harrassed by stalker....

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princessoffear

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Dear CC,
I need a lot of prayer because right now I am being harassed by a stalker. He claims he is in love with me, but I don't feel the same way about him, not even close. I can't even use the bathroom in peace because he always uses it after me. He has in the past collected my hairs from the bathroom I have used it. I have seen this large wad of my own hairs which he has collected in the past. Please pray this stalker will stop and leave me alone. My landlord won't do anything about it even though I have told him about it.
 
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Ugly

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Really nothing a landlord can do. You need to go to the police. And keep any and every bit of evidence that he is harassing/stalking you and continue going to the police with each new bit. The more you have against him the better. Just ignoring it and hoping it will all go away will do nothing to stop it.
 
RickyZ

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I'm guessing that you live in an apartment building with community bathrooms...

1. Call the police. Each and every time he does something.

2. Immediately upon hanging up with the police, call your landlord. Each and every time he does something.

3. Consider moving.

and as an option

4. Hire a really big 'boyfriend'.

These people as a rule do not back off. They escalate things until they are removed (a restraining order will mean nothing to him). The squeaky wheel gets the grease - which in this case means, the more you complain the sooner they remove him.
 
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VioletReigns

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Father God, You are so faithful and compassionate. I pray You keep this sister in safety and peace! Let her be delivered from this stalker. We ask that You would lead her to the right party who can help her, Lord. Thank You for hearing and answering these prayers. Praise you, Lord!
 
blue_ladybug

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I'm going to re-iterate what the other posters here have suggested. Go to the police. This man is clearly unstable. Also, get yourself some pepper spray and keep it on you AT ALL TIMES. Put a deadbolt lock on your apt. door, and make sure your windows are all locked. Keep a log of what he does to harass you, and when he does it. Get as much evidence as you can on this creep. File a restraining order ASAP. Get a safety bar to put against your door at night..It has an alarm on it that goes off if it senses movement on the door. (Some) stalkers break into their victim's houses, so be aware if anything seems out of place, or is missing. If you leave your house even for a few minutes, make sure your door is locked. Good luck..
 
SoulWeaver

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Praying you will live in peace again and be left alone... for that man to move far away and not return. Great advice from everyone.
 
levi85

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Lord Protect and preserve princessoffear, from this wicked person, and from also every power of darkness hovering over her, Lord you be her fortress, in Jesus name, AMen
 
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Lord my God, my Saviour my King, with you alone we can find shelter from the wicked. Lord i pray your amazing grace over princesoffear's life, her living conditions, her mind her body her soul, Lord i pray and declare protection and peace, your holy spirit be surrounding her.
I pray against her oposer, Lord i pray your spirit will touch his, i pray your light will shine unto his darknes, and correct where he goes wrong, Lord, reshape his heart, reshape his mind, so he will find understanding why not to harras his neighbor, but rather show proper respect and decent distance. Grant him peace of mind, peace of soul, only the way you can give mankind peace. Deliver him from the evil spirit behind lust and desires etc. So he will know the importance of brotherly/sisterly affection. Philia love our neigbor as we love ourself. Help us Lord, to show this friendly love, because "we have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But you said; love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, matt5:45) so Help us Lord to do your will, so your pressence will not be cast away from your princessoffear, let her turn from princesoffear, to princesofpeace.
Grant your Princess greater wisdom, patience, peace and love to overcome this evil, the way you desire women of God to represent you Jesus. Mighty prince of peace, only in you peace shall return.

Be on guard sis. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. (1cor16:13)

Let your words. be spoken with the same autority Jesus speaks to his violators. Rebuke him (the evil with the guy) in prayer but be compassionate to the sinner self in order to save his soul. Not to condemn him. (as long as you have to share living conditions at least). In the mighty name and grace of Jesus the Messiah i pray, amen
 
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Sirk

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Report him!!!....and use the buddy system until it's handled. So sorry this freak is tormenting you. :(
 
sandtigeress

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Please lord, remove that unhealthy attraction from princesses stalker
and help him to go see a psychiatrist. Amen.

princess, i have to say the same as my preposters, police !.
If he started to collect hair, then he is very very disturbed and some authority
needs to know and hopefully get him on the way to change and make him
understand, that you really really do not like him !

Untill then, prayers for you (!) are on the way.
 
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aforgivensonofGod

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I agree with everyone here. To call the police, notify friends and family of the situation. Have someone stay over at your place as much as possible. Consider moving out. Consider moving out. Did I say consider moving out?

