble on this site. To not do that is the same as siding with.


huh?

this sounds like a bunch of emotion based on your opinions of a few individuals.....

anyways

i agree that many on this site often choose react to debates in a fleshly manner and not in a way according to the spirit...


but its often also the opposite


just because someone says something you dont like or agree with

doesnt make them "intolerant"

and being intolerant of some things is actually good


for instance

i will not allow harm to be done to children if i can physically stop it


if some random man tried to abuse a child in front of me

and i stop him

am i intolerant?
 

Mobiosity

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What's the point of having surgery? Or taking hormones? Or dressing as the opposite sex? A person CANNOT truly change their gender...
As far as I can tell the point of them having surgery is to be happier in their own skin. If this will keep ANYONE from killing themselves it should be allowed after enough psycho-therapy to make sure that is what is warranted.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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I'm sorry I'm not here enough for you.
All I've seen is "it's wrong". Hence the "eww".
I've been shown no scriptural evidence.
I don't see myself as superior in any way. I don't understand the problem that folks have with people being treated to match their minds with their bodies.
if someone has a mental issue

you dont mutilate their body....

you purify their mind

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1 cor 6

19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.


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Psalms 55:22 - Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved


Romans 12:2 - And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

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does this mean one of these lost souls who have this surgery could not be forgiven?


NO.


1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

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but you need to see sin as sin....
in order to ask for forgiveness.....


Ezekiel 36:26
26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.


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this comes with a transformation....

and that initial mental issue that made them so confused they felt pain because God made them a man or woman will now be replaced

because their new heart will desire Him and His will

not their own pleasures or fleshly wants....
now notice

hebrews 10


35 Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.

36 For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.

37 For yet a little while, and he that shall come will come, and will not tarry.

38 Now the just shall live by faith: but if any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him.

39 But we are not of them who draw back unto perdition; but of them that believe to the saving of the soul.
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john 6


28 Then said they unto him, What shall we do, that we might work the works of God?

29 Jesus answered and said unto them, This is the work of God, that ye believe on him whom he hath sent.

37 All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.

38 For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.

39 And this is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.

40 And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day.

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1 John 2:19
19 They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.



those who were not of us (not born again saved children of God)

stop believing

but they also

Romans 1:27-29
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,


Isaiah 5:20
20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!

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they also do not acknowledge sin as sin

they switch good and evil around in their minds

denying Gods order and place as the one who decides what is just

and what is wicked


bump out of love




(love is wanting the best for someone... to the point of sacrifice....
which to a drug addict isnt giving them free drugs or making excuses for them... its telling them the truth even if they hate you for it)
 

blue_ladybug

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They may FEEL happier as the opposite gender, but the fact remains, they CANNOT TRULY change their gender. If they were born female, they will die female. If they were born male, they will die male. IMO, more transgenders get murdered for changing their gender, than they do from suicide. I speak from personal experience on that one.


As far as I can tell the point of them having surgery is to be happier in their own skin. If this will keep ANYONE from killing themselves it should be allowed after enough psycho-therapy to make sure that is what is warranted.
 

Mobiosity

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(love is wanting the best for someone... to the point of sacrifice....
which to a drug addict isnt giving them free drugs or making excuses for them... its telling them the truth even if they hate you for it)
Most addicts know they're addicts and would be free if they could. Others aren't yet ready to face having to give up the joy they get from the drugs.
 

Blain

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I live right next to one actually, I don't agree with the persons choice but I don't judge him for it or her I have never really known what to call this person. I mean he identifies as a female but the issue is you can get all the surgery you want but you see the x and y chromosomes are what decides if ones is male of female and you can't change that it's in your dna
 
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NoNameMcgee

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the joy they get from the drugs.
what you get from drugs isnt true joy


the same way what you get from feeding a strange lust isnt joy
if you want true joy

it comes from Christ
 

Blanche

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Originally Posted by NoNameMcgee


if some random man tried to abuse a child in front of me

and i stop him

am i intolerant?

