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Jebs

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Hello everyone.
I am in my late 20s, MK kid, just coming back to Christ's merciful embrace after a long stretch of confusion and disobedience. In all honesty I'm crawling back into the community of Christ out of pure fear and necessity for help in my weakness. I have been married for 6 years and have been getting to know my wife again after a few long years of enduring hardships in our marriage as young adults with two young children and a business ownership that has required me to work pretty much 24/7, seemingly forcing me to neglect the needs of my young family.. (Under the deception that I was "building a future" for them... To make a long story short, in the meantime, whilst being so absent from their lives, my wife has somehow fallen into full on demon worship, contacting entities and has subscribed to the lies of satan. Started with a fascination with crystals, new age metaphysical stuff, then conspiracies, ancestral interest and now full on witchcraft and black magic. I have watched the progressions. My wife and I have managed to maintain a solid friendship thru these hardships and I love that woman...my heart is breaking as I watch her go down such a decieving, dark path. Since I have 2 very young boys I am now worried for their safety as she herself has admited to the possibility of becoming possessed in the future by one or more of these entities she is contacting and is so caught up in these lies that she refuses to quit as she feels "more powerful and wise" since she has begun her summoning and rituals.. God have mercy on my precious family, I love my wife And my two boys and need your prayers for deliverance of my beautiful friend and partner who has been so greatly deceived...it's come from boredom, dispair, loneliness and depression and a whole lot of online new age rabbit trails..I feel responsible for it in my lack of presence and leadership with my fam. PLEASE pray for me and my wife and for wisdom for me as I make decisions in the days ahead of what action to take. She has had a very unhealthy upbringing in a broken home setting and that affects her ability to communicate well also. If anyone out there has gone thru something remotely similar and you read this, please contact me as I NEED someone that can relate to my situation and to hear and learn from your experience.
With love and desperation,
Jebs.
 
Sep 30, 2014
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I'm sorry to hear this, I will pray for you,you must kneel in a silent place and pray to Jesus daily, for however long your heart tells you. if you own a business though, this means you have money, you will need it. First try talking to her, bear your heart to her, tell her to please stop before she ruins everything y'all have created, let her know how sorry you are for not being there, and your there now. Tell her if it doesn't stop, you will have to take the children away. Repeat this with your heart trying to work it out, tell her Jesus loves her and to turn away from what she's doing. If she won't my suggestion is get the children, and move out. Hire a baby sitter and do what you have to, to get out of that situation, that is very unhealthy for the children, let God guide your path. It might take her seeing her family go before she realizes what she's doing. Be strong and keep Jesus on your mind, always. Trust in Him, have faith, and let God guide you.
 
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pastac

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Jebs peace to you and your house as you navigate this journey. Lord bless every need every care every petition as your will is carried for this family Amen
 

MartyrNdaMaKn

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Hello and welcome Jeb, delighted to have you here. I will keep you and your family in my prayers, that our Lord and Savior Christ Jesus would restore peace, love, and direction into your situation. God Bless.
 

Jimbone

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I would also suggest as a way for her to be able to see how powerful Christ is, and to help show the true intent of these "entities", have her use His name when they are present, to ask them what they think about the truth of Jesus Christ, and what they think about if she looked into His Holy name. Just a suggestion, but you do really need to try to get through, pray often and don't make a decision without doing so first. He will guide your way through this if you go to Him. We will pray for you and her as well, may God pour His healing, understanding, and power into you and her, and the whole family to deliver her from this deception.
 
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Jebs

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Thank you all, I am so broken in my heart, Christ is the only power that can deliver this household from the deceit. Please continue to reply as your support and words are uplifting and encouraging. Praise be to Jesus Christ, Lord of my heart.
 
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butterfly712

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Hello and welcome,I hope you enjoy it here. :)
 
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mommyoftwo

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I pray for God's hedge of protection. One thing that helps is to remind your self of God's promise to you and your family. Pray over your boys daily. Pray over your wife. Joel Osteen is a good source. Read his books they helped me when I was in a bad situation.
 
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bluebirdchaser

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I'm praying for you all too, Jebs. You're welcome here.