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After all I've done for you sirk (sniffs) listening to your guitar videos, agreeing with you about Trump....alas I have been left off the A list! hahah okay just kidding with the melodrama...
I love you as a bro in Christ Sirk! I would enjoy meeting a lot of people even the ones who disagree with me about stuff b/c as long as they have accepted Christ I am required to love them as part of the family of God!
I think a CC convention would be cool but be a massive undertaking.....it would probably be best to have just regional CC hangouts on google to ease the travel/logistics of it Plus hangouts allow you to be "there" w/o travelling we got good technology now we should use it!
I love you as a bro in Christ Sirk! I would enjoy meeting a lot of people even the ones who disagree with me about stuff b/c as long as they have accepted Christ I am required to love them as part of the family of God!
I think a CC convention would be cool but be a massive undertaking.....it would probably be best to have just regional CC hangouts on google to ease the travel/logistics of it
Plus hangouts allow you to be "there" w/o travelling we got good technology now we should use it!
I was sort of reading thru the posts the other day and the only one that mentioned me was skittles....at least that I saw anyway. I wanted to be offended. I even asked myself....are you an a-hole? Lol I probably am sometimes. I know what rejection feels like. I've suffered a lot of it in my life....and it was probably mostly my own thinking. Consequently I've noticed that I have some pretty tall walls around my heart lately. I am much more cautious with people in my day to day life. In fact, this is probably the only place where I typically let my true feelings be known for the most part. Except with my mom. I've grown really close to my mom. I sometimes wonder if I will ever let myself love someone on an intimate level. I've had girls that want to date me and it is strange that I am not even remotely interested. I used to be a serial dater...lol. That's how I ended up with a crazy person.
Sorry to go off on a tangent here but I was just trying to splain myself. Lol
Sorry to go off on a tangent here but I was just trying to splain myself. Lol
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Your posts have helped me a lot, I can relate to the walls and not trusting people b/c of rejection. I have had to deal with it most of my life and it has made me very jaded sadly. Christ is slowly melting it down but it's a process and not like a wall switch on/off button.......
I agree CC is a place I can let my true self show, outside I don't show my emotions to anyone really b/c I lack trust and am numb with pain......
I agree CC is a place I can let my true self show, outside I don't show my emotions to anyone really b/c I lack trust and am numb with pain......
Thanks for this bro. I respect you a lot and I can't believe I didn't think of you in my initial post. I had one girl that was pursuing me. Very beautiful woman. She told me I was jaded. I guess maybe she is used to men throwing themselves at her. I thought about that a lot....am I really jaded? I don't know if that description fits. I'm not angry or mean. I am thoughtful and complimentary to people. I still feel sadness in my heart when others are hurting. But I don't really open up to people that easily anymore. I don't think jaded fits for me. I think I am smarter because I know the consequences of bad decisions and lots of people are really screwed up in this world.
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Meeting people in person after you've gotten to know them online can either be a very pleasant or a very unpleasant surprise. Either way, the person...in person (awkward wording), is seldom like they are online. Sometimes that can be a positive, but it can also be very bad. The way some folks can misrepresent themselves online is unnerving.
As much as I enjoy my interactions with some folks here at CC, I wouldn't want to meet any of them, nor would I want them to meet me. I feel like meeting in person would shatter illusions, and I rely on those illusions to be able to maintain what little bit of the grasp on my sanity I have.
As much as I enjoy my interactions with some folks here at CC, I wouldn't want to meet any of them, nor would I want them to meet me. I feel like meeting in person would shatter illusions, and I rely on those illusions to be able to maintain what little bit of the grasp on my sanity I have.
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Hmm yea maybe not jaded for me either but more like nothing gets me too excited/depressed anymore....I sometimes feel like a robot coasting through life if that makes sense....people get excited over things and I'm like "I'm happy for you" but don't expect some emotional outburst of joy or something from me lol.....I've been betrayed by close people many times so much that I learned the hard way not to take people/things at face value anymore....I don't emotionally connect to people anymore unless I get to know them for quite a while and even then I reserve myself b/c people love to weaponize any dirt on others to make themselves feel better....if you don't give them that opportunity they have to look for another victim to vampire off of so to speak