NoName McGee
: That is an argument from false equivalency. You are not seeing that some of the comments are very intolerant, downright hateful even .... or you are choosing to ignore things like:

1) Praying to God an earthquake hits California
2) The man who immolated himself ... a whole thread on that ... just a way to disparage ALL gay people and paint them in a negative light. The man was ill, mentally ill, most probably and he committed suicide in a most horrific painful way. Yet not one comment said "Oh that is awful. I feel bad for him". No. Just 6 pages of hatred. That is not Christianity.
If you believe it is a sin and that all sin is the same, then why that thread? Why is there never a thread on the awful divorced Christians who remarry?

No, what is happening on this site is that we are "otherising" people. Historically: we did it to the Jews, we did it to the blacks, we go all the way back and Christians used their Bibles to justify having slaves, then discrimination laws that made them little more than slaves. It was wrong then and it is wrong now.

Jesus: "Love thy neighbour as thyself" ... I am pretty sure he meant ALL of your neighbours regardless of colour, religion, lack of religion, etc. Yet the hatred of those whose sexuality is "different", of Muslims, and others I will not mention ... goes on and we make excuses.

Yes, they may be fine people, but when they are saying nasty things, it is un-Christ like.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Originally Posted by NoNameMcgee


if some random man tried to abuse a child in front of me

and i stop him

am i intolerant?

NoName McGee
: That is an argument from false equivalency. You are not seeing that some of the comments are very intolerant, downright hateful even .... or you are choosing to ignore things like:

1) Praying to God an earthquake hits California
2) The man who immolated himself ... a whole thread on that ... just a way to disparage ALL gay people and paint them in a negative light. The man was ill, mentally ill, most probably and he committed suicide in a most horrific painful way. Yet not one comment said "Oh that is awful. I feel bad for him". No. Just 6 pages of hatred. That is not Christianity.
If you believe it is a sin and that all sin is the same, then why that thread? Why is there never a thread on the awful divorced Christians who remarry?

No, what is happening on this site is that we are "otherising" people. Historically: we did it to the Jews, we did it to the blacks, we go all the way back and Christians used their Bibles to justify having slaves, then discrimination laws that made them little more than slaves. It was wrong then and it is wrong now.

Jesus: "Love thy neighbour as thyself" ... I am pretty sure he meant ALL of your neighbours regardless of colour, religion, lack of religion, etc. Yet the hatred of those whose sexuality is "different", of Muslims, and others I will not mention ... goes on and we make excuses.

Yes, they may be fine people, but when they are saying nasty things, it is un-Christ like.
no
youre wrong

i agreed many on the site act in a fleshly way

(but you chose to delete a large part of what i said)

you however are conflating what some people say with everyone

you are new to the site
so i guess i understand having a limited understanding in regards to how many brothers and sisters in Christ here will speak according to the spirit much more often than not


secondly

i havent read every single post like the silly ones you mention out of context

who would HONESTLY pray for an earthquake on a city?


you ought to pray for Gods will to be done on a city

if thats an earthquake who are we to judge?

but to ask for that seems ridiculous

like maybe it was an off hand remark after someone was baited


or said by someone currently acting according to the flesh


as for speaking against people who choose to feed their lusts to the point of being a practicing homosexual

ehhh

well hate the sin
not the sinner

but the "gay pride" agenda is a horrible cancer that uses one sin to push another

filled with shame tactics
and lies to manipulate those who speak against this movement



i have yet to see you say anything Christ like

so whats your standard?


mine is love

ive seen this from lynn if thats who youre accusing
 
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NoNameMcgee

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no
youre wrong

i agreed many on the site act in a fleshly way

(but you chose to delete a large part of what i said)

you however are conflating what some people say with everyone

you are new to the site
so i guess i understand having a limited understanding in regards to how many brothers and sisters in Christ here will speak according to the spirit much more often than not


secondly

i havent read every single post like the silly ones you mention out of context

who would HONESTLY pray for an earthquake on a city?


you ought to pray for Gods will to be done on a city

if thats an earthquake who are we to judge?

but to ask for that seems ridiculous

like maybe it was an off hand remark after someone was baited


or said by someone currently acting according to the flesh


as for speaking against people who choose to feed their lusts to the point of being a practicing homosexual

ehhh

well hate the sin
not the sinner

but the "gay pride" agenda is a horrible cancer that uses one sin to push another

filled with shame tactics
and lies to manipulate those who speak against this movement



i have yet to see you say anything Christ like

so whats your standard?


mine is love

ive seen this from lynn if thats who youre accusing
whoops

i said "everyone"

but you didnt make that claim

you said many or "a lot of"

the rest of what i said i stand by
 

PennEd

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Most addicts know they're addicts and would be free if they could. Others aren't yet ready to face having to give up the joy they get from the drugs.
So it's all about joy, and what makes you feel happy in the moment? Scripture says it's NOT about enjoying the pleasures of sin for a season. The OPPOSITE of what you are preaching.

