Help me plz

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Markconn

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I hurt soo much im doing my best to serve God through my marriage, but my wife doesnt hug me kiss me or anything without making it a big ordeal. She is ready to give up, and i hurt so badly by staying and serving because of my vow and promise. Help me plz! I cant take this it crushes me! Just want to blow up and leave, but my God says stay and serve. Im so sad! She pets the dogs but not me.
 
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oldernotwiser

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i would suggest counseling, and not by a pastor who counsels. there are fine christian counselors available. these are trained and licensed counselors, not pastors who will choose biblical texts that fit their own denominational position. if you cant find one i'm sure that a salvation army corps or institution can refer you to one. i'm praying for you
 
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Markconn

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Did it. She quit and told me to leave her
 
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Markconn

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I just see God looking at me and saying,"you call this suffering, look what i did on the cross for u"
 
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Markconn

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The counselor told me to leave her that is
 
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Markconn

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I so need help, im a father of 2 and my wife is tearing me apart. I want a scripture that says rest easy my son and go find a person that loves you
 
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Markconn

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Its not there!!!!
 
damombomb

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Lord thank you for peace in his heart,take this off him. Restore to him the joy of your salvation
In Jesus name,amen
 
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Markconn

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Rest isn't coming its tearing down the side of my face right now! Its years of this torment!! Years! And nothing is taking it! Im here to serve him now, and have been, but i so want deliverance. I would be happy if God would only take me now and say well done good and faithful servant. U messed up plenty but u kept ur word.
 
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Markconn said:
I so need help, im a father of 2 and my wife is tearing me apart. I want a scripture that says rest easy my son and go find a person that loves you
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1cor7:15

…14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. 15Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace. 16For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
 
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Markconn

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And if my wife does believe then what
 
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Markconn

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Suffer would be the answer
 
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Markconn

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I hurting so much, i just want to give up and leave! But i serve. It will never be recognized by anyone else, but yet i serve, its killing me!
 
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Markconn

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She is punishing me for what she believes i did to her..idk man this is like the 3rd time I've been here. Im a faithful husband im the only one that works, i work my butt off. I tell her how beautiful she is all the time. Had people pray over her and me. Had all of it!! But back here again. Counselor told me to run, and told her to never marry again if she cant be happy w/ a man willing to do anything to make her happy
 
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Markconn

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I so hurt my friend this cycle will not end i just want a release.
 
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Markconn

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Find me a scripture that tells me to leave! Its not there :( I've looked so many nights, its not there.
 
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Markconn

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I thank u for your time and prayers mom bomb sometimes there is no happy ending. Sometimes u just serve and suffer and the happy ending aint till the very ending. God be with you and urs
 
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Markconn said:
She is punishing me for what she believes i did to her..idk man this is like the 3rd time I've been here. Im a faithful husband im the only one that works, i work my butt off. I tell her how beautiful she is all the time. Had people pray over her and me. Had all of it!! But back here again. Counselor told me to run, and told her to never marry again if she cant be happy w/ a man willing to do anything to make her happy
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I can tell you from my experience,i did all that stuff,fasted all the above.Then one day the Lord said when are you going to
let me have it? Let Him have it, just put it in his hands, that brings quick results to trust him. Give it to God, when you have
done all you can do, stand.
 
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Markconn

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Thanks and bless u! Gn btw ur last advice touched me and glad God put those words through u. I do believe that, thanks for being the vessel!
 
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