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I AM NOT PROUD... 13 years ago I had an affair with a married man. I was 22 and he was 50. I was actually the nanny for their youngest son for 2 years. The affair didn't happen until I moved out and accross the country. The father came to visit his second home where I lived and brought me out for dinner, then the affair began. It was strictly sexual. I was also good friends with his wife. Not only that, I was dating their 24 year old son at the time that still lived in another state. 3 months later, I met my husband, fell in love instantly and ended both the other relationships. I have never cheated again and have suffered through guilt immediately after affair ended. I finally forgave myself and started to rejuvenate my relationship with Christ. I have very little contact with that family, just Christmas cards. I haven't seen them since our wedding reception 10 years ago. They are now in their 60s and I assume their marraige is doing fine.
All of a sudden I feel extreme guilt again. I repented but don't know if I am totally forgiven. Do I need to confess to the wife what happened?
All of a sudden I feel extreme guilt again. I repented but don't know if I am totally forgiven. Do I need to confess to the wife what happened?