For anyone listening, since OP ain't.
If you're in a relationship (married or dating), and you wronged the person, is your goal to "repent" as a last-ditch effort to hang on? Or do you repent because you love the person and were being an idiot at the time you hurt him/her?
In like kind, are we "repenting" to get the permanent-vacation-plan when we die, or because we're in a relationship with God and we know we hurt him?
Christianity isn't time shares. It's not a down payment toward permanent-vacation. It's marriage. It's loving God this much that you will do for him. And, it's marriage in that, yes, sometimes we do get selfish and do for us when we think we're more important than him. That's called sin, and the reason to repent.
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