Please help me. I need help.

lol. I know how important her parents are to her so I don't blame her for her decision. After all, they are family.

Thank you. I will get through this. I just a moment of weakness.

I am on my way again, but I have fallen far from being close to Him.

I am currently getting back into the church and I appreciate your comments.

You make enough money. Even less than that is OK. When young,part of the best memories are the struggles.

The poor girls are better than the rich ones.

The bible will settle you down.

Read 1 and 2 samuel. (king david)

My first girl was a rich girl. The same thing happened to me. Momma put her up to dumping me. I knew her speech she gave me outside my parents home was scripted. It did not sound like her. I watched her get in momma's car and burn rubber from my house.

I got over it,then ended up in a REAL RINGER with the next one (a latina). Divorced her after 4 horrible years. That one drove me into the arms of Jesus.

What a relief.

"Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all these other things will be added unto you..."

Perhaps you will listen to me so I will give you my advice. Make sure you enter into God's rest. And understand scripture like don't worry about anything but pray about everything. Cast your cares to the Lord because He cares for you. Because as much as people want to ignore the wrath of God in this world there will always be some problem we have to face so to speak when we haven't entered into His rest.

Bro God said "I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for evil, to give you hope and a future" you just have to remember that he is God you can't put anything or anyone before him including your girlfriend the bible says Man does not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God(mark 4:4) you need his word not another persons relationship if he gives it to you it is because he is the giver of good gifts because he is your heavenly Father. Pray and ask that his will be done and submit to his will, he will give you who you are to be with when you're ready if it is your girlfriend then you will have her in the right way just trust him (proverbs 30:5) I suffer with you bro and will pray for you.

Coby2: I know this is easy for me to say, as someone who is not directly dealing w/the exact pain you are. But that said, we've all dealt with pain in our lives that is unbearable and seems unexplainable and unfair. And like we cant go on. I feel that way a lot. And that's just due to everyday things, things that don't compare to what you are dealing with: losing someone you love. But as a believer, please turn to God. Randomly open the Bible and see what verse He takes you too, and from there where your reading takes you. Its worked for me before, in the depths of despair. It will help. It wont solve everything right away, but you will see a glimmer of light. His light. And that's enough to hold on to. And its really the only thing in this world we can hold on to. And from that you can build, and find the love you need on this earth growing out of the Love He shows you everyday. I pray for you my brother.

I recently split with my ex, and I still loved him and was blind sided she I happened. Its hard and it hurts. I use the time to focus on god, work, and family. I have decided to start reading the bible from the beginning again. While praying for help and guidance. All I can tell you, is the pain gets a little less each day.

hi kyle.. May God bless you.. im obviously young and you all will probably say that im not mature enough to share my thoughts.. maybe its true but im still sharing them because i feel i have to.
im 24 and i suffered from a relationship.. but God.. my God.. revealed himself to me just like he always did. some will say she doenst love you because she chose her family over you.. but we are talking about her FAMILY not a car nor a house nor a carreer.. its a tough decision to make.. is she christian?? are you christian?? if its so, the first thing you two should do is pray pray and pray.. if what you guys have is true love.. came from God (because you can love with a love that is not from God and this one wont survive) God will restaure it. and remember kyle.. it will hurt but u have the choice to make it hurt less and less as the days pass by asking God for his help.. asking Him to carry your burden. ALWAYS look for help in GOD THE ALMIGHTY because HE is the one who provides HAPPINESS.. stop wondering if youll lose her or not.. if shell come back.. if she will change her mind.. just pray, talk to God as a friend, a confident, cry on his shoulder, laugh with Him, let Him see your sadness, your anger, your desperation.. dont hide anything from Him.. just because you CANT hide stuff from Him (He knows everything). Kyle i will pray for you.. stay stuck to your God so you cant miss His blessings.. stay blessed my brother

I dont know if she or her parents are Christians or not. She is old enough to make her own decisions, if she feels in her heart God is in your relationship it isn't up to her parents to forbid her. My husband had not job for much of the time we dated. But I knew he was a hard worker. Jobs just weren't available in our area,everyone was looking. He stood in line for hours just to get an interview at one place. Once we were married he changed jobs a couple times. Now he has a good job making good money. I could have left him because he had no job,in fact he said he'd understand if I did. But I knew who he was and he would find a good job. No one knows what will happen in life. In marriage the two become one,you face life together,her parents should have no say in it unless they are asked. You may have all the money in the world and lose it. You both need to make your decision together.