Please help me. I need help.

I am in a horrible place. My girlfriend of two years parents says they will disown her if we continue to date. She had to make the choice between me and her family. They do not think I am financially stable enough to support her. Now that I have lost her, I am in soo much pain that I cannot stand it. I am here because I am ready to die. She still loves me and we talk often in secret, but it is so hard. Please offer advice.

I can't get her back for you, but I can tell you about someone who literally loves you to death and back, who will never leave you or forsake you, and who can heal you mind body and spirit.

Welcome to CC. This forum is only for introducing yourself. Feel free to post your OP in the Family forum instead..

I make plenty of money and am totally capable of supporting her. Her family is very involved with her life, even though she is 25. Her parents are rich though. I make less than 70k a year.

Thanks downtime. I am really trying to find a relationship with God but I don't really know how.

It's the same as any other relationship really, brother. If you want a relationship with Christ, you've got to get to know Christ. We definitely have the ability to do this through the Bible and through talking to Him through prayer. If there's anything I can help you with as far as that or anything else, feel free to shoot me a message on here.

KyleJacob:

I read your post las tnight; wasn't sure what to say. This morning as I was doing study; this was placed on my heat to share... ... ... "The Discovery That Changes EverythingYou are in the hands of a living, loving God. Randomcollection of disconnected short stories? Far from it. Your life is a craftednarrative written by a good God, who is working toward your supreme good.
God is not slipshod or haphazard. He planned creationaccording to a calendar. He determined the details of salvation “before thefoundation of the world” (1 Peter 1:20). The death of Jesus was not anafterthought, nor was it Plan B or an emergency operation. Jesus died “when theset time had fully come” (Galatians 4:4 niv), according to God’s “deliberateplan and foreknowledge” (Acts 2:23 niv).
God isn’t making up a plan as he goesalong. Nor did he wind up the clock and walk away. “The Most High God rules thekingdom of mankind and sets over it whom he will” (Daniel 5:21 esv). He“executes judgment, putting down one and lifting up another” (Psalm 75:7 esv).“The Lord will not turn back until he has executed and accomplished theintentions of his mind” (Jeremiah 30:24 esv). Look at these verbs: God rules, sets, executes,accomplished.These terms confirm the existence of heavenly blueprints and plans. Those plansinclude you. “In him we were also chosen, . . . according to the plan of himwho works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will” (Ephesians1:11 niv).
This discovery changes everything"

You are both adults

Always listen to the advice of your parents, but ultimately, you must make your own decisions.

If she really loved you she would have broken with those parents.
Corrie ten Boom, a Dutch evangelist who's already in heaven, had a boyfriend and they were talking about their future, but her brother warned her that he had said he'd never marry her, because she wasn't rich enough for his mother and he'd never go against his mother.
All of a sudden he stood at their doorstep with his new fiancee. She was heartbroken. Her dad said: You can let the love die but then a part of yourself dies or you can give it to God and ask Him to turn it into His Love. That way she just loved him as a brother and it enabled her to love the unlovable, like the nazi's in a concentration camp who killed her sister and the traitor who delivered them over to the Germans.
It works very well. Just give it to God and ask Him to turn it into His Love. I did it too, learned it from her, and He healed me.

hello to evryone

I agree with Willie..... Her parents had to have sweetened the pot. My ex in-laws offered my ex a new car if she divorced me.... She is obviously enjoying her new car. LOL

hello coby2 GOD bless you how are you

Welcome to Christian Chat, KyleJacob.

It is interesting how painful it can be to lose someone we love or someone we think we love. Part of the problem, I suspect, is we become too dependent on that person. We feel an incredible loneliness when that person is gone.

Two things stand between loneliness and me. First, there is the awareness that I am never alone – the Lord is always with me and happy to talk to me. Second, there is my church. I sing in the choir and have great fellowship with the choir members and the rest of the congregation.

I would suggest you try your best to forget the woman you are in love with. She apparently chose her family over you.

Just wanted to let you know I'm praying for you, man.

Kindly, may I ask, why you came to a forum, instead of going to a church? Is it because you were on the forums before?

Welcome to CC. I'm so sorry you're hurting!

ok Kyle...I get the hurt...I once had to break it off with someone and the pain was intense

about finding a relationship with God...we begin by acknowledging we have sinned and fallen short of how God created us

we need to get back into a good place with God...God says in the Bible that the way to do that, is by believing in His Son, Jesus Christ

Have you done that?

Thanks Downtime. I am using this opportunity to get close to God again.

That makes a lot of sense and brings me some peace. Thank you for your thoughts.