Hebrews 11:24-26 King James Version (KJV)

24 By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter;
25 Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;
26 Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward.

You are also 'attacking' us by your own definition. Erecting HUGE strawmen by saying we are "vicious" and also either do, or endorse, screaming in women's face about abortion.

People here have repeatedly said that although transgenderism, homosexuality, abortion, etc.. are sins, that those that engage in, or are thinking of engaging in, MUST be loved, WITHOUT compromising that they are in fact sin that should be repented of.. So STOP slandering us please.
 
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Depleted

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Hey mobiosity. As a former homosexual (gradually) I don't think i'm in the right place to answer this but I feel compelled to do so, so I would do just that.

Being transgender is just a forward stage of being homosexual (to me), it's more like saying i'm dating a girl and I feel like the man in the relationship so I might just as well be one. I for one think homosexual and the forward version comes to a person due to their surroundings and what they are faced with... somehow like a psychological problem (not necessarily a mental illness). I ended up a homosexual by mistake, I was very young and I didn't even know what I was doing... if I was cautioned at that time I could have seen the wrong but I wasn't and it affected my thinking.



I was still contemplating whether or not homosexuality was actually a sin. I once tried to defend myself by thinking that God didn't punish Sodom and Gomorrah for homosexual practice but for adultery and fornication or for the wrong way of practising homosexuality. In a thread I made I unconsciously defended it and in the process a member felt attacked... Yes, that's how deep it affects people. The thing is when I got here I was convinced to push it aside cuz it was an abomination (emphasis on abomination) meaning that whatever logic you use it is still a sin. I still tried defending it but then I saw a post in on one of the bed forums... either the let's play bible trivia or not by works (not sure about this)..... one of the two and the person quoted a verse in the bible that even supporting it (not practising) is a sin and then I decided that no matter how normal it may seem.. As long it is blocking my way to eternal life it isn't good for me.


I still get a little vexed when someone just says something off key like depleted's post saying their murder rate is high... totally not true.

Not sure if you can call it a mental illness but who am I to comment on that. A mad person will never admit he is mad.


I rest my case.
Still don't think you were homosexual. Abused, definitely, but not homosexual.

The following words are going to sound dated, possibly even silly, but they were the words I thought when I was in my early 20s (back in the 70s), so I am dated anyway.

I was raised Catholic, so have the Ten Commandments (Catholic style) memorized like most people memorize the alphabet. And, at that time, the only one I was sure I never did was #6. (Again, Catholic style, so that's the "adultery" commandment.) And then I was raped. To me, I broke the 6th commandment. I was a floozie, a tramp, a whore. I honestly considered myself all those things.

But, years later, someone finally got me straight. I did not commit adultery. I was raped. I did not instantly become a floozie, a tramp or a whore. I was raped. I was used for someone else's pleasure (and anger, and loathing of self and everyone else around them), and then discarded like a dirty tissue. That is not sex. That is not love. That is not choice.

I think you got the same raw deal but from people of your own gender. It may have turned you on your ear to think you were homosexual, but I don't think you were. That choice was taken from you.

So, I'm not a floozie and you're not a homosexual. Deal?
 
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Miri

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Mobiosity: There seems to be a lot of attacking on this site. I would say it is intolerant and some things that are said are downright shocking like ... "I will pray that God sends an earthquake to California". Sounds more like the Taliban than Christianity in some cases. If you are one that refuses to discriminate against you are in deep trouble on this site. To not do that is the same as siding with.

If a person says God send an earthquake to California. Yes that’s not loving or Godly
or Christian.

We are however called to show discernment and wisdom.

If a person posts something which is blantently against God’s word, then it would be
shocking if nothing was said anything and everyone agreed with them don’t you think.

Jesus revealed sin, then brought people to himself. Look at the woman of Samaria
she had many husbands. Jesus didn’t say, there there it’s all ok really.
He brought the sin out into the open and showed her true salvation and love
instead of the false love of her many lovers.



