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Hi, I became a Christian almost 6 months ago. I had split from my partner of 16 years a few months earlier and was going through a really low point. I then met a really nice lady who I asked out on a date. We had been out a couple of times when she told me she was a Christian and asked me to come to her church. At first I was very skeptical, i was brought up catholic and hadn't been to church since I was a teenager - i am now 35- I had a very dim view of church but was blown away by the very lively worship team, and had never met such a friendly bunch of people!! To cut a very long story short - I became a Christian!! The problem I am having now is the premarital sex issue! We did discuss this at the beginning of our relationship, it was explained to me how 'it says in the bible' that sexual immorality is a sin. As I was a new christian and was really getting into the word, I assumed this would come to me in time. I have great respect for my girlfriends principles and have agreed to honour this, but the more i study the bible and discuss with other Christians the more trouble I am having with this!