And what I don't agree with is, calling this man a stalker or a freak. Even Jesus died for him. But as for your safety, do what you need to do to get rid of him, or for you to move.
 
blue_ladybug

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aforgivensonofGod said:
I agree with everyone here. To call the police, notify friends and family of the situation. Have someone stay over at your place as much as possible. Consider moving out. Consider moving out. Did I say consider moving out?

And what I don't agree with is, calling this man a stalker or a freak. Even Jesus died for him. But as for your safety, do what you need to do to get rid of him, or for you to move.
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This man has rightly been called exactly what he is: a stalker..one who watches her constantly..THAT is a stalker..
 
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aforgivensonofGod said:
I agree with everyone here. To call the police, notify friends and family of the situation. Have someone stay over at your place as much as possible. Consider moving out. Consider moving out. Did I say consider moving out?

And what I don't agree with is, calling this man a stalker or a freak. Even Jesus died for him. But as for your safety, do what you need to do to get rid of him, or for you to move.
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Sorry this fruitcake is tormenting you......there, I fixed it.
 
RickyZ

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aforgivensonofGod said:
I agree with everyone here. To call the police, notify friends and family of the situation. Have someone stay over at your place as much as possible. Consider moving out. Consider moving out. Did I say consider moving out?

And what I don't agree with is, calling this man a stalker or a freak. Even Jesus died for him. But as for your safety, do what you need to do to get rid of him, or for you to move.
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Jesus died to save the stalker/freak, not to rename him in the guise of political correctness. Lord Jesus, please save this stalker/freak!
 
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aforgivensonofGod

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RickyZ said:
Jesus died to save the stalker/freak, not to rename him in the guise of political correctness. Lord Jesus, please save this stalker/freak!
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Sirk said:
Sorry this fruitcake is tormenting you......there, I fixed it.
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blue_ladybug said:
This man has rightly been called exactly what he is: a stalker..one who watches her constantly..THAT is a stalker..
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The commandment which God has given unto us not to judge one another. To even love your enemies, and how Jesus didn't name any of you for what you really are. But instead called you son, and how when Paul was a murderer, God never once called him that. Instead called him his faithful servant. And how David was a man that stole someone wife, but for some odd reason, you think it has changed for the current situation. You think this "stalker" is worst than David, than Moses, than Paul. And you shout your mouth openly without thinking. You're no different than a babe. And your age doesn't give you the right to look down on anyone.

But you know, I'm glad we still have people who shows compassion. Even compassion to the very man who murder their own son "Parents of shooting victim provide home, job to man who killed son | Local News - WMUR Home"

Until then - learn what true humility is, and start walking with the Lord. In a way that will flip and change your life upside down. It's sad that most Christians are going beyond the age of 30, and still don't know what it really means to walk out of faith. And still haven't done anything that will flip this nation upside down.
 
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thisgirl

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Everyone is giving good advice. Take this very seriously. aforgivensonofgod you have a point best made in another thread. Protect yourself this person is definitely mentally unstable and will do you harm. God bless you & protect you.
 
RickyZ

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aforgivensonofGod said:
The commandment which God has given unto us not to judge one another. To even love your enemies, and how Jesus didn't name any of you for what you really are. But instead called you son, and how when Paul was a murderer, God never once called him that. Instead called him his faithful servant. And how David was a man that stole someone wife, but for some odd reason, you think it has changed for the current situation. You think this "stalker" is worst than David, than Moses, than Paul. And you shout your mouth openly without thinking. You're no different than a babe. And your age doesn't give you the right to look down on anyone.

But you know, I'm glad we still have people who shows compassion. Even compassion to the very man who murder their own son "Parents of shooting victim provide home, job to man who killed son | Local News - WMUR Home"

Until then - learn what true humility is, and start walking with the Lord. In a way that will flip and change your life upside down. It's sad that most Christians are going beyond the age of 30, and still don't know what it really means to walk out of faith. And still haven't done anything that will flip this nation upside down.
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You are absolutely right. Thank you for changing my mind.

Princess of fear, when this guys steals hair from the shower drain, 'turn the other cheek' and shave a few pubes for him. If he breaks down your door, hand him a key. If he stabs you in the chest, offer him your neck as well. Only by doing this will you be as righteous as afsog here.



Sheesh.
 
MultilingualMessenger

MultilingualMessenger

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Lord, please keep princess away from harm and help her to feel safe in her own house. Keep the stalker away from her. Also, please allow the stalker to see how what he is doing is creepy and unsettling, and that he should stop immediately. In Jesus' name we pray, fervently.
 
RickyZ

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Amen to that prayer.

And my apologies if my last was a bit rough around the edges.
 
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