So what are we to do? Say there there go do what you want to yourself it’s all
right? Or do we say, you know that wrongs don’t you, now instead of looking
for wholeness or freedom by mutilating yourself, let’s show you the freedom
found in Christ.

That only works though if people are convicted at some point. Suppose the
woman of Samaria said to Jesus “ it’s none of your business if I
have many lovers, who are you to tell me this is wrong when it feels right to
me”. Do you think she would have been saved.

Conviction leads to repentance and salvation . Acceptance does not.

I do agree that some things are said a bit harshly, in part though it can come
across like that because we can’t see each other’s expressions body language or
hear their tone of voice.
 
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Depleted

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If you saw me dismiss anything other than your anger, please show it to me. I pray to our Lord and read His Word every day. And I ask Him to reveal to me what He wants me to get out of His Word.
Grab a piece of paper and pen/pencil, and tick off every response you got before you came back to "all I got was eww." How many really were "eww?" (Ladybug ewwed, more than once.) How many were not? You dismissed all the were-nots, or you lied. Your choice on which you rather call it.

Why would you assume that I am curious in some way that will make me sympathetic? Sympathetic to whom and why?
Oh, do understand. I don't even think you hit sympathetic, so I'm really not assuming you are. The word "sympathetic" was your word, so I used it.

Sympathetic people think enough about someone to understand what they're going through. Empathetic people dig in deeper to try and understand. Nothing in anything you've said leads me to believe you're sympathetic, and quite obvious you're not empathetic at all. Too deep diving into the glory within your self to take the time to even consider what anyone else is doing. And, after this many pages, I can tell that about you with the transgender issue or anything at all. Mostly you talk about how good you are and how less everyone else is.

But the reality is you talk from absolutely no understanding whatsoever. Not only do you know no one like this, you've never bothered to find out anything about it. Just off the top of your head, and why? To show off how "sympathetic" you are, and mean I am for calling you "bad."


(BTW, if you weren't so full of yourself, you could have actually gone for the real noun I did call you rather than the vague adjective. lol)

It proves nothing other than curiosity. My own personal opinion of my "shininess" would surprise you, but I doubt you'd be open to hearing it.

Judge much?

Why yes, I do judge much. Thank you for noticing.
1 Cor. 5:12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? 13 God judges those outside. “Purge the evil person from among you.”

through 1 Cor. 6:1 [FONT=&quot]When one of you has a grievance against another, does he dare go to law before the unrighteous instead of the saints?[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]2 Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if the world is to be judged by you, are you incompetent to try trivial cases?[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]3 Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life![/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]4 So if you have such cases, why do you lay them before those who have no standing in the church?[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]5 I say this to your shame. Can it be that there is no one among you wise enough to settle a dispute between the brothers,[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]6 but brother goes to law against brother, and that before unbelievers?[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]7 To have lawsuits at all with one another is already a defeat for you. Why not rather suffer wrong? Why not rather be defrauded?[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]8 But you yourselves wrong and defraud—even your own brothers![/FONT]

If you, supposedly a member of The Church, is this clueless about this, exactly why am I not supposed to speak up against you? Scripture speaks against what you think. If you gave one iota of compassion or sympathy you would have put in the effort to seek out the truth of those poor souls who languish in the worldly wisdom that talked them into mutilating their bodies that badly.

But nope, you're still expecting God to agree with you. God disagrees with mutilation of his creation. He highly disagrees with doctors so willing to foot their bill for their lifestyle choices that they have no qualms to do that to another human being. And he aches for what sin has reduced sad people into doing. Who will tell them what horror they're putting themselves into, if you'd rather sit back and do anything at all rather than learn of the horrors of transgenderism? We're supposed to be a light. Instead you are praising the darkness.

You betcha. I'm judging you!
 
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If I wanted to be attacked, I'd have gone to an atheist site and proven to them that God has touched me. The level of anger coming from depleted is disheartening, if she's so nasty to a sister in Christ, how does she act around those who don't believe. If Holy Spirit reveals something to me in my Scripture reading, why should I test it further?
If you go to an atheist site, they'd pull you to shreds in 1.5 seconds. The Holy Spirit revealed nothing to you in scripture reading. If he had, you'd be able to name it and tell why.