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I don't think God ever truly Wants divorce, but He realizes that there are circumstances that call for it. Many people do give up to easily on their marriage, but sometimes it's what needs to be done. It depends on the reason for things. Not all divorces are about 'giving up', but about being wise.
I'm not suggesting this is what you need to do so much as to be careful about your attitude towards people who are divorced. We don't always know the situation behind it.
As far as figuring out how your husband still loves you or not, well, in the end only he knows. If we had any details we could make better speculations, but that's about it.
Perhaps your husband does still love you, but things have changed, as they often do in marriages. Are you making any attempts to improve things? Have you sat down and talked with your Husband about this? And not in an emotional, accusing manner, but in asking. And informing him how you feel. Discussing what you could each do to repair your marriage. This would probably be the best place to start, rather than strangers online.
I'm not suggesting this is what you need to do so much as to be careful about your attitude towards people who are divorced. We don't always know the situation behind it.
As far as figuring out how your husband still loves you or not, well, in the end only he knows. If we had any details we could make better speculations, but that's about it.
Perhaps your husband does still love you, but things have changed, as they often do in marriages. Are you making any attempts to improve things? Have you sat down and talked with your Husband about this? And not in an emotional, accusing manner, but in asking. And informing him how you feel. Discussing what you could each do to repair your marriage. This would probably be the best place to start, rather than strangers online.
sometimes you have to put commitment over feelings - very hard, only God can strengthen you in this
Return to the things that you used to do, those things that made you love him, and the same for him
read the 5 love languages, that might be a start
Satan does seek to destroy marriage so it